Caught my husband at AMP

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you weren't 'handling' business at home.

That’s not why most men go.

Well, if she was giving him that massage at home, he wouldn’t need to go there.

Men that frequently have an addiction. It’s not about getting one release otherwise he would just do it himself.

Stupid to think self release is the same as releasing with your wife

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Offer to tug him. Use bleach as lube. That will get him to Urgent Care where they can run an STD panel. Go along to be sure the send results to your phone.

That's funny!

Does anyone remember the fairfax county police scandal? They "had" to get rub and tugs to completion to arrest the people running these places. True story!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Asian massage parlor 😢

Let’s not call it “Asian”, let’s say “fraudulent massage parlor” or brothel or human-trafficking sex center because that’s what it is

The first two characterizations are accurate, the third one is not.

How do you know?

Cause 99% of the time when LE busts one of the AMPs, it turns out the women are there of their own free will, earning some $ so they can live a better life than they had where they came from.

Stop spreading lies and misinformation. They're always human trafficking/sex trafficking and should be reported immediately.

NP. So you just make up your own facts? Let me guess, you are a justice warrior? Everything nowadays is sex trafficking Lmao

[Anonymous]

You guys are horrible. I think you people who are accusing SAHMs of being smug are the smug ones here.

I’m sorry OP. Something similar happened to me. I found out things were a lot worse than illicit massage parlors. If you’re in the same boat, be smart, not emotional. Think of your kids. Revenge is a dish best served cold. Not that this is all about revenge. But it is about protecting yourself and your kids. If you have kids. So be smart. Play the longer game. Document. Get a job if you don’t have one. Get yourself an emergency fund. Escape.

Hugs and best of luck to you.

[Anonymous]

I once went to one on a Sunday because it was the only place open and my back was killing me. It was an incredible massage but the place was very sketchy so I never returned.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m sure I’m not the only one this has happened to in this area. He says it was his first time, yeah right.

I don’t see how I can ever trust him again. He is the bread winner in our family, I have no idea what to do

How did you “catch” him?

What does this have to do with his earning potential?

As far as what to do, obviously you need to put out more.

Obviously she relies on his income so she feels vulnerable.

That’s an easy fix, get a job.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Asian massage parlor 😢

Let’s not call it “Asian”, let’s say “fraudulent massage parlor” or brothel or human-trafficking sex center because that’s what it is

The first two characterizations are accurate, the third one is not.

How do you know?

Cause 99% of the time when LE busts one of the AMPs, it turns out the women are there of their own free will, earning some $ so they can live a better life than they had where they came from.

Citation?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you weren't 'handling' business at home.

That’s not why most men go.

Well, if she was giving him that massage at home, he wouldn’t need to go there.

Ridiculous. Many men feel entitled to variety. She can’t become several women.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you weren't 'handling' business at home.

That’s not why most men go.

Well, if she was giving him that massage at home, he wouldn’t need to go there.

Ridiculous. Many men feel entitled to variety. She can’t become several women.

And women feel entitled to men’s money.

Which is apparent since it is major concern of OP.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m sure I’m not the only one this has happened to in this area. He says it was his first time, yeah right.

I don’t see how I can ever trust him again. He is the bread winner in our family, I have no idea what to do

How did you “catch” him?

What does this have to do with his earning potential?

As far as what to do, obviously you need to put out more.

Obviously she relies on his income so she feels vulnerable.

That’s an easy fix, get a job.

This .. ASAP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You guys are horrible. I think you people who are accusing SAHMs of being smug are the smug ones here.

I’m sorry OP. Something similar happened to me. I found out things were a lot worse than illicit massage parlors. If you’re in the same boat, be smart, not emotional. Think of your kids. Revenge is a dish best served cold. Not that this is all about revenge. But it is about protecting yourself and your kids. If you have kids. So be smart. Play the longer game. Document. Get a job if you don’t have one. Get yourself an emergency fund. Escape.

Hugs and best of luck to you.

So you stay for kids and lifestyle and suffer in silence with a cheating man.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Asian massage parlor 😢

Let’s not call it “Asian”, let’s say “fraudulent massage parlor” or brothel or human-trafficking sex center because that’s what it is

i am OK with Asian massage parlor. sounds like a pretty accurate description.

[Anonymous]

You need to get a job to support yourself and your kid.

This information shoukd empower you to make a change. A pp mentioned he could be arrested and then even he won't be able to support your kids. You need to take control of your own destiny whether it's staying in your marriage or moving on.

Also, ask him why he goes to those places? Tell him to give you an honest answer. Going to those places indicates something different than what AP would offer. Don't get dismissive or defensive regardless of his answer. Just use it to further empower yourself.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Asian massage parlor 😢

Let’s not call it “Asian”, let’s say “fraudulent massage parlor” or brothel or human-trafficking sex center because that’s what it is

i am OK with Asian massage parlor. sounds like a pretty accurate description.

Nobody cares what you think Chang-ryeol.

[Anonymous]

These massage parlors should be more mainstream, and legal. I used to go a a chain for a legitimate, deep-tissue massage and the few therapists they had who specialized in it did a great job. Then I went to our local AMP place, admittedly for the happy ending and scheduled a one-hour massage.

I was not expecting much of a massage but she was amazing and walked on my back also. The massage concluded with the HE experience which seemed almost clinical and honestly, is the perfect ending to a relaxing massage.

I walked out of there feeling great and very relaxed and returned a few times since then. Scheduling is MUCH easier than the legit place and, although I've gotten a different woman each time, I was always satisfied. With the massage and the extra.

And guess what, the price was the same if not a bit less than the legit place although they do expect a higher tip so in total, just a bit more. But not a lot.

As far as I know, the HE HJ is the only thing on the menu but I never asked for more. The HJ is just the perfect conclusion to the massage. It's all pretty tame really and shouldn't be illegal in my opinion or looked at as such a shady business.