S/O sleeping with someone over 50

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Anonymous wrote:You'll be fine. Just be aware of "virgin" vagina. The first time I did it after a couple years (and I was post menopausal) I was so irritated and raw. The sex was great, just not the day after. Saw the gyno and I'm on vaginal estrogen tabs. Made a huge difference.
Also, don't worry about pubes. Thankfully, just a trim on length and you're good to go. I have never, nor will I ever take it up the bum.

NP here, also over 50, hoping to have sex very soon after long marriage plus post-marriage celibate period. I've never done anything except shave bikini line, and I'm afraid trimming length would lead to sparse-looking. I mean, isn't sparse-looking what happens naturally when you age? Why would I want to look older down there than I already do? This is a serious question.

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Get a Brazilian back and front that is the standard expectations for men under 55

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Anonymous wrote:Get a Brazilian back and front that is the standard expectations for men under 55

No, it isn't. It would be exciting, but so is any woman who wants to have sex with me.

-43

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Anonymous wrote:Get a Brazilian back and front that is the standard expectations for men under 55

ha ha no.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually a woman … fyi, the vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and the type of indirect stimulation of the cl*t that you are describing.

Anyway OP - hopefully at this age we can focus on finding partners that are good in bed rather than external appearances.

I am not describing deep penetration. Fingers slightly in, fast massaging movements side to side to great "trembling" sensation. It feels like amplified oral on woman. What do you think men do there when they go down?? Stretching is highly pleasurable but few people know that. I am a woman not a red pill poster. Too bad the former president gave such a bad name to a common way of brining woman to an O. Also, way safer for first sex and doesn't spread deceases, if hands are washed with antibacterial soap.

The experience is from Eastern and Western Europe. These men did go down as well, but hands were used way more back then and they were damn good in it knowing where and what to press. US men I was dating post divorce are nowhere near that level of skills AND they suck in sucking P.

So does create a building feeling or just a nice feeling? Also how long are we talking?

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Anonymous wrote:The problem is, men are "allowed" to have imperfect bodies and women are expected to be airbrushed and tight.

Every man you see in the media these days is jacked with 5% body fat and the clear message is that's what's considered "hot" and no, you are not allowed to be an "imperfect" fat slob.

Maybe if you hadn't let them do this to women since the beginning, we'd have more sympathy for the fact that it's starting to happen to you, too.

I have absolutely no control over the p0rn industry, so I didn't "let" them do anything to women.

I am not asking for sympathy, I'm simply stating that the previous claim that men are "allowed" to have imperfect bodies is wrong.

But thanks for your stupid remark.

Nah, bro, by and large, it's true. The range of "doable" men is far greater than the range for women. Men, generally speaking, are allowed a lot more imperfection than women. Still.

Sorry someone hurt you. (it wasn't me)
[Hey bro I'm sorry you think this dumb remark is a great zinger.]

Hey bro I'm sorry you're too stupid to understand that men are a lot less picky in reality than are women. Men will hit anything, they are not going to hold out for the ideal supermodel p0rn star perfection. This much is obvious to an intelligent observer (i.e. not you) just by looking at the couples you see in public.

Meanwhile every woman has a list of 2,583,032 demands that a man must meet in order to date her. And the list gets paradoxically longer the older and more unattractive she gets.

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Anonymous wrote:Get a Brazilian back and front that is the standard expectations for men under 55

Men could not care less. They're not going to throw you out of the house if you take your clothes off and you don't have a Brazilian.

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Anonymous wrote:The problem is, men are "allowed" to have imperfect bodies and women are expected to be airbrushed and tight.

Every man you see in the media these days is jacked with 5% body fat and the clear message is that's what's considered "hot" and no, you are not allowed to be an "imperfect" fat slob.

Maybe if you hadn't let them do this to women since the beginning, we'd have more sympathy for the fact that it's starting to happen to you, too.

I have absolutely no control over the p0rn industry, so I didn't "let" them do anything to women.

I am not asking for sympathy, I'm simply stating that the previous claim that men are "allowed" to have imperfect bodies is wrong.

But thanks for your stupid remark.

We are not talking about the porn Industry

Look at every female news anchor (especially FOX), show hosts, etc.

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Anonymous wrote:You'll be fine. Just be aware of "virgin" vagina. The first time I did it after a couple years (and I was post menopausal) I was so irritated and raw. The sex was great, just not the day after. Saw the gyno and I'm on vaginal estrogen tabs. Made a huge difference.
Also, don't worry about pubes. Thankfully, just a trim on length and you're good to go. I have never, nor will I ever take it up the bum.

NP here, also over 50, hoping to have sex very soon after long marriage plus post-marriage celibate period. I've never done anything except shave bikini line, and I'm afraid trimming length would lead to sparse-looking. I mean, isn't sparse-looking what happens naturally when you age? Why would I want to look older down there than I already do? This is a serious question.

This is a dumb question. But what do you do when you trim? Just cut it shorter? How short?

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Anonymous wrote:Get a Brazilian back and front that is the standard expectations for men under 55

Men could not care less. They're not going to throw you out of the house if you take your clothes off and you don't have a Brazilian.

low quality men will take anything

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Anonymous wrote:You'll be fine. Just be aware of "virgin" vagina. The first time I did it after a couple years (and I was post menopausal) I was so irritated and raw. The sex was great, just not the day after. Saw the gyno and I'm on vaginal estrogen tabs. Made a huge difference.
Also, don't worry about pubes. Thankfully, just a trim on length and you're good to go. I have never, nor will I ever take it up the bum.

NP here, also over 50, hoping to have sex very soon after long marriage plus post-marriage celibate period. I've never done anything except shave bikini line, and I'm afraid trimming length would lead to sparse-looking. I mean, isn't sparse-looking what happens naturally when you age? Why would I want to look older down there than I already do? This is a serious question.

This is a dumb question. But what do you do when you trim? Just cut it shorter? How short?

Wouldn’t that make it spiky/less soft?

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Anonymous wrote:Get a Brazilian back and front that is the standard expectations for men under 55

No, it isn't. It would be exciting, but so is any woman who wants to have sex with me.

-43

desperate

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Anonymous wrote:Get a Brazilian back and front that is the standard expectations for men under 55

Men could not care less. They're not going to throw you out of the house if you take your clothes off and you don't have a Brazilian.

low quality men will take anything

There is 0 chance this was actually written by a so-called high quality man.

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Anonymous wrote:You'll be fine. Just be aware of "virgin" vagina. The first time I did it after a couple years (and I was post menopausal) I was so irritated and raw. The sex was great, just not the day after. Saw the gyno and I'm on vaginal estrogen tabs. Made a huge difference.
Also, don't worry about pubes. Thankfully, just a trim on length and you're good to go. I have never, nor will I ever take it up the bum.

NP here, also over 50, hoping to have sex very soon after long marriage plus post-marriage celibate period. I've never done anything except shave bikini line, and I'm afraid trimming length would lead to sparse-looking. I mean, isn't sparse-looking what happens naturally when you age? Why would I want to look older down there than I already do? This is a serious question.

He’s not trying to floss.

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Anonymous wrote:Get a Brazilian back and front that is the standard expectations for men under 55

Men could not care less. They're not going to throw you out of the house if you take your clothes off and you don't have a Brazilian.

low quality men will take anything

There is 0 chance this was actually written by a so-called high quality man.

Yep. Another delusional red pill who believes that the secret to success with women is hating women. I've dated a lot, and the "high quality" men (judging by their subsequent partners and their career success) were all men who loved women in any way, shape or form. They might have had preferences but never would have insisted on getting her buttcrack waxed.