Caught my husband at AMP

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:New nightmare unlocked: being at what I thought was a legit massage business when police bust it for being… not legit.

...and they eventually release the names of all those paying married customers.
ICK!

They don't take names. I'm sure OP's hubby is using a name like "John" when he visits, if any name at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ew… Men can be So gross.

You must not be aware of the gigolo business and how popular it has become.
It's just more discreet and usually caters to in home calls rather than a storefront business.

[Anonymous]

Divorce would be a blessing for this poor man!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:New nightmare unlocked: being at what I thought was a legit massage business when police bust it for being… not legit.

...and they eventually release the names of all those paying married customers.
ICK!

They don't take names. I'm sure OP's hubby is using a name like "John" when he visits, if any name at all.

😩

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:New nightmare unlocked: being at what I thought was a legit massage business when police bust it for being… not legit.

...and they eventually release the names of all those paying married customers.
ICK!

They don't take names. I'm sure OP's hubby is using a name like "John" when he visits, if any name at all.

Credit card trails. Not all use cash.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Ew… Men can be So gross.

Women who are not having regular sex with their husbands are equally gross

and women that get fat and refuse to have sex

double gross.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you weren't 'handling' business at home.

That’s not why most men go.

Well, if she was giving him that massage at home, he wouldn’t need to go there.

Men that frequently have an addiction. It’s not about getting one release otherwise he would just do it himself.

how can you be addicted to sex? that is absurd

she is probably fat and out of shape and stopped taking care of herself.

it is not that hard to lay on your back and count the sheep

you made a commitment, hold up your end of the agreement

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Ew… Men can be So gross.

You must not be aware of the gigolo business and how popular it has become.
It's just more discreet and usually caters to in home calls rather than a storefront business.

Yeah, that's a comparable thing/not!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you weren't 'handling' business at home.

That’s not why most men go.

Well, if she was giving him that massage at home, he wouldn’t need to go there.

Men that frequently have an addiction. It’s not about getting one release otherwise he would just do it himself.

how can you be addicted to sex? that is absurd

she is probably fat and out of shape and stopped taking care of herself.

it is not that hard to lay on your back and count the sheep

you made a commitment, hold up your end of the agreement

Thanks for your input, incel. Enjoy your video games.

[Anonymous]

How does one know if one of these is one of THOSE massage parlors?

I go to a salon that rarely has any customers and has a sign saying they offer ‘evening services’. Idk what an evening service is but I have always wondered if this is what they are doing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:New nightmare unlocked: being at what I thought was a legit massage business when police bust it for being… not legit.

...and they eventually release the names of all those paying married customers.
ICK!

They don't take names. I'm sure OP's hubby is using a name like "John" when he visits, if any name at all.

Credit card trails. Not all use cash.

If a man is doing that and using a credit card, there are some severe mental deficiencies that are more pressing than merely visiting sleezy rub and tugs.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ew… Men can be So gross.

You must not be aware of the gigolo business and how popular it has become.
It's just more discreet and usually caters to in home calls rather than a storefront business.

Yeah, that's a comparable thing/not!

Thing/not? What's that?

Guessing you are saying that rub shacks are not as classy as gigolos that cater to in home visits? I mean that kinda goes without saying.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you weren't 'handling' business at home.

That’s not why most men go.

Well, if she was giving him that massage at home, he wouldn’t need to go there.

That's simply not true of most people who go to places like this. My ex and I had daily sex and he still would go to an AMP or a random hookup if I was out of town for even a day. It was a sex addiction. The secrecy, the shame, the thrill, the possibility of arrest...they were all part of the rush and allure of the "fix." Regular sex, even good sex, couldn't compete.

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Anonymous wrote:Asian massage parlor 😢

Let’s not call it “Asian”, let’s say “fraudulent massage parlor” or brothel or human-trafficking sex center because that’s what it is

No, let’s call it Asian since that is how they are branded and marketed and attempts to police language and skirt around the obvious are obnoxious and silly.

Or you could say, “where you can exploit women from impoverished countries ?”

A lot are Korean. Not exactly impoverished. Morally bankrupt and money grubbing, but not impoverished.

Exactly! Most of the women likely do it out of free will. They are sinners but not victims.
If op did not get fat or was having regular sex with her husband, then he likely wouldn’t have went there. She could have contributed to her husband’s sins.

You are a disturbed individual.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry, OP.

You put on your oxygen mask right now. Let go of anything non-essential.

Confide in a couple of trusted people. You need support and outside perspectives.

Therapy.

Lawyer.

Make sure you have access to all of your finances and accounts.

You don't have to know what you're going to do today. You just have to keep breathing.

Hugs. I don't see how you could trust him again either. Or like him. And that's totally on him. He caused that. Now you just need to figure out what your best moves are, out of your (unfortunately) limited choices. But you WILL be OK. You are strong and you can handle this.

Guy got a handjob and now the world is coming to an end lmao

Said like a sociopathic cheater who doesn't care that he is exploiting women who are probably being trafficked