Men who are almost 50

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Anonymous wrote:Until they are empty nesters it will be nothing but a casual relationship. Thankfully, the women I’ve met in that situation feel the same way. I think we are all just trying to get through our single parent years with our heads still on.

Agree! A nice dinner, good conversation and fun sex once every two weeks is all I need. I just don’t have the time or the mental bandwidth to offer much more than that.

Are you a man or a woman?

Woman.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Until they are empty nesters it will be nothing but a casual relationship. Thankfully, the women I’ve met in that situation feel the same way. I think we are all just trying to get through our single parent years with our heads still on.

Agree! A nice dinner, good conversation and fun sex once every two weeks is all I need. I just don’t have the time or the mental bandwidth to offer much more than that.

Are you a man or a woman?

Woman.

Ah ok. I would think men need more sex

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Until they are empty nesters it will be nothing but a casual relationship. Thankfully, the women I’ve met in that situation feel the same way. I think we are all just trying to get through our single parent years with our heads still on.

Agree! A nice dinner, good conversation and fun sex once every two weeks is all I need. I just don’t have the time or the mental bandwidth to offer much more than that.

Are you a man or a woman?

Woman.

Ah ok. I would think men need more sex

Women are just as big of horn dogs as men, maybe more.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Until they are empty nesters it will be nothing but a casual relationship. Thankfully, the women I’ve met in that situation feel the same way. I think we are all just trying to get through our single parent years with our heads still on.

Agree! A nice dinner, good conversation and fun sex once every two weeks is all I need. I just don’t have the time or the mental bandwidth to offer much more than that.

Are you a man or a woman?

Woman.

Ah ok. I would think men need more sex

Women are just as big of horn dogs as men, maybe more.

The PP female above is not. Once every 2 weeks is not characteristic of a "horn dog". I'm a woman and need way more sex in my 40s

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Depends on the woman's personality, attitude, and overall relationship with her kids and ex. I'm divorced in my 40s and I've been dating women in the early to mid 30s. But, that's who's available. I have met a few divorced soccer moms I'd like to get to know better. But, in general they are too busy with family and work to focus on a relationship. I will say this, I'll never date a woman in their 40s with kids who is seeking a money grab. Meaning, they want an easy life so just marry a man who's got money already so she can go back to being a SAHM. I've been introduced to at least 20-25 of those in the last two years by friends and acquaintances.

Is that because you do not have money?

I earn $400k/annual and have two weekend homes. My issue is with women who really just wants money. They don't really care about the man or what it takes to be good wife. All they want is the "life" to be lazy. I went through that already. My ex received over $800,000 cash along with our prior home. I was more than happy to lose it because I can always earn more income. I can't earn time back.

Please be real $400k is nowhere near the level where you need to be concerned about gold diggers. Unless you’re matching with working class women who think that’s a fortune

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Until they are empty nesters it will be nothing but a casual relationship. Thankfully, the women I’ve met in that situation feel the same way. I think we are all just trying to get through our single parent years with our heads still on.

Agree! A nice dinner, good conversation and fun sex once every two weeks is all I need. I just don’t have the time or the mental bandwidth to offer much more than that.

Are you a man or a woman?

Woman.

Ah ok. I would think men need more sex

Women are just as big of horn dogs as men, maybe more.

I’m the PP with the two week need. With three kids that’s all I can hope for so in between I just take care of myself.

The PP female above is not. Once every 2 weeks is not characteristic of a "horn dog". I'm a woman and need way more sex in my 40s

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Anonymous wrote:How do you feel about dating divorced women with kids in their 40s?

Been dating them but will not pursue anything long term. Between their exs and also what they are looking for (6ft guy making $500k who is a gym rat) most are just out of touch. The apps are a shit show.

Presume you are a 5'8 guy making 150K/year. It's probably the other way around: women don't pursue anything long term with you

51yo, five foot seven inch guy here making 90k and I have three kids. I wouldn't even claim to be handsome. Not ugly, but not great looking.

Divorced 18 months and I've smashed probably a dozen and a half women in the last year. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.

We're all terribly impressed. You may be 50 but you're use of "smashed" indicates you have the maturity of a toddler. Likely, given the bravado, not very good in the smashing dept. either.

Ehh, I'd have you on your back in 20 minutes.

You jumping off the ladder you need to reach your coffee cups?

[Anonymous]

I'm 51F and date guys in this age range. I'm financially stable and have a stable coparenting situation so I have time to date and see friends. Most of the guys I know in this age range- and I know many- are dating women in their general age range. Only a couple date much younger women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm 51F and date guys in this age range. I'm financially stable and have a stable coparenting situation so I have time to date and see friends. Most of the guys I know in this age range- and I know many- are dating women in their general age range. Only a couple date much younger women.

Me too. I’m sure the guys my age went younger early on but now want a relationship not just booty. I’m guilty too of being with younger guys and it was fun.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Depends on the woman's personality, attitude, and overall relationship with her kids and ex. I'm divorced in my 40s and I've been dating women in the early to mid 30s. But, that's who's available. I have met a few divorced soccer moms I'd like to get to know better. But, in general they are too busy with family and work to focus on a relationship. I will say this, I'll never date a woman in their 40s with kids who is seeking a money grab. Meaning, they want an easy life so just marry a man who's got money already so she can go back to being a SAHM. I've been introduced to at least 20-25 of those in the last two years by friends and acquaintances.

Well hello. I’m 49 have a job and a house. How you doing?
Not interest in SAHm

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My brother is in his early 40s and on the spectrum so he's not a ladies man and does not have much luck dating never married women in their 30s-40s. I have suggested dating a divorced woman several times now.

To anyone reading this, he's somewhat attractive and works in big law. He is incredibly effing weird and neurotic though.

Could he meet women through Mensa meetings or something? Honestly, there’s got to be someone out there for him!

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Anonymous wrote:My brother is in his early 40s and on the spectrum so he's not a ladies man and does not have much luck dating never married women in their 30s-40s. I have suggested dating a divorced woman several times now.

To anyone reading this, he's somewhat attractive and works in big law. He is incredibly effing weird and neurotic though.

Could he meet women through Mensa meetings or something? Honestly, there’s got to be someone out there for him!

Why would he need to meet someone at Mensa and why should someone who is a member of Mensa be interested in someone who is autistic as opposed to not autistic?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My brother is in his early 40s and on the spectrum so he's not a ladies man and does not have much luck dating never married women in their 30s-40s. I have suggested dating a divorced woman several times now.

To anyone reading this, he's somewhat attractive and works in big law. He is incredibly effing weird and neurotic though.

Could he meet women through Mensa meetings or something? Honestly, there’s got to be someone out there for him!

Why would he need to meet someone at Mensa and why should someone who is a member of Mensa be interested in someone who is autistic as opposed to not autistic?

You clearly have never met any Mensa people. They’re all weirdos. Many of them are autistic. Autistic would be perfect for them.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Until they are empty nesters it will be nothing but a casual relationship. Thankfully, the women I’ve met in that situation feel the same way. I think we are all just trying to get through our single parent years with our heads still on.

Agree! A nice dinner, good conversation and fun sex once every two weeks is all I need. I just don’t have the time or the mental bandwidth to offer much more than that.

Are you a man or a woman?

Woman.

Ah ok. I would think men need more sex

Women are just as big of horn dogs as men, maybe more.

Not at that age. Not in that situation.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Until they are empty nesters it will be nothing but a casual relationship. Thankfully, the women I’ve met in that situation feel the same way. I think we are all just trying to get through our single parent years with our heads still on.

Agree! A nice dinner, good conversation and fun sex once every two weeks is all I need. I just don’t have the time or the mental bandwidth to offer much more than that.

Are you a man or a woman?

Woman.

Ah ok. I would think men need more sex

Women are just as big of horn dogs as men, maybe more.

Not at that age. Not in that situation.

Just saying there’s this notion that men only want sex and that they always have the higher libido, and that’s just not true. There are many women that have a higher drive than the man. This forum is full of posts from women that aren’t happy with the frequency in their relationship. And full of men taking pills bc their d*cks aren’t working like the use to.