Caught my husband at AMP

[Anonymous]

Have we covered how if OP was giving HE at home DH might not have sought it at an AMP?

[Anonymous]

I don't know what OP is so worked up.

DH is (maybe) getting a genital massage from a professional. He's not going to get her pregnant or marry her or catch an STD from her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have we covered how if OP was giving HE at home DH might not have sought it at an AMP?

You aren't very bright, are you?
Guys that are getting well drained at home still go to AMPs. Guys like variety.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you weren't 'handling' business at home.

That’s not why most men go.

Well, if she was giving him that massage at home, he wouldn’t need to go there.

Men that frequently have an addiction. It’s not about getting one release otherwise he would just do it himself.

Stupid to think self release is the same as releasing with your wife

The wife isn't working him at the massage parlor, friend.

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Anonymous wrote:These massage parlors should be more mainstream, and legal. I used to go a a chain for a legitimate, deep-tissue massage and the few therapists they had who specialized in it did a great job. Then I went to our local AMP place, admittedly for the happy ending and scheduled a one-hour massage.

I was not expecting much of a massage but she was amazing and walked on my back also. The massage concluded with the HE experience which seemed almost clinical and honestly, is the perfect ending to a relaxing massage.

I walked out of there feeling great and very relaxed and returned a few times since then. Scheduling is MUCH easier than the legit place and, although I've gotten a different woman each time, I was always satisfied. With the massage and the extra.

And guess what, the price was the same if not a bit less than the legit place although they do expect a higher tip so in total, just a bit more. But not a lot.

As far as I know, the HE HJ is the only thing on the menu but I never asked for more. The HJ is just the perfect conclusion to the massage. It's all pretty tame really and shouldn't be illegal in my opinion or looked at as such a shady business.

You seem quite satisfied and content with what you've done. Would you feel the same way if your wife went to a similar place of "business" except it was hyper-masculine men and the HE was also a "HJ"?

No, the only question should be, would PP feel the same way if the went to the parlor and he got a massage with HE from a man.

Don't know how that applies here, but that's not the way I roll.
I got no problem with your people though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't know what OP is so worked up.

DH is (maybe) getting a genital massage from a professional. He's not going to get her pregnant or marry her or catch an STD from her.

Not all are "HE" only. There are FS ones around.

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Anonymous wrote:Have we covered how if OP was giving HE at home DH might not have sought it at an AMP?

You aren't very bright, are you?
Guys that are getting well drained at home still go to AMPs. Guys like variety.

I’m actually quite bright and you have to start somewhere.

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Anonymous wrote:To the pp who went to amp, how much did it cost? Suspect my dh went before covid. Regular amount of cash withdrawn every two weeks. No explanation provided. Can you give more details about prices and schedule etc?

The guys at work say that a visit to a full service AMP will run you about $200.

Full service meaning P in V?

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry, OP.

You put on your oxygen mask right now. Let go of anything non-essential.

Confide in a couple of trusted people. You need support and outside perspectives.

Therapy.

Lawyer.

Make sure you have access to all of your finances and accounts.

You don't have to know what you're going to do today. You just have to keep breathing.

Hugs. I don't see how you could trust him again either. Or like him. And that's totally on him. He caused that. Now you just need to figure out what your best moves are, out of your (unfortunately) limited choices. But you WILL be OK. You are strong and you can handle this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry, OP.

You put on your oxygen mask right now. Let go of anything non-essential.

Confide in a couple of trusted people. You need support and outside perspectives.

Therapy.

Lawyer.

Make sure you have access to all of your finances and accounts.

You don't have to know what you're going to do today. You just have to keep breathing.

Hugs. I don't see how you could trust him again either. Or like him. And that's totally on him. He caused that. Now you just need to figure out what your best moves are, out of your (unfortunately) limited choices. But you WILL be OK. You are strong and you can handle this.

Guy got a handjob and now the world is coming to an end lmao

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:More exploitation, certain men get off on that

They are doing it willingly and making a lot of money. Not sure how you came to the conclusion that they are being exploited.

You don't know how willingly they are doing it. Maybe some are. But I used to live in a place where there really was a lot of human trafficking. Women in strip clubs and massage joints had their passports confiscated by the owners and they were essentially forced into prostitution. But if you met them at work they'd be friendly and smiling. You learn how to survive.

Outliers

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry, OP.

You put on your oxygen mask right now. Let go of anything non-essential.

Confide in a couple of trusted people. You need support and outside perspectives.

Therapy.

Lawyer.

Make sure you have access to all of your finances and accounts.

You don't have to know what you're going to do today. You just have to keep breathing.

Hugs. I don't see how you could trust him again either. Or like him. And that's totally on him. He caused that. Now you just need to figure out what your best moves are, out of your (unfortunately) limited choices. But you WILL be OK. You are strong and you can handle this.

Guy got a handjob and now the world is coming to an end lmao

Exactly. Dis bish be crazy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry, OP.

You put on your oxygen mask right now. Let go of anything non-essential.

Confide in a couple of trusted people. You need support and outside perspectives.

Therapy.

Lawyer.

Make sure you have access to all of your finances and accounts.

You don't have to know what you're going to do today. You just have to keep breathing.

Hugs. I don't see how you could trust him again either. Or like him. And that's totally on him. He caused that. Now you just need to figure out what your best moves are, out of your (unfortunately) limited choices. But you WILL be OK. You are strong and you can handle this.

Guy got a handjob and now the world is coming to an end lmao

DP- I think that PP was sarcasm.

"But you WILL be OK. You are strong and you can handle this"

Did OP even confirm someone touched her husbands genitals?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry, OP.

You put on your oxygen mask right now. Let go of anything non-essential.

Confide in a couple of trusted people. You need support and outside perspectives.

Therapy.

Lawyer.

Make sure you have access to all of your finances and accounts.

You don't have to know what you're going to do today. You just have to keep breathing.

Hugs. I don't see how you could trust him again either. Or like him. And that's totally on him. He caused that. Now you just need to figure out what your best moves are, out of your (unfortunately) limited choices. But you WILL be OK. You are strong and you can handle this.

Guy got a handjob and now the world is coming to an end lmao

DP- I think that PP was sarcasm.

"But you WILL be OK. You are strong and you can handle this"

Did OP even confirm someone touched her husbands genitals?

Of course not! But DCUM will DCUM regardless.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:More exploitation, certain men get off on that

They are doing it willingly and making a lot of money. Not sure how you came to the conclusion that they are being exploited.

You don't know how willingly they are doing it. Maybe some are. But I used to live in a place where there really was a lot of human trafficking. Women in strip clubs and massage joints had their passports confiscated by the owners and they were essentially forced into prostitution. But if you met them at work they'd be friendly and smiling. You learn how to survive.

Outliers

You just want to believe that.