Ideas for little things to accidentally do when you’re not happy with spouse

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op, I threw out my husbands favorite running shoes and his toothbrush on Tuesday (trash day) because he was mean to me in the morning about forgetting one of his agreed upon weekly chores that I reminded him of (to see if i would need to do it as default) and he bit my head off and stormed off to work.

No regrets. Married 16 years and I hope a lot more. He hasn’t asked about either item yet hahah

You sound 12 years old.

I have no remorse. I instantly feel better and it absolves the need for ongoing fights and hard feelings. I’ll do it again.
He still hasn’t asked about that stuff btw.

He probably solved the problem you created without involving you by just buying new clothes. Easy solution. A lot easier than dealing with your shenanigans.

Sound like he is already dealing with two children and he is hunkering down in preparation for number 3.