Men who are almost 50

Anonymous
I’m almost 50 and dating has sucked. The women in the heir 40s I have met are just looking for someone to take care of them $$. I have to plan all the dates and pay for everything. Zero effort on their part. I wanted something LT but have since gone the FWB route.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:How do you feel about dating divorced women with kids in their 40s?


Been dating them but will not pursue anything long term. Between their exs and also what they are looking for (6ft guy making $500k who is a gym rat) most are just out of touch. The apps are a shit show.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How do you feel about dating divorced women with kids in their 40s?


Been dating them but will not pursue anything long term. Between their exs and also what they are looking for (6ft guy making $500k who is a gym rat) most are just out of touch. The apps are a shit show.


Presume you are a 5'8 guy making 150K/year. It's probably the other way around: women don't pursue anything long term with you
Anonymous
How does this pool of men feel about a never married woman in her early 40s, no kids, financially secure ($600K+/year) and ok with not having kids of her own? Or is the never married a red flag?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:How does this pool of men feel about a never married woman in her early 40s, no kids, financially secure ($600K+/year) and ok with not having kids of her own? Or is the never married a red flag?


I'm in a similar position but with one grown up child in my 40s. Men will feel emasculated.
Anonymous
The question is what the 600K+/year women are looking for?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:The question is what the 600K+/year women are looking for?


Amazing sex. Decent conversation. Someone who can order a food bottle of wine and isn’t self obsessed. That’d be a good start.
Anonymous
*good
Anonymous
Men in their 50s - yeah no thanks, unless they aren't American.
Anonymous
To anyone reading this, he's somewhat attractive and works in big law. He is incredibly effing weird and neurotic though.


How is this (the bold part) any different than most others in Big Law?
Anonymous
As long as she is thin and hot, IDGAF.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How do you feel about dating divorced women with kids in their 40s?


Been dating them but will not pursue anything long term. Between their exs and also what they are looking for (6ft guy making $500k who is a gym rat) most are just out of touch. The apps are a shit show.


Presume you are a 5'8 guy making 150K/year. It's probably the other way around: women don't pursue anything long term with you


51yo, five foot seven inch guy here making 90k and I have three kids. I wouldn't even claim to be handsome. Not ugly, but not great looking.

Divorced 18 months and I've smashed probably a dozen and a half women in the last year. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How do you feel about dating divorced women with kids in their 40s?


Been dating them but will not pursue anything long term. Between their exs and also what they are looking for (6ft guy making $500k who is a gym rat) most are just out of touch. The apps are a shit show.


Presume you are a 5'8 guy making 150K/year. It's probably the other way around: women don't pursue anything long term with you


51yo, five foot seven inch guy here making 90k and I have three kids. I wouldn't even claim to be handsome. Not ugly, but not great looking.

Divorced 18 months and I've smashed probably a dozen and a half women in the last year. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.

No 5’ 7” guy smashes anything.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How do you feel about dating divorced women with kids in their 40s?


Been dating them but will not pursue anything long term. Between their exs and also what they are looking for (6ft guy making $500k who is a gym rat) most are just out of touch. The apps are a shit show.


Presume you are a 5'8 guy making 150K/year. It's probably the other way around: women don't pursue anything long term with you


51yo, five foot seven inch guy here making 90k and I have three kids. I wouldn't even claim to be handsome. Not ugly, but not great looking.

Divorced 18 months and I've smashed probably a dozen and a half women in the last year. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.

No man posts on dcum.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How do you feel about dating divorced women with kids in their 40s?


Been dating them but will not pursue anything long term. Between their exs and also what they are looking for (6ft guy making $500k who is a gym rat) most are just out of touch. The apps are a shit show.


Presume you are a 5'8 guy making 150K/year. It's probably the other way around: women don't pursue anything long term with you


51yo, five foot seven inch guy here making 90k and I have three kids. I wouldn't even claim to be handsome. Not ugly, but not great looking.

Divorced 18 months and I've smashed probably a dozen and a half women in the last year. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.

No man posts on dcum.


So OP was just pissing in the wind? Got it.
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