Men who are almost 50

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Depends on the woman's personality, attitude, and overall relationship with her kids and ex. I'm divorced in my 40s and I've been dating women in the early to mid 30s. But, that's who's available. I have met a few divorced soccer moms I'd like to get to know better. But, in general they are too busy with family and work to focus on a relationship. I will say this, I'll never date a woman in their 40s with kids who is seeking a money grab. Meaning, they want an easy life so just marry a man who's got money already so she can go back to being a SAHM. I've been introduced to at least 20-25 of those in the last two years by friends and acquaintances.

Is that because you do not have money?

I earn $400k/annual and have two weekend homes. My issue is with women who really just wants money. They don't really care about the man or what it takes to be good wife. All they want is the "life" to be lazy. I went through that already. My ex received over $800,000 cash along with our prior home. I was more than happy to lose it because I can always earn more income. I can't earn time back.

Please be real $400k is nowhere near the level where you need to be concerned about gold diggers. Unless you’re matching with working class women who think that’s a fortune

The average American woman make $40,000/year.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Depends on the woman's personality, attitude, and overall relationship with her kids and ex. I'm divorced in my 40s and I've been dating women in the early to mid 30s. But, that's who's available. I have met a few divorced soccer moms I'd like to get to know better. But, in general they are too busy with family and work to focus on a relationship. I will say this, I'll never date a woman in their 40s with kids who is seeking a money grab. Meaning, they want an easy life so just marry a man who's got money already so she can go back to being a SAHM. I've been introduced to at least 20-25 of those in the last two years by friends and acquaintances.

That pretty much sums up most of the divorced women in their 40s posting on DCUM.

The guy above probably has nothing to offer to divorced women in their 40s.

Singed 45 yo empty nester; NW $4,5mm make 400K/year own my home and car, travel internationally at least once a year

Yawn….you’re poor compared to the women I date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How does this pool of men feel about a never married woman in her early 40s, no kids, financially secure ($600K+/year) and ok with not having kids of her own? Or is the never married a red flag?

Is she hot?

[Anonymous]

I’m fine dating them but if they have young children scheduling time to be together can be very challenging. And if they have on going custody issues with their ex’s it just adds to the drama. For many just staying on the sidelines for a few years may be the best option or find a FWB.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m fine dating them but if they have young children scheduling time to be together can be very challenging. And if they have on going custody issues with their ex’s it just adds to the drama. For many just staying on the sidelines for a few years may be the best option or find a FWB.

This is me, single, 41 with two kids and plenty of custody issues. A 29 year old guy in my apartment building and I hook up a couple of times a month at his place and it’s just fine. He’s very busy with an intense career so it works for him as well. After a year there has been no emotional attachment which is a plus.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m fine dating them but if they have young children scheduling time to be together can be very challenging. And if they have on going custody issues with their ex’s it just adds to the drama. For many just staying on the sidelines for a few years may be the best option or find a FWB.

This is me, single, 41 with two kids and plenty of custody issues. A 29 year old guy in my apartment building and I hook up a couple of times a month at his place and it’s just fine. He’s very busy with an intense career so it works for him as well. After a year there has been no emotional attachment which is a plus.

What kind of custody issues? How does that interfere with a relationship? Asking bc I’m about to be in a similar situation.