Older women dating younger men: where did you meet your significant other?

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I also look very young for my age. Most people think I'm 30. Nothing sagging/no wrinkles. I am actually better looking now than I was in my 20s!

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Sofia Vergara, Demi Moore…

Buyer beware. Younger guys end up ditching older women when they decide they actually do want kids of their own.

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Anonymous wrote:I would never date a man older than me now that I'm in my 40s. The 24-30 year olds are where it's at.

Disgusting. Absolutely disgusting.

40s dating a 24-year old guy?

That’s my son or nephews. Blahhhhh

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I would be so wigged out if my 24 year old son was dating a middle aged 40-something.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m 45, he’s almost 40, we met at a conference. He came up to me after I stepped down from a panel and asked me a technical question. I was completely smitten that very second. I don’t know if 5.5 years is a big difference but I do think about it a lot and wonder if I’m good/young enough. He has definitely motivated me to stay in shape!

I don’t consider a 5-year gap a “younger man.”

Are you a man or a woman?

Woman. Five years is not really an age gap for either gender.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m 45, he’s almost 40, we met at a conference. He came up to me after I stepped down from a panel and asked me a technical question. I was completely smitten that very second. I don’t know if 5.5 years is a big difference but I do think about it a lot and wonder if I’m good/young enough. He has definitely motivated me to stay in shape!

I don’t consider a 5-year gap a “younger man.”

Are you a man or a woman?

Woman. Five years is not really an age gap for either gender.

Thanks for responding. I don’t know, for some reason the difference is making me self conscious. I’m very fit but I don’t think I look 30 etc. I only feel this insecurity in the context of this relationship, otherwise I feel completely at peace with my age.

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Anonymous wrote:It is very interesting. Older women HATE men who date much younger women, they really do. They genuinely despise them and take it personal. Yet these same women are now moving cross country to date a man perhaps less than a decade older than their oldest son. Interesting.

I am 46 divorced 3 years and my ex wife is 49. I have been dating a 31 years old lady and my ex wife told our daughter that my gf is “disgusting”.

Sounds like your ex is the disgusting one. Congrats to upgrading to someone far better on the inside and the outside!

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Anonymous wrote:Women date younger because they want to feel young again. Imagine a 27 years old man on a date with a wrinkly old looking 47 years old woman. What are you going to talk about with a man 20 years your junior? This sounds like a one sided relation to me.

46. No wrinkles. I look much younger. Seriously. I would look the same age as somebody was about 32 which is not that far from 27 or 28.

I don’t date younger men because I want to feel younger. I date them because there’s almost nobody my age available, and I’m not interested in remarrying. I talked to them about the same things I talk to people my age about; there’s really not that much difference... also, I’m an extremely busy person and younger men have less commitment and more time to work around my schedule.

You don't look 32 or 28. Stop it!. What is it with Millennial women and this nonsense.

Dp. I definitely do. I am on OLD and guys in their 20s and 30s commented I look like I'm under 18 because I don't list my age. It's embarrassing looking so young at 42. They are amazed. I have a baby face no wrinkles smooth skin small nose large eyes no lines and perky double ds and a flat stomach. All natural.

Please share your secrets! Haha I need to find me some younger men because the 40 year olds I have been trying to date have not been working out. Ha!

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Anonymous wrote:I would never date a man older than me now that I'm in my 40s. The 24-30 year olds are where it's at.

Yesssssss! Also in my 40s. Dating a 40 year old and a 31 year old and I much prefer the younger one!

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I have always looked young so pretty much have dated guys younger (one was 10 years younger) two long term ones were 7 younger. One of those is my husband who I’ve been married to now 15 years. I’m 54 and still look younger than him (always have) - I have no wrinkles - it’s genetic (my parents always looked 15 yr younger). I met my husband playing pub trivia, others at bars.