| I’m almost 50 and dating has sucked. The women in the heir 40s I have met are just looking for someone to take care of them $$. I have to plan all the dates and pay for everything. Zero effort on their part. I wanted something LT but have since gone the FWB route. |
Been dating them but will not pursue anything long term. Between their exs and also what they are looking for (6ft guy making $500k who is a gym rat) most are just out of touch. The apps are a shit show. |
Presume you are a 5'8 guy making 150K/year. It's probably the other way around: women don't pursue anything long term with you |
| How does this pool of men feel about a never married woman in her early 40s, no kids, financially secure ($600K+/year) and ok with not having kids of her own? Or is the never married a red flag? |
I'm in a similar position but with one grown up child in my 40s. Men will feel emasculated. |
| The question is what the 600K+/year women are looking for? |
Amazing sex. Decent conversation. Someone who can order a food bottle of wine and isn’t self obsessed. That’d be a good start. |
| *good |
| Men in their 50s - yeah no thanks, unless they aren't American. |
How is this (the bold part) any different than most others in Big Law? |
| As long as she is thin and hot, IDGAF. |
51yo, five foot seven inch guy here making 90k and I have three kids. I wouldn't even claim to be handsome. Not ugly, but not great looking. Divorced 18 months and I've smashed probably a dozen and a half women in the last year. It's like shooting fish in a barrel. |
No 5’ 7” guy smashes anything. |
No man posts on dcum. |
So OP was just pissing in the wind? Got it. |