Men who are almost 50

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Anonymous wrote:Women in their 40s with kids. Assume the guy had no kids of his own.

Speaking as a divorced woman in her 40s w kids, the lifestyle difference is pretty significant btw someone in the thick of child rearing and someone who never had kids. When I first divorced, I thought a man w no kids/college aged kids would be ideal. I quickly realized that these men and I are just not in the same place in life at all. Even the men w kids out of the house who “remember what it was like”, that was years ago.

Yes, I’m a divorced 40yo with elementary kids and I’m only interested in other divorced dads with similar age kids for this reason. I didn’t have any trouble finding a great one either, i filtered my hinge matches aggressively and am happily seeing the first guy I met up with. Both of us are engaged parents with 50/50 custody so we’re uninterested in ever getting remarried or otherwise taking up a lot of each others time, but since we both work at FAANGs we can afford some pretty nice trips together on our off weeks.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The men On these relationships posts do not represent their species well.

Funny I was thinking the same thing for the women who post here.

That's because you engage in faux outraged whataboutism.

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Anonymous wrote:How do you feel about dating divorced women with kids in their 40s?

Been dating them but will not pursue anything long term. Between their exs and also what they are looking for (6ft guy making $500k who is a gym rat) most are just out of touch. The apps are a shit show.

Presume you are a 5'8 guy making 150K/year. It's probably the other way around: women don't pursue anything long term with you

51yo, five foot seven inch guy here making 90k and I have three kids. I wouldn't even claim to be handsome. Not ugly, but not great looking.

Divorced 18 months and I've smashed probably a dozen and a half women in the last year. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.

We're all terribly impressed. You may be 50 but you're use of "smashed" indicates you have the maturity of a toddler. Likely, given the bravado, not very good in the smashing dept. either.

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Anonymous wrote:How do you feel about dating divorced women with kids in their 40s?

Been dating them but will not pursue anything long term. Between their exs and also what they are looking for (6ft guy making $500k who is a gym rat) most are just out of touch. The apps are a shit show.

Presume you are a 5'8 guy making 150K/year. It's probably the other way around: women don't pursue anything long term with you

51yo, five foot seven inch guy here making 90k and I have three kids. I wouldn't even claim to be handsome. Not ugly, but not great looking.

Divorced 18 months and I've smashed probably a dozen and a half women in the last year. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.

We're all terribly impressed. You may be 50 but you're use of "smashed" indicates you have the maturity of a toddler. Likely, given the bravado, not very good in the smashing dept. either.

Ehh, I'd have you on your back in 20 minutes.

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Anonymous wrote:How do you feel about dating divorced women with kids in their 40s?

Been dating them but will not pursue anything long term. Between their exs and also what they are looking for (6ft guy making $500k who is a gym rat) most are just out of touch. The apps are a shit show.

Presume you are a 5'8 guy making 150K/year. It's probably the other way around: women don't pursue anything long term with you

51yo, five foot seven inch guy here making 90k and I have three kids. I wouldn't even claim to be handsome. Not ugly, but not great looking.

Divorced 18 months and I've smashed probably a dozen and a half women in the last year. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.

No man posts on dcum.

So OP was just pissing in the wind? Got it.

Yes, you did get it.

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Anonymous wrote:How do you feel about dating divorced women with kids in their 40s?

Been dating them but will not pursue anything long term. Between their exs and also what they are looking for (6ft guy making $500k who is a gym rat) most are just out of touch. The apps are a shit show.

Presume you are a 5'8 guy making 150K/year. It's probably the other way around: women don't pursue anything long term with you

51yo, five foot seven inch guy here making 90k and I have three kids. I wouldn't even claim to be handsome. Not ugly, but not great looking.

Divorced 18 months and I've smashed probably a dozen and a half women in the last year. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.

We're all terribly impressed. You may be 50 but you're use of "smashed" indicates you have the maturity of a toddler. Likely, given the bravado, not very good in the smashing dept. either.

Ehh, I'd have you on your back in 20 minutes.

Is that how long it takes for date rape drug to kick in?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My brother is in his early 40s and on the spectrum so he's not a ladies man and does not have much luck dating never married women in their 30s-40s. I have suggested dating a divorced woman several times now.

To anyone reading this, he's somewhat attractive and works in big law. He is incredibly effing weird and neurotic though.

I wonder if I had a date with him. Very close description: does he drive?

Yes he does but I have no idea how that will help you narrow it down LOL.

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Until they are empty nesters it will be nothing but a casual relationship. Thankfully, the women I’ve met in that situation feel the same way. I think we are all just trying to get through our single parent years with our heads still on.

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Anonymous wrote:How do you feel about dating divorced women with kids in their 40s?

Been dating them but will not pursue anything long term. Between their exs and also what they are looking for (6ft guy making $500k who is a gym rat) most are just out of touch. The apps are a shit show.

Presume you are a 5'8 guy making 150K/year. It's probably the other way around: women don't pursue anything long term with you

51yo, five foot seven inch guy here making 90k and I have three kids. I wouldn't even claim to be handsome. Not ugly, but not great looking.

Divorced 18 months and I've smashed probably a dozen and a half women in the last year. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.

We're all terribly impressed. You may be 50 but you're use of "smashed" indicates you have the maturity of a toddler. Likely, given the bravado, not very good in the smashing dept. either.

Ehh, I'd have you on your back in 20 minutes.

I assure you that you wouldn't.

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Anonymous wrote:How do you feel about dating divorced women with kids in their 40s?

Been dating them but will not pursue anything long term. Between their exs and also what they are looking for (6ft guy making $500k who is a gym rat) most are just out of touch. The apps are a shit show.

Presume you are a 5'8 guy making 150K/year. It's probably the other way around: women don't pursue anything long term with you

51yo, five foot seven inch guy here making 90k and I have three kids. I wouldn't even claim to be handsome. Not ugly, but not great looking.

Divorced 18 months and I've smashed probably a dozen and a half women in the last year. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.

We're all terribly impressed. You may be 50 but you're use of "smashed" indicates you have the maturity of a toddler. Likely, given the bravado, not very good in the smashing dept. either.

Ehh, I'd have you on your back in 20 minutes.

That doesn't mean you're good at it either. 20 minutes? LOL. Dogs last longer than that.

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Anonymous wrote:How do you feel about dating divorced women with kids in their 40s?

Been dating them but will not pursue anything long term. Between their exs and also what they are looking for (6ft guy making $500k who is a gym rat) most are just out of touch. The apps are a shit show.

Presume you are a 5'8 guy making 150K/year. It's probably the other way around: women don't pursue anything long term with you

51yo, five foot seven inch guy here making 90k and I have three kids. I wouldn't even claim to be handsome. Not ugly, but not great looking.

Divorced 18 months and I've smashed probably a dozen and a half women in the last year. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.

We're all terribly impressed. You may be 50 but you're use of "smashed" indicates you have the maturity of a toddler. Likely, given the bravado, not very good in the smashing dept. either.

Ehh, I'd have you on your back in 20 minutes.

I assure you that you wouldn't.

More of a face down gal? I'm sure he won't mind.

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Anonymous wrote:How do you feel about dating divorced women with kids in their 40s?

Been dating them but will not pursue anything long term. Between their exs and also what they are looking for (6ft guy making $500k who is a gym rat) most are just out of touch. The apps are a shit show.

Presume you are a 5'8 guy making 150K/year. It's probably the other way around: women don't pursue anything long term with you

51yo, five foot seven inch guy here making 90k and I have three kids. I wouldn't even claim to be handsome. Not ugly, but not great looking.

Divorced 18 months and I've smashed probably a dozen and a half women in the last year. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.

We're all terribly impressed. You may be 50 but you're use of "smashed" indicates you have the maturity of a toddler. Likely, given the bravado, not very good in the smashing dept. either.

Ehh, I'd have you on your back in 20 minutes.

That doesn't mean you're good at it either. 20 minutes? LOL. Dogs last longer than that.

Now, now, reading comprehension ladies! He said "in" 20 minutes, not "for" 20 minutes.

I'm sure the "for" is single digits. Not shaming him, I tend to make a quick job of it myself.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Depends on the woman's personality, attitude, and overall relationship with her kids and ex. I'm divorced in my 40s and I've been dating women in the early to mid 30s. But, that's who's available. I have met a few divorced soccer moms I'd like to get to know better. But, in general they are too busy with family and work to focus on a relationship. I will say this, I'll never date a woman in their 40s with kids who is seeking a money grab. Meaning, they want an easy life so just marry a man who's got money already so she can go back to being a SAHM. I've been introduced to at least 20-25 of those in the last two years by friends and acquaintances.

Is that because you do not have money?

I earn $400k/annual and have two weekend homes. My issue is with women who really just wants money. They don't really care about the man or what it takes to be good wife. All they want is the "life" to be lazy. I went through that already. My ex received over $800,000 cash along with our prior home. I was more than happy to lose it because I can always earn more income. I can't earn time back.

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Anonymous wrote:Until they are empty nesters it will be nothing but a casual relationship. Thankfully, the women I’ve met in that situation feel the same way. I think we are all just trying to get through our single parent years with our heads still on.

Agree! A nice dinner, good conversation and fun sex once every two weeks is all I need. I just don’t have the time or the mental bandwidth to offer much more than that.

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Anonymous wrote:Until they are empty nesters it will be nothing but a casual relationship. Thankfully, the women I’ve met in that situation feel the same way. I think we are all just trying to get through our single parent years with our heads still on.

Agree! A nice dinner, good conversation and fun sex once every two weeks is all I need. I just don’t have the time or the mental bandwidth to offer much more than that.

Are you a man or a woman?