S/O sleeping with someone over 50

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually a woman … fyi, the vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and the type of indirect stimulation of the cl*t that you are describing.

Anyway OP - hopefully at this age we can focus on finding partners that are good in bed rather than external appearances.

I am not describing deep penetration. Fingers slightly in, fast massaging movements side to side to great "trembling" sensation. It feels like amplified oral on woman. What do you think men do there when they go down?? Stretching is highly pleasurable but few people know that. I am a woman not a red pill poster. Too bad the former president gave such a bad name to a common way of brining woman to an O. Also, way safer for first sex and doesn't spread deceases, if hands are washed with antibacterial soap.

The experience is from Eastern and Western Europe. These men did go down as well, but hands were used way more back then and they were damn good in it knowing where and what to press. US men I was dating post divorce are nowhere near that level of skills AND they suck in sucking P.

So does create a building feeling or just a nice feeling? Also how long are we talking?

It creates an actual O. Maybe 10 min from the start of the activity? I haven't timed it, and I usually would go off several times

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually a woman … fyi, the vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and the type of indirect stimulation of the cl*t that you are describing.

Anyway OP - hopefully at this age we can focus on finding partners that are good in bed rather than external appearances.

I am not describing deep penetration. Fingers slightly in, fast massaging movements side to side to great "trembling" sensation. It feels like amplified oral on woman. What do you think men do there when they go down?? Stretching is highly pleasurable but few people know that. I am a woman not a red pill poster. Too bad the former president gave such a bad name to a common way of brining woman to an O. Also, way safer for first sex and doesn't spread deceases, if hands are washed with antibacterial soap.

The experience is from Eastern and Western Europe. These men did go down as well, but hands were used way more back then and they were damn good in it knowing where and what to press. US men I was dating post divorce are nowhere near that level of skills AND they suck in sucking P.

So does create a building feeling or just a nice feeling? Also how long are we talking?

It creates an actual O. Maybe 10 min from the start of the activity? I haven't timed it, and I usually would go off several times

let’s be clear for all the men out there: what PP is describing generates an “O” because is includes simultaneous direct stimulation of the cl*t. So please don’t start ramming your 4 fingers in there and shaking them around and nothing else.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually a woman … fyi, the vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and the type of indirect stimulation of the cl*t that you are describing.

Anyway OP - hopefully at this age we can focus on finding partners that are good in bed rather than external appearances.

I am not describing deep penetration. Fingers slightly in, fast massaging movements side to side to great "trembling" sensation. It feels like amplified oral on woman. What do you think men do there when they go down?? Stretching is highly pleasurable but few people know that. I am a woman not a red pill poster. Too bad the former president gave such a bad name to a common way of brining woman to an O. Also, way safer for first sex and doesn't spread deceases, if hands are washed with antibacterial soap.

The experience is from Eastern and Western Europe. These men did go down as well, but hands were used way more back then and they were damn good in it knowing where and what to press. US men I was dating post divorce are nowhere near that level of skills AND they suck in sucking P.

So does create a building feeling or just a nice feeling? Also how long are we talking?

It creates an actual O. Maybe 10 min from the start of the activity? I haven't timed it, and I usually would go off several times

let’s be clear for all the men out there: what PP is describing generates an “O” because is includes simultaneous direct stimulation of the cl*t. So please don’t start ramming your 4 fingers in there and shaking them around and nothing else.

Caused a cramp.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually a woman … fyi, the vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and the type of indirect stimulation of the cl*t that you are describing.

Anyway OP - hopefully at this age we can focus on finding partners that are good in bed rather than external appearances.

I am not describing deep penetration. Fingers slightly in, fast massaging movements side to side to great "trembling" sensation. It feels like amplified oral on woman. What do you think men do there when they go down?? Stretching is highly pleasurable but few people know that. I am a woman not a red pill poster. Too bad the former president gave such a bad name to a common way of brining woman to an O. Also, way safer for first sex and doesn't spread deceases, if hands are washed with antibacterial soap.

The experience is from Eastern and Western Europe. These men did go down as well, but hands were used way more back then and they were damn good in it knowing where and what to press. US men I was dating post divorce are nowhere near that level of skills AND they suck in sucking P.

So does create a building feeling or just a nice feeling? Also how long are we talking?

It creates an actual O. Maybe 10 min from the start of the activity? I haven't timed it, and I usually would go off several times

let’s be clear for all the men out there: what PP is describing generates an “O” because is includes simultaneous direct stimulation of the cl*t. So please don’t start ramming your 4 fingers in there and shaking them around and nothing else.

Caused a cramp.

Yes it takes mastery to learn :)

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually a woman … fyi, the vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and the type of indirect stimulation of the cl*t that you are describing.

Anyway OP - hopefully at this age we can focus on finding partners that are good in bed rather than external appearances.

I am not describing deep penetration. Fingers slightly in, fast massaging movements side to side to great "trembling" sensation. It feels like amplified oral on woman. What do you think men do there when they go down?? Stretching is highly pleasurable but few people know that. I am a woman not a red pill poster. Too bad the former president gave such a bad name to a common way of brining woman to an O. Also, way safer for first sex and doesn't spread deceases, if hands are washed with antibacterial soap.

The experience is from Eastern and Western Europe. These men did go down as well, but hands were used way more back then and they were damn good in it knowing where and what to press. US men I was dating post divorce are nowhere near that level of skills AND they suck in sucking P.

So does create a building feeling or just a nice feeling? Also how long are we talking?

It creates an actual O. Maybe 10 min from the start of the activity? I haven't timed it, and I usually would go off several times

let’s be clear for all the men out there: what PP is describing generates an “O” because is includes simultaneous direct stimulation of the cl*t. So please don’t start ramming your 4 fingers in there and shaking them around and nothing else.

Caused a cramp.

Yes it takes mastery to learn :)

lol why would I want a guy thrashing around with his fingers in the wrong place working on “mastery” when he could just go down on me? that’s the think - I’m almost 50 and have zero interest in or tolerance for bad s*x. No thank you.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually a woman … fyi, the vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and the type of indirect stimulation of the cl*t that you are describing.

Anyway OP - hopefully at this age we can focus on finding partners that are good in bed rather than external appearances.

I am not describing deep penetration. Fingers slightly in, fast massaging movements side to side to great "trembling" sensation. It feels like amplified oral on woman. What do you think men do there when they go down?? Stretching is highly pleasurable but few people know that. I am a woman not a red pill poster. Too bad the former president gave such a bad name to a common way of brining woman to an O. Also, way safer for first sex and doesn't spread deceases, if hands are washed with antibacterial soap.

The experience is from Eastern and Western Europe. These men did go down as well, but hands were used way more back then and they were damn good in it knowing where and what to press. US men I was dating post divorce are nowhere near that level of skills AND they suck in sucking P.

So does create a building feeling or just a nice feeling? Also how long are we talking?

It creates an actual O. Maybe 10 min from the start of the activity? I haven't timed it, and I usually would go off several times

let’s be clear for all the men out there: what PP is describing generates an “O” because is includes simultaneous direct stimulation of the cl*t. So please don’t start ramming your 4 fingers in there and shaking them around and nothing else.

Caused a cramp.

Yes it takes mastery to learn :)

lol why would I want a guy thrashing around with his fingers in the wrong place working on “mastery” when he could just go down on me? that’s the think - I’m almost 50 and have zero interest in or tolerance for bad s*x. No thank you.

PP above noted how bad most men were with giving oral ending up kissing random places in lower thigh. So I suggested to try fingers. That is my experience with men that a hand yields better results for me. But if your man is great in oral by all means go for it! We are just sharing experiences here, not dictating anything

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually a woman … fyi, the vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and the type of indirect stimulation of the cl*t that you are describing.

Anyway OP - hopefully at this age we can focus on finding partners that are good in bed rather than external appearances.

I am not describing deep penetration. Fingers slightly in, fast massaging movements side to side to great "trembling" sensation. It feels like amplified oral on woman. What do you think men do there when they go down?? Stretching is highly pleasurable but few people know that. I am a woman not a red pill poster. Too bad the former president gave such a bad name to a common way of brining woman to an O. Also, way safer for first sex and doesn't spread deceases, if hands are washed with antibacterial soap.

The experience is from Eastern and Western Europe. These men did go down as well, but hands were used way more back then and they were damn good in it knowing where and what to press. US men I was dating post divorce are nowhere near that level of skills AND they suck in sucking P.

So does create a building feeling or just a nice feeling? Also how long are we talking?

It creates an actual O. Maybe 10 min from the start of the activity? I haven't timed it, and I usually would go off several times

let’s be clear for all the men out there: what PP is describing generates an “O” because is includes simultaneous direct stimulation of the cl*t. So please don’t start ramming your 4 fingers in there and shaking them around and nothing else.

Caused a cramp.

Yes it takes mastery to learn :)

lol why would I want a guy thrashing around with his fingers in the wrong place working on “mastery” when he could just go down on me? that’s the think - I’m almost 50 and have zero interest in or tolerance for bad s*x. No thank you.

PP above noted how bad most men were with giving oral ending up kissing random places in lower thigh. So I suggested to try fingers. That is my experience with men that a hand yields better results for me. But if your man is great in oral by all means go for it! We are just sharing experiences here, not dictating anything

Because you’re being totally incoherent about how you describe it, that’s why. Men need to know that it’s the cl*t that produces orgasm, full stop. There are a variety of different ways to get there but penetration alone ain’t it for the vast majority of women. Yet movies, TV shows, invariably show men pounding away at PIV and the woman in supposed ecstasy. Anyway men over 50, please make sure you have the basics down. There’s no excuse.

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Anonymous wrote:Bring lube

Uberlube is great. Last two women I have dated have gone full bare. Once you get into relationship stage, ask what your partner likes. It’s your decision but open communication on all things is good.

A function of graying and hair loss.

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Anonymous wrote:Bring lube

Uberlube is great. Last two women I have dated have gone full bare. Once you get into relationship stage, ask what your partner likes. It’s your decision but open communication on all things is good.

A function of graying and hair loss.

Nope! A function of home laser technology! Such a gamechanger. Wish it existed when i was in my 20s.

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Anonymous wrote:Date someone your own age and none of this will matter I promise.

This. We know how older men and women look. And it's OK.
Be upfront about your feelings if you are brave - I always admire that.

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Anonymous wrote:Bring lube

Uberlube is great. Last two women I have dated have gone full bare. Once you get into relationship stage, ask what your partner likes. It’s your decision but open communication on all things is good.

A function of graying and hair loss.

And what men want

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

It definitely fits 3-4 fingers and even a whole hand. How do you think women give birth? Stretching it is!
It’s highly pleasurable G spot stimulation - way more than going down. Foreign men started forplay with fingering 25 years ago with I was a young woman with no experience. Nobody even knew that oral on women existed and I always had several Os that way, before even getting to the act (which is A spot stimulation).
American men are not good in bed and not wanting to learn.

How old are you. I got oral in HS - my HS BF didn't want to have sex, but definitely went down on me (1987-1988). Not sure where you were, but oral on women has been a thing for a long time.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

It definitely fits 3-4 fingers and even a whole hand. How do you think women give birth? Stretching it is!
It’s highly pleasurable G spot stimulation - way more than going down. Foreign men started forplay with fingering 25 years ago with I was a young woman with no experience. Nobody even knew that oral on women existed and I always had several Os that way, before even getting to the act (which is A spot stimulation).
American men are not good in bed and not wanting to learn.

How old are you. I got oral in HS - my HS BF didn't want to have sex, but definitely went down on me (1987-1988). Not sure where you were, but oral on women has been a thing for a long time.

I think this PP may not even know what a female O is. Seriously.

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Anonymous wrote:You'll be fine. Just be aware of "virgin" vagina. The first time I did it after a couple years (and I was post menopausal) I was so irritated and raw. The sex was great, just not the day after. Saw the gyno and I'm on vaginal estrogen tabs. Made a huge difference.
Also, don't worry about pubes. Thankfully, just a trim on length and you're good to go. I have never, nor will I ever take it up the bum.

NP here, also over 50, hoping to have sex very soon after long marriage plus post-marriage celibate period. I've never done anything except shave bikini line, and I'm afraid trimming length would lead to sparse-looking. I mean, isn't sparse-looking what happens naturally when you age? Why would I want to look older down there than I already do? This is a serious question.

This is a dumb question. But what do you do when you trim? Just cut it shorter? How short?

54 yo woman here. When my bush seems to be getting unruly I just grab a bit and stretch it out and trim a half inch or so. I do this in the shower. Yes, it does make it thinner, but I don't care. I am old. It is cooler, less messy, easier on my guy if my pubes aren't inches long. Also, no ingrown anything, and still have the hygiene of pubic hair.

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Anonymous wrote:You'll be fine. Just be aware of "virgin" vagina. The first time I did it after a couple years (and I was post menopausal) I was so irritated and raw. The sex was great, just not the day after. Saw the gyno and I'm on vaginal estrogen tabs. Made a huge difference.
Also, don't worry about pubes. Thankfully, just a trim on length and you're good to go. I have never, nor will I ever take it up the bum.

NP here, also over 50, hoping to have sex very soon after long marriage plus post-marriage celibate period. I've never done anything except shave bikini line, and I'm afraid trimming length would lead to sparse-looking. I mean, isn't sparse-looking what happens naturally when you age? Why would I want to look older down there than I already do? This is a serious question.

This is a dumb question. But what do you do when you trim? Just cut it shorter? How short?

54 yo woman here. When my bush seems to be getting unruly I just grab a bit and stretch it out and trim a half inch or so. I do this in the shower. Yes, it does make it thinner, but I don't care. I am old. It is cooler, less messy, easier on my guy if my pubes aren't inches long. Also, no ingrown anything, and still have the hygiene of pubic hair.

They have trimmers for this, look on Amazon. They work just like men’s beard trimmers, you set the attachment to a certain length and get a nice even buzz. Takes 5 mins, looks kempt.