How many will be on a team in 2 years? |
We all know who you are. You bought your daughter a roster spot. |
It’s a point because people here are making way too much out of which players from which clubs are going to which colleges. It will matter so little in 2 years. Most of the players will either never see the field or quit altogether before they finish college. Even the ones who do play will be done with soccer once they graduate. It’s like making a big deal about which team a player’s on at U10. After a few years no one cares anymore including the player. Why does anything except the academic credentials matter for where someone goes to college? |
Because for some parents, they want to say, "My son/daughter goes to Duke" irrespective of how the child was admitted and whether it is a good fit academically for them. There are people who can't stomach the thought of their child being a student at Mason or ODU and having people in their social circle know it. It's very similar to the relatively recent college entrance scandal. There were parents who "needed" to say their daughter went to USC, as opposed to somewhere like Fresno State or CSU LA. |
Keep telling yourself that you’d pick ODU over Duke even if your kid wasn’t academically prepared for Duke… 😂 Kids coming out of Duke no matter how they do academically are gonna be better off career wise than kids coming out of ODU. No one is choosing ODU over Duke if they can help it. |
| Or put another way — say your DD gets offers from both Duke and ODU. And she thinks that she probably won’t see much playing time at Duke but she’ll play a lot at ODU. You’d be STUPID not to take Duke. You think ODU is gonna lead her to playing professionally in the NWSL?? Not that Duke would either but at least at Duke she gets a top rate education and probably an amazing job after. |
Because you get in does not mean you finish. Would I prefer my child be accepted to Duke and earn a degree from the university? Of course I would. Would I want them to be accepted then fail out? No. There are very good to excellent universities who admit kids knowing they will fail them out. Brown has/had a reputation for doing just this. They would take a higher number of prospective students knowing a decent amount of them would fail out. On the other hand, Harvard took fewer with the idea that these students would actually last and earn their degree. So yeah. I'd rather my kid work hard, get a degree at a university you think is beneath you and be self sufficient and earn a living than fail out and be living with me at the age of 30. |
There is a local family that did it with both daughters and blast it on social media everyday with pride. It's their world and we are just living in it. Both kids are D3 talent. |
Please just stop. You don't know who he is and you don't know he bought a spot. This is a stupid reponse. You can't prove it. No one knows who or what school you are talking about. |
| Um yeah actually a lot of us do know. |
Truth. |
Of course anyone would choose Duke over ODU. Assuming they could afford it. But that’s not the point. The point is that anyone that gets accepted to Duke to play soccer is either 1) a regular youth national team player with legit pro talent (a true unicorn not any of your daughters) or 2) an academic star (top of class, perfect SAT) who would have had a shot to get into Duke without soccer |
Right, and these are people on th3 Duke wom3ns soccer team who are not #1 above. At all. So how did they make the team? |
$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ |
Why is this person/people having such a hard time with the fact that wealthy people with influence can get what they want for their kids? This isn't that difficult to grasp. It is happening, it has happened and will happen every year...especially around the DMV. The kids are all good kids I'm sure, they are probably great students...simply can't play soccer at these schools, so it pisses everyone off when they rub it in everyone's face rather than showing some humility. It's also insulting to the girls who get recruited to play soccer at these schools that earn it and chuckle when they see these players announce their POSER soccer commitments. It also rubs salt in the wounds of all the people that have daughters that are way better players than these kids and simply can't get recruited to any of the schools they want. Again, if the kids don't care that they won't play a meaningful minute in 4 years if they can stay on the roster as practice players then I guess it's a win for them. So, keep it to yourself and enjoy the next legacy of Duke, UVA etc. |