Older women dating younger men: where did you meet your significant other?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Women date younger because they want to feel young again. Imagine a 27 years old man on a date with a wrinkly old looking 47 years old woman. What are you going to talk about with a man 20 years your junior? This sounds like a one sided relation to me.

46. No wrinkles. I look much younger. Seriously. I would look the same age as somebody was about 32 which is not that far from 27 or 28.

I don’t date younger men because I want to feel younger. I date them because there’s almost nobody my age available, and I’m not interested in remarrying. I talked to them about the same things I talk to people my age about; there’s really not that much difference... also, I’m an extremely busy person and younger men have less commitment and more time to work around my schedule.

You don't look 32 or 28. Stop it!. What is it with Millennial women and this nonsense.

Dp. I definitely do. I am on OLD and guys in their 20s and 30s commented I look like I'm under 18 because I don't list my age. It's embarrassing looking so young at 42. They are amazed. I have a baby face no wrinkles smooth skin small nose large eyes no lines and perky double ds and a flat stomach. All natural.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:TLDR: For those women who have had successful long-term relationship with younger men, where did you meet your partner? If online, which apps? If in real life, what locations? Would love to hear your experience!

Background: I'm a 38 yo divorced mom (50% custody), slender and good looking. Most people would guess I'm in my 20s or around 30. I'm usually attracted to guys around 30 - so 5-10 years younger than me, not really a huge gap. My last boyfriend is six years younger than me and we met in real life. He is way more mature than most 40 yo single guys I've met.

I should also add I'm looking for long-term relationship (even though I'm not against hookup), and I'm open to having more kids. I don't need any guy's money but I also don't want any guy dating me for my money. I've been using Bumble and Hinge (setting my age range to 28-43) but overall I seem to have better luck meeting guys in person.

No they don't. Maybe stop hanging around immature people. Perhaps school, it seems you need to brush up on your math. Probably plenty of 32 year olds at community college.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women date younger because they want to feel young again. Imagine a 27 years old man on a date with a wrinkly old looking 47 years old woman. What are you going to talk about with a man 20 years your junior? This sounds like a one sided relation to me.

46. No wrinkles. I look much younger. Seriously. I would look the same age as somebody was about 32 which is not that far from 27 or 28.

I don’t date younger men because I want to feel younger. I date them because there’s almost nobody my age available, and I’m not interested in remarrying. I talked to them about the same things I talk to people my age about; there’s really not that much difference... also, I’m an extremely busy person and younger men have less commitment and more time to work around my schedule.

You don't look 32 or 28. Stop it!. What is it with Millennial women and this nonsense.

Dp. I definitely do. I am on OLD and guys in their 20s and 30s commented I look like I'm under 18 because I don't list my age. It's embarrassing looking so young at 42. They are amazed. I have a baby face no wrinkles smooth skin small nose large eyes no lines and perky double ds and a flat stomach. All natural.

No you don't. You don't look like you're under 18 and those guys are creeps or idiots or assume correctly that you're a vain ninny who would do whatever they ask if they fed you those lines.

Ladies of my generation we do not look 18, or 25. This doesn't mean we're out of shape or not attractive. It means we're not kids any more and that's okay

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women date younger because they want to feel young again. Imagine a 27 years old man on a date with a wrinkly old looking 47 years old woman. What are you going to talk about with a man 20 years your junior? This sounds like a one sided relation to me.

46. No wrinkles. I look much younger. Seriously. I would look the same age as somebody was about 32 which is not that far from 27 or 28.

I don’t date younger men because I want to feel younger. I date them because there’s almost nobody my age available, and I’m not interested in remarrying. I talked to them about the same things I talk to people my age about; there’s really not that much difference... also, I’m an extremely busy person and younger men have less commitment and more time to work around my schedule.

You don't look 32 or 28. Stop it!. What is it with Millennial women and this nonsense.

I am Gen X. (46). I have been mistaken for being in my early 30s even this month at work for years as well as parents at the school my kids go to. Not lying. No wrinkles. Good shape. When I was 44, just two years ago. Someone did not think I was a day over 31. This was work related and they apologized for gossiping about me. Assuming I didn’t have enough experience for my job. My employee told me two weeks ago that she thought I was in my early 30s also. I was still getting carded at 37 at bars. People usually are surprised.

My mom and grandma both look 15 years younger than their age.

I was out with a 32 year old this summer. We look the same age.

I see lines on early 30s men that I don’t have.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women date younger because they want to feel young again. Imagine a 27 years old man on a date with a wrinkly old looking 47 years old woman. What are you going to talk about with a man 20 years your junior? This sounds like a one sided relation to me.

46. No wrinkles. I look much younger. Seriously. I would look the same age as somebody was about 32 which is not that far from 27 or 28.

I don’t date younger men because I want to feel younger. I date them because there’s almost nobody my age available, and I’m not interested in remarrying. I talked to them about the same things I talk to people my age about; there’s really not that much difference... also, I’m an extremely busy person and younger men have less commitment and more time to work around my schedule.

You don't look 32 or 28. Stop it!. What is it with Millennial women and this nonsense.

Dp. I definitely do. I am on OLD and guys in their 20s and 30s commented I look like I'm under 18 because I don't list my age. It's embarrassing looking so young at 42. They are amazed. I have a baby face no wrinkles smooth skin small nose large eyes no lines and perky double ds and a flat stomach. All natural.

+1. same. I am the PP at 46.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:TLDR: For those women who have had successful long-term relationship with younger men, where did you meet your partner? If online, which apps? If in real life, what locations? Would love to hear your experience!

Background: I'm a 38 yo divorced mom (50% custody), slender and good looking. Most people would guess I'm in my 20s or around 30. I'm usually attracted to guys around 30 - so 5-10 years younger than me, not really a huge gap. My last boyfriend is six years younger than me and we met in real life. He is way more mature than most 40 yo single guys I've met.

I should also add I'm looking for long-term relationship (even though I'm not against hookup), and I'm open to having more kids. I don't need any guy's money but I also don't want any guy dating me for my money. I've been using Bumble and Hinge (setting my age range to 28-43) but overall I seem to have better luck meeting guys in person.

No they don't. Maybe stop hanging around immature people. Perhaps school, it seems you need to brush up on your math. Probably plenty of 32 year olds at community college.

Lol, sorry if you are a loser who's 32+ and still in community college. I understand your bitterness.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women date younger because they want to feel young again. Imagine a 27 years old man on a date with a wrinkly old looking 47 years old woman. What are you going to talk about with a man 20 years your junior? This sounds like a one sided relation to me.

46. No wrinkles. I look much younger. Seriously. I would look the same age as somebody was about 32 which is not that far from 27 or 28.

I don’t date younger men because I want to feel younger. I date them because there’s almost nobody my age available, and I’m not interested in remarrying. I talked to them about the same things I talk to people my age about; there’s really not that much difference... also, I’m an extremely busy person and younger men have less commitment and more time to work around my schedule.

You don't look 32 or 28. Stop it!. What is it with Millennial women and this nonsense.

Dp. I definitely do. I am on OLD and guys in their 20s and 30s commented I look like I'm under 18 because I don't list my age. It's embarrassing looking so young at 42. They are amazed. I have a baby face no wrinkles smooth skin small nose large eyes no lines and perky double ds and a flat stomach. All natural.

Genuine question: which online dating app allows you not to list your age?

[Anonymous]

Op to answer your question we met at work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women date younger because they want to feel young again. Imagine a 27 years old man on a date with a wrinkly old looking 47 years old woman. What are you going to talk about with a man 20 years your junior? This sounds like a one sided relation to me.

46. No wrinkles. I look much younger. Seriously. I would look the same age as somebody was about 32 which is not that far from 27 or 28.

I don’t date younger men because I want to feel younger. I date them because there’s almost nobody my age available, and I’m not interested in remarrying. I talked to them about the same things I talk to people my age about; there’s really not that much difference... also, I’m an extremely busy person and younger men have less commitment and more time to work around my schedule.

You don't look 32 or 28. Stop it!. What is it with Millennial women and this nonsense.

I am Gen X. (46). I have been mistaken for being in my early 30s even this month at work for years as well as parents at the school my kids go to. Not lying. No wrinkles. Good shape. When I was 44, just two years ago. Someone did not think I was a day over 31. This was work related and they apologized for gossiping about me. Assuming I didn’t have enough experience for my job. My employee told me two weeks ago that she thought I was in my early 30s also. I was still getting carded at 37 at bars. People usually are surprised.

My mom and grandma both look 15 years younger than their age.

I was out with a 32 year old this summer. We look the same age.

I see lines on early 30s men that I don’t have.

I’m currently sleeping with an extremely young looking 41yo and a 26yo. The older woman is much more attractive, but I promise you, your body looks different in your 40s, just as mine does.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women date younger because they want to feel young again. Imagine a 27 years old man on a date with a wrinkly old looking 47 years old woman. What are you going to talk about with a man 20 years your junior? This sounds like a one sided relation to me.

46. No wrinkles. I look much younger. Seriously. I would look the same age as somebody was about 32 which is not that far from 27 or 28.

I don’t date younger men because I want to feel younger. I date them because there’s almost nobody my age available, and I’m not interested in remarrying. I talked to them about the same things I talk to people my age about; there’s really not that much difference... also, I’m an extremely busy person and younger men have less commitment and more time to work around my schedule.

You don't look 32 or 28. Stop it!. What is it with Millennial women and this nonsense.

Dp. I definitely do. I am on OLD and guys in their 20s and 30s commented I look like I'm under 18 because I don't list my age. It's embarrassing looking so young at 42. They are amazed. I have a baby face no wrinkles smooth skin small nose large eyes no lines and perky double ds and a flat stomach. All natural.

No you don't. You don't look like you're under 18 and those guys are creeps or idiots or assume correctly that you're a vain ninny who would do whatever they ask if they fed you those lines.

Ladies of my generation we do not look 18, or 25. This doesn't mean we're out of shape or not attractive. It means we're not kids any more and that's okay

What is with all your jealousy and hate towards beautiful women who look young for their age?

Life is short. Live and let live. If younger guys find us attractive we're allowed to date, sleep, or marry them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women date younger because they want to feel young again. Imagine a 27 years old man on a date with a wrinkly old looking 47 years old woman. What are you going to talk about with a man 20 years your junior? This sounds like a one sided relation to me.

46. No wrinkles. I look much younger. Seriously. I would look the same age as somebody was about 32 which is not that far from 27 or 28.

I don’t date younger men because I want to feel younger. I date them because there’s almost nobody my age available, and I’m not interested in remarrying. I talked to them about the same things I talk to people my age about; there’s really not that much difference... also, I’m an extremely busy person and younger men have less commitment and more time to work around my schedule.

You don't look 32 or 28. Stop it!. What is it with Millennial women and this nonsense.

I am Gen X. (46). I have been mistaken for being in my early 30s even this month at work for years as well as parents at the school my kids go to. Not lying. No wrinkles. Good shape. When I was 44, just two years ago. Someone did not think I was a day over 31. This was work related and they apologized for gossiping about me. Assuming I didn’t have enough experience for my job. My employee told me two weeks ago that she thought I was in my early 30s also. I was still getting carded at 37 at bars. People usually are surprised.

My mom and grandma both look 15 years younger than their age.

I was out with a 32 year old this summer. We look the same age.

I see lines on early 30s men that I don’t have.

I’m currently sleeping with an extremely young looking 41yo and a 26yo. The older woman is much more attractive, but I promise you, your body looks different in your 40s, just as mine does.

My body was fat and unattractive in my 20s. Firm toned with lean muscle in my early 40s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m 45, he’s almost 40, we met at a conference. He came up to me after I stepped down from a panel and asked me a technical question. I was completely smitten that very second. I don’t know if 5.5 years is a big difference but I do think about it a lot and wonder if I’m good/young enough. He has definitely motivated me to stay in shape!

I don’t consider a 5-year gap a “younger man.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women date younger because they want to feel young again. Imagine a 27 years old man on a date with a wrinkly old looking 47 years old woman. What are you going to talk about with a man 20 years your junior? This sounds like a one sided relation to me.

46. No wrinkles. I look much younger. Seriously. I would look the same age as somebody was about 32 which is not that far from 27 or 28.

I don’t date younger men because I want to feel younger. I date them because there’s almost nobody my age available, and I’m not interested in remarrying. I talked to them about the same things I talk to people my age about; there’s really not that much difference... also, I’m an extremely busy person and younger men have less commitment and more time to work around my schedule.

You don't look 32 or 28. Stop it!. What is it with Millennial women and this nonsense.

I am Gen X. (46). I have been mistaken for being in my early 30s even this month at work for years as well as parents at the school my kids go to. Not lying. No wrinkles. Good shape. When I was 44, just two years ago. Someone did not think I was a day over 31. This was work related and they apologized for gossiping about me. Assuming I didn’t have enough experience for my job. My employee told me two weeks ago that she thought I was in my early 30s also. I was still getting carded at 37 at bars. People usually are surprised.

My mom and grandma both look 15 years younger than their age.

I was out with a 32 year old this summer. We look the same age.

I see lines on early 30s men that I don’t have.

I’m currently sleeping with an extremely young looking 41yo and a 26yo. The older woman is much more attractive, but I promise you, your body looks different in your 40s, just as mine does.

Not that much. It looks pretty much the same. My boobs are not dropping. My skin is not saggy or wrinkled. I am heavier than I was but still hourglass. (I was pencil thin). I look better (my body) than my 20s. (And a man I slept with in my 20s who also slept with me in my 40s even told me this…said he could not believe I look better than before). My face is not as perfect as my 20s and mid 30s but i still look much younger than my age. My body looks better.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m 45, he’s almost 40, we met at a conference. He came up to me after I stepped down from a panel and asked me a technical question. I was completely smitten that very second. I don’t know if 5.5 years is a big difference but I do think about it a lot and wonder if I’m good/young enough. He has definitely motivated me to stay in shape!

I don’t consider a 5-year gap a “younger man.”

Are you a man or a woman?

[Anonymous]

I would never date a man older than me now that I'm in my 40s. The 24-30 year olds are where it's at.