Why do married men fall for younger women?

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Anonymous wrote:Tight young bodies, perky T&A. I’m embarrassed for OP asking such an obvious question. Use the sense the Lord gave you.

Then why get married at all? If the only important thing to you/certain other men is a woman’s attractiveness, and we know that this fades over time, why make the choice to age with someone, ostensibly forsaking all others? Just date and don’t ruin people’s lives.

+1. I am 60 and sadly my balls are droopy lol. I'm just glad I have a wonderful wife. She is 62 and we have been married for 30 years. When we met I was a college athlete with 6 packs and she had one of the most beautiful giggly ass I had ever seen. 30 years later we still love each other. We are certainly old but such is life.

There is no way a 20+ woman will be physically attracted to me at 62. No way.She has a million other men to choose from. Heck she may drop me for my son because he is "cut like Jesus" like they say.

Welp, that’s enough DCUM for today.

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Married women ignore their husbands or treat them like an accessory. They will bend over backwards for some random friend and be too tired to do anything with their husband.

Another woman chats ups or gives attention to the husband that’s all it takes.

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Anonymous wrote:Nothing gets this forum riled more than posts about women aging out of relevance

After watching the last presidential debate, I think again women are pretty relevant right now.

LMAO. Back in the day she was the hot young thing with the older politician that you ladies despise.

Yep. And sleeping with a married man. Really funny to watch them rally around someone they'd normally tear to shreds.

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I was reading an article about a married man who is divorcing his wife after 31 years marriage.

These are 2 quotes from his wife that struck my attention.

"I would like to ask for prayer for my family. Mark has filed for a divorce after having an affair with a 32 year old woman,”

"He fell head over heels in love with her to the extent he wanted to marry her and start a new family. He has become a different man than I have known for our 35 year marriage. He is living life greatly deceived.”

I feel for this woman. She described the AP as a "32 years old woman" you can clearly feel the pain there.

Why do men fall for younger women like this? It's rare for a married woman to fall down a 32 years old man after 35 years of marriage.

And second what do married women think about these women? How much blame should they deserve?

I have neither the time nor inclination to read all of the comments on this thread.

But, I’ll say that I’m not sure I understand why you need to ask why married men fall for younger women. I think it’s pretty obvious. First, they have young attractive bodies. That should be very obvious. They are pretty much all of them more attractive than wives who have been married for over 30 years. Second, they are not yet sick of that particular man. They look up to him, make him feel like a man again. I think most affairs are more about the attention and the respect than they are about the sex. And that is why you see men actually leaving their wives and starting a second family. They see a whole new life with a woman who isn’t sick of them, tired of them, judging them. or asking them to clean the gutters. Or whatever. These younger women put up with a lot that older women won’t tolerate. It’s kind of pathetic, but that is a good part of what is going on.

As far as blame, why would the affair partners get any blame? These younger women didn’t swear to be faithful to these ex-wives. No blame. The blame is purely on the ex-husband. Well, perhaps some goes on the ex-wife as well. Divorce is always some thing that has happened because of two people, not because of one. No marriage has one person in it.

You just made the day of thousands of APs. They have carte blanch to keep doing what they are doing. His wife and kids meh who cares.

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Anonymous wrote:So they can end up like this guy:

(Advice column)Elderly man dumped in assisted living by his young wife needs help from his estranged kids

https://www.nj.com/advice/2024/08/asking-eric-elderly-man-dumped-in-assisted-living-by-his-young-wife-needs-help-from-his-estranged-kids.html

Hmph he must be taking too long to die for her. She expected a quick transfer of funds.

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Anonymous wrote:Married women ignore their husbands or treat them like an accessory. They will bend over backwards for some random friend and be too tired to do anything with their husband.

Another woman chats ups or gives attention to the husband that’s all it takes.

Is there any way out of this? Am I just not romantic or interesting enough?

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I haven’t read all of the details of the Mark Green situation, but I find it interesting he was leaving Congress and then two weeks later changed his mind despite knowing this scandal would come out.

I have a feeling the younger woman encouraged him to go back because she obviously doesn’t want to be with some old man who doesn’t still have that aphrodisiac that attracted her to an old man in the first place: Political power. That’s what appealed to her.

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Anonymous wrote:Nothing gets this forum riled more than posts about women aging out of relevance

After watching the last presidential debate, I think again women are pretty relevant right now.

LMAO. Back in the day she was the hot young thing with the older politician that you ladies despise.

Slept her way to the top

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Anonymous wrote:It helps them delay admitting to themselves that they are going to die someday.

It's a hell of a lot simpler than that, sweetheart.

Older women always play the mortality card because they themsleves cant deal with the fact that they have spoiled.

Only if you have a view that women are only baby machines. If you respect women, you respect their entire cycle of life, not just the fertile part. You know, the respect a human should have for another human’s life. In fact the right to a respected and full life escapes you. Respect for life is boiled down to the 9 months that you as a man are unable to control because you are unable to form a baby in your body. You do not give a a woman full right to life because you refuse to respect and give her full rights.

This isn't about 'respect', grandma. The question was why do men favor younger women. The answer is simple. They are gorgoeus. Old women aren't. Blame biology, not me.

That only makes sense for affairs, not second marriages. Also your answers show that woman are nothing but bodies to you.

Explain Rupert Murdoch and Wendy Deng, Trump and Melania and so on.

Considering Trump has cheated through all of his marriages including when Melania had just given birth, what’s your point?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:
I was reading an article about a married man who is divorcing his wife after 31 years marriage.

These are 2 quotes from his wife that struck my attention.

"I would like to ask for prayer for my family. Mark has filed for a divorce after having an affair with a 32 year old woman,”

"He fell head over heels in love with her to the extent he wanted to marry her and start a new family. He has become a different man than I have known for our 35 year marriage. He is living life greatly deceived.”

I feel for this woman. She described the AP as a "32 years old woman" you can clearly feel the pain there.

Why do men fall for younger women like this? It's rare for a married woman to fall down a 32 years old man after 35 years of marriage.

And second what do married women think about these women? How much blame should they deserve?

I have neither the time nor inclination to read all of the comments on this thread.

But, I’ll say that I’m not sure I understand why you need to ask why married men fall for younger women. I think it’s pretty obvious. First, they have young attractive bodies. That should be very obvious. They are pretty much all of them more attractive than wives who have been married for over 30 years. Second, they are not yet sick of that particular man. They look up to him, make him feel like a man again. I think most affairs are more about the attention and the respect than they are about the sex. And that is why you see men actually leaving their wives and starting a second family. They see a whole new life with a woman who isn’t sick of them, tired of them, judging them. or asking them to clean the gutters. Or whatever. These younger women put up with a lot that older women won’t tolerate. It’s kind of pathetic, but that is a good part of what is going on.

As far as blame, why would the affair partners get any blame? These younger women didn’t swear to be faithful to these ex-wives. No blame. The blame is purely on the ex-husband. Well, perhaps some goes on the ex-wife as well. Divorce is always some thing that has happened because of two people, not because of one. No marriage has one person in it.

Because some people have this thing called a “moral compass”. It’s a very difficult concept to understand. You basically have to do things like not f other people’s spouses because you know it’s inherently wrong. Crazy, right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I was reading an article about a married man who is divorcing his wife after 31 years marriage.

These are 2 quotes from his wife that struck my attention.

"I would like to ask for prayer for my family. Mark has filed for a divorce after having an affair with a 32 year old woman,”

"He fell head over heels in love with her to the extent he wanted to marry her and start a new family. He has become a different man than I have known for our 35 year marriage. He is living life greatly deceived.”

I feel for this woman. She described the AP as a "32 years old woman" you can clearly feel the pain there.

Why do men fall for younger women like this? It's rare for a married woman to fall down a 32 years old man after 35 years of marriage.

And second what do married women think about these women? How much blame should they deserve?

I have neither the time nor inclination to read all of the comments on this thread.

But, I’ll say that I’m not sure I understand why you need to ask why married men fall for younger women. I think it’s pretty obvious. First, they have young attractive bodies. That should be very obvious. They are pretty much all of them more attractive than wives who have been married for over 30 years. Second, they are not yet sick of that particular man. They look up to him, make him feel like a man again. I think most affairs are more about the attention and the respect than they are about the sex. And that is why you see men actually leaving their wives and starting a second family. They see a whole new life with a woman who isn’t sick of them, tired of them, judging them. or asking them to clean the gutters. Or whatever. These younger women put up with a lot that older women won’t tolerate. It’s kind of pathetic, but that is a good part of what is going on.

As far as blame, why would the affair partners get any blame? These younger women didn’t swear to be faithful to these ex-wives. No blame. The blame is purely on the ex-husband. Well, perhaps some goes on the ex-wife as well. Divorce is always some thing that has happened because of two people, not because of one. No marriage has one person in it.

No, sorry, that is BS. Total and complete BS. Thou shalt not commit adultery applies equally to all - affair partners as well as the married person stepping out on a marriage.

If single women didn't let married/committed men between their legs, or if married women didn't let a penis attached to anybody who isn't her husband between her legs, adulterous affairs just wouldn't happen.

Women are the gatekeepers of consensual sex and personally as a woman I have always felt obligated to support and uplift other women's relationships, and not to be the kind of woman who gives an allegedly committed man a place to stray into with his errant penis.

The not married person doesn't get a pass, they are also guilty of adultery. The point of the wedding banns beyond allowing impediments to marriage to come to light from within the community is also to advise the community of the commitment, so that members of the community can support and uplift that commitment. We live in much bigger communities now, but that is why people should do some research on who they're thinking about porking before they get to the porking - so they aren't participating in adultery and the devastation of a family.

You were raised right. You are a good person.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It helps them delay admitting to themselves that they are going to die someday.

It's a hell of a lot simpler than that, sweetheart.

Older women always play the mortality card because they themsleves cant deal with the fact that they have spoiled.

Older women don't "spoil", they mature. Think wine, scotch... You have to refine your palate to appreciate these things.

If you're still in your wine cooler phase, well, that's your loss.

Men age like wine. Women age like milk. I understand why that bothers you, I do.

My post will probably get deleted, but most white males do not age like fine wine, they age like milk. Just keep your wallet full or keep your political power and you’ll be fine. I hardly think Green’s side piece was attracted to his body. You think she’d be with him if he were working at Home Depot?

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It's not. He took it from an article about Congressman Mark Green.

My mistake. I read the title and didn't bother with the rest because it's such a trollish topic. I didn't realize what was going on until I googled just now and I see the wife is blaming "Satan" and "predators."

Why can't Republicans ever accept personal responsibility? I don't mean her necessarily at fault, I mean blame your HUSBAND.



https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13848431/republican-congressman-mark-green-affair-marriage-divorce.html

I am glad this article lumps in Trump/Loomer with this grossness but got a good lAugh out of it calling that plastic surgery disaster "glamorous"

The Daily Mail tends to be snarky, so I’m guessing the “glamorous” line was snark.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:
I was reading an article about a married man who is divorcing his wife after 31 years marriage.

These are 2 quotes from his wife that struck my attention.

"I would like to ask for prayer for my family. Mark has filed for a divorce after having an affair with a 32 year old woman,”

"He fell head over heels in love with her to the extent he wanted to marry her and start a new family. He has become a different man than I have known for our 35 year marriage. He is living life greatly deceived.”

I feel for this woman. She described the AP as a "32 years old woman" you can clearly feel the pain there.

Why do men fall for younger women like this? It's rare for a married woman to fall down a 32 years old man after 35 years of marriage.

And second what do married women think about these women? How much blame should they deserve?

Look at the actor Ron Perlman.

He left his wife of 30 years for his MUCH younger co-star who is 20 something years younger than him.

It was SUCH a mess.

His poor wife almost had a nervous breakdown when he told her he was leaving her for another woman and divorcing her.

Their poor (barely) adult kids having to see their mother in such a fragile state, and at the hands of their father -- and there he was, making tons of embarrassing and shameful TikToks with his new girlfriend every day, flaunting their new relationship.

He and her were both SUPER insensitive and apathetic to what his wife was going through when he left, and even MORE so, what his children were having to manage, as their mom almost had to be committed due to them fearing she'd take her own life.

And they just kept flaunting out and packing on the PDA in all of their videos.

Those two are married now and I have no idea what happened to his wife and if she's in a better place... I sincerely hope she is.

You know the irony of the Perlman story? I just looked it up and the new woman is in her 50s. So it isn’t about someone in their 20s and 30s, men just want anyone younger than them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It helps them delay admitting to themselves that they are going to die someday.

It's a hell of a lot simpler than that, sweetheart.

Older women always play the mortality card because they themsleves cant deal with the fact that they have spoiled.

Older women don't "spoil", they mature. Think wine, scotch... You have to refine your palate to appreciate these things.

If you're still in your wine cooler phase, well, that's your loss.

Men age like wine. Women age like milk. I understand why that bothers you, I do.

My post will probably get deleted, but most white males do not age like fine wine, they age like milk. Just keep your wallet full or keep your political power and you’ll be fine. I hardly think Green’s side piece was attracted to his body. You think she’d be with him if he were working at Home Depot?

Like expired yogurt, with weird fuzz sprouting out of places and rank smells...