This thread has been very interesting to me, and frankly, explains some of the responses I have gotten from experienced upper NW parents when I have lightly worried about my late Sept bday child. All of my research pointed to DCPS NOT allowing red shirting and even I had, before this article, been aware that they will put a kid who redshirted PK straight into first grade without kindergarten. And yet some parents have said "oh you can do it you just need to ask the principal". Seems like some of these white-majority upper NW elementary schools were playing fast and loose with the rules for a while.
Look, my kid is only 2 right now and will enter DCPS PK3 in the fall. It gives me a little anxiety just because it seems like everything you read online is that you shouldn't send your 4 year old to kindergarten or your 13 year old to high school or your 17 year old to college. Especially if they are a boy, which mine is. But I live in NE without these special treatment principles so he will attend school when he is supposed to and that is that. At the end of the day he has two active and involved parents and isn't experiencing poverty so in all likelihood he will do absolutely fine. And if we encounter major problems, we will handle them as they arise. The funny thing is that after all my stress over his sept bday, I am about to have a second kid with a sept bday thanks to needing an early scheduled delivery. lol |
I actually agree that the K curriculum in DCPS is not age appropriate, as awesome as it is that they seemed to get everyone reading by the end of the year. They hyper focus on literacy, and everything else suffers -- math, playtime, social time, projects, etc. I actually think the 1st grade curriculum is more balanced and fun. I know many kids, mine included, for whom K was their least favorite year. |
This is a very entitled viewpoint. I thought the K curriculum was fantastic and the focus on literacy is really important for most DC kids. |
How is it entitled? I’m not in the education field, but wouldn’t overly rigid expectations in k (with attendant discipline) hurt disadvantaged kids more? |
It doesn't save as if a child is delayed they will need help and the longer you wait the more a child will struggle and the more help they will need. If your child is struggling and you know it as a parent you need to get them help before K. If your child needs to be held back, you failed to get your child the help they needed if its something like immaturity. However, no kids should be mature going into K. No 5 year old is mature. |
Rigid thinking about the cutoffs is how public schools usually operate, however that doesn't make it right. If your kid is within a few months of the cutoff, making them young for the grade, any immaturity can easily be within normal. Take a kid who is old for their grade and doing well, then change the cutoffs and make them young for grade instead, and they may struggle. The cutoffs are arbitrary. |
There needs to be a cut off. No kids are mature. And, an older kid isn't more mature, they are older. If they are with younger kids and behaving as those kids are, they are immature. Its insane to have kids 2 years apart. Its more of an isssue when you have a 13-14 year old taking classes with a 18-19-20 year old in high school. |
What does race have to do with it? Btw - schools all over the city have been doing this for decades. The policy isn't actually a hard and fast rule (at least wasn't) |
A daycare can claim they offered Pre-K and that usually satisfies DC. But private K much rarer. Difficult to get into, and even more expensive, on average, than what daycare Pre-K costs. |
My caucasian september-birthday son was the second-youngest in his Lafayette classes and when we broached the topic with his pre-k teacher, she confirmed that he would be fine and... we wouldn't have a choice anyway since policy is policy. |
I reverse redshirted (sent her early) my September girl, but it was private school and I don’t understand how you could not talk to the school/school system before you redshirted? Like why WOULDN’T this happen? |
I live in NYC. The public school cut off here is Dec 31, i.e., all the kids born in the same year enter school together. That was done many years ago to allow immigrant families to enroll their kids in school as early as possible so the kids could learn English ASAP. It was felt, and it is probably true,that the younger the child, the easier for the child to learn English as a second language. I think early studies indicated that after age 5 it becomes more difficult to learn a second language.
In Massachusetts many years ago our school district was required to administer a kindergarten readiness test. It was embarrassing for my cousin, a school principal, and his wife, a high school science teacher, when one of their kids--the only girl of 4--flunked it twice. She was almost 8 when she started kindergarten. The test wasn't about whether you could recognize letters or count. It had a component in which a small group of kids had to sit still and follow a teacher's simple directions. She was one of the kids who immediately got up and roamed around the room, started talking at inappropriate times, etc. I remember it also involved ability to skip and use scissors properly. She couldn't do either. I think the test was given in the spring and IIRC, parents of kids who failed had the option of havng the child retake the test closer to the beginning of the new school year. After a full summer of her mom--off from work for the summer--trying desperately and unsuccessfully to teach her to use scissors, she failed again. So, I think that if a child struggles in pre-K and either the teacher OR the parent thinks the child isn't ready for kindergarten, there should be some objective or quasi list of criteria used to decide if the child is ready. |
When you live in a $2.8 M house - do you really thing they are doing the trade-off of private K costs? |
Definitely more common with people with wealth/income because they can afford another year of PK. It also helps that MD explicitly allows this -- all you have to do is file a form with your school district that your child is not ready and will be in PK, and you can delay K by a year. See this form, which per the start is automatically approved upon submission: https://ww2.montgomeryschoolsmd.org/departments/forms/pdf/560-19.pdf "I am applying for a one-year exemption to delay my child's entrance to kindergarten due to immaturity." |
It seems that quite possibly they are. Or, their kid can't get into an "acceptable" private. It's brutal out there lately for private school admissions. |