Husband wants to spend the entire new years weekend with his mom and dad

[Anonymous]

I’m team OP. This is ridiculous. Offer to bring bagels on New Years Day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m team OP. This is ridiculous. Offer to bring bagels on New Years Day.

Trolls eat billy goats, not bagels.

[Anonymous]

Update. Husband left for his parents yesterday afternoon. I have been hanging out at home, putting on a face mask, cleaning and organizing. I’ll probably have to pack up and head over there this afternoon as he wants to sleep over there tonight as well.

To be honest, this doesn’t make me feel good. I feel like my hand is being forced. If I want to be with my husband on NYE, I have to pack up and sleepover at his mother’s house.

[Anonymous]

Cough cough, I’m
Sorry about your cold/flu but you should stay home regardless of your husband

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Update. Husband left for his parents yesterday afternoon. I have been hanging out at home, putting on a face mask, cleaning and organizing. I’ll probably have to pack up and head over there this afternoon as he wants to sleep over there tonight as well.

To be honest, this doesn’t make me feel good. I feel like my hand is being forced. If I want to be with my husband on NYE, I have to pack up and sleepover at his mother’s house.

Did you go to your sister’s on the 29th without him? If yes, don’t go to in laws per his even steven deal. If he apologized and joined you, maybe drop in to wish them a happy New Year, give DH his blankie, and go home.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Update. Husband left for his parents yesterday afternoon. I have been hanging out at home, putting on a face mask, cleaning and organizing. I’ll probably have to pack up and head over there this afternoon as he wants to sleep over there tonight as well.

To be honest, this doesn’t make me feel good. I feel like my hand is being forced. If I want to be with my husband on NYE, I have to pack up and sleepover at his mother’s house.

Did you go to your sister’s on the 29th without him? If yes, don’t go to in laws per his even steven deal. If he apologized and joined you, maybe drop in to wish them a happy New Year, give DH his blankie, and go home.

I did, yes. He went over to his mother's in a huff yesterday afternoon. I am debating going over there today so I can spend NYE with him. Otherwise I would be by myself, which would be weird.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Update. Husband left for his parents yesterday afternoon. I have been hanging out at home, putting on a face mask, cleaning and organizing. I’ll probably have to pack up and head over there this afternoon as he wants to sleep over there tonight as well.

To be honest, this doesn’t make me feel good. I feel like my hand is being forced. If I want to be with my husband on NYE, I have to pack up and sleepover at his mother’s house.

Did you go to your sister’s on the 29th without him? If yes, don’t go to in laws per his even steven deal. If he apologized and joined you, maybe drop in to wish them a happy New Year, give DH his blankie, and go home.

I did, yes. He went over to his mother's in a huff yesterday afternoon. I am debating going over there today so I can spend NYE with him. Otherwise I would be by myself, which would be weird.

Just suck up and go. Be thankful they are still alive and in good health to celebrate. Support your Hubby. He will appreciate that you joined him.

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Anonymous wrote:Update. Husband left for his parents yesterday afternoon. I have been hanging out at home, putting on a face mask, cleaning and organizing. I’ll probably have to pack up and head over there this afternoon as he wants to sleep over there tonight as well.

To be honest, this doesn’t make me feel good. I feel like my hand is being forced. If I want to be with my husband on NYE, I have to pack up and sleepover at his mother’s house.

Did you go to your sister’s on the 29th without him? If yes, don’t go to in laws per his even steven deal. If he apologized and joined you, maybe drop in to wish them a happy New Year, give DH his blankie, and go home.

I did, yes. He went over to his mother's in a huff yesterday afternoon. I am debating going over there today so I can spend NYE with him. Otherwise I would be by myself, which would be weird.

Don’t you have friends? I’m around your age and our NYE plans changed on the 28th, I texted some girlfriends and we are now hosting 10 people tonight. Call your close girlfriends and tell them you’ll get the takeout, they bring the bubbly. Or ask if you can crash their plans.

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Anonymous wrote:Update. Husband left for his parents yesterday afternoon. I have been hanging out at home, putting on a face mask, cleaning and organizing. I’ll probably have to pack up and head over there this afternoon as he wants to sleep over there tonight as well.

To be honest, this doesn’t make me feel good. I feel like my hand is being forced. If I want to be with my husband on NYE, I have to pack up and sleepover at his mother’s house.

Did you go to your sister’s on the 29th without him? If yes, don’t go to in laws per his even steven deal. If he apologized and joined you, maybe drop in to wish them a happy New Year, give DH his blankie, and go home.

I did, yes. He went over to his mother's in a huff yesterday afternoon. I am debating going over there today so I can spend NYE with him. Otherwise I would be by myself, which would be weird.

Just suck up and go. Be thankful they are still alive and in good health to celebrate. Support your Hubby. He will appreciate that you joined him.

Gross. Her “hubby” is a big baby that makes plans without consulting his spouse to spend an entire weekend with his parents who live 20 minutes. Why would anyone sign off on this.

I want to know what the husband said when he unlocked himself from his office.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Update. Husband left for his parents yesterday afternoon. I have been hanging out at home, putting on a face mask, cleaning and organizing. I’ll probably have to pack up and head over there this afternoon as he wants to sleep over there tonight as well.

To be honest, this doesn’t make me feel good. I feel like my hand is being forced. If I want to be with my husband on NYE, I have to pack up and sleepover at his mother’s house.

Did you go to your sister’s on the 29th without him? If yes, don’t go to in laws per his even steven deal. If he apologized and joined you, maybe drop in to wish them a happy New Year, give DH his blankie, and go home.

I did, yes. He went over to his mother's in a huff yesterday afternoon. I am debating going over there today so I can spend NYE with him. Otherwise I would be by myself, which would be weird.

Just suck up and go. Be thankful they are still alive and in good health to celebrate. Support your Hubby. He will appreciate that you joined him.

Gross. Her “hubby” is a big baby that makes plans without consulting his spouse to spend an entire weekend with his parents who live 20 minutes. Why would anyone sign off on this.

I want to know what the husband said when he unlocked himself from his office.

They both sound ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Update. Husband left for his parents yesterday afternoon. I have been hanging out at home, putting on a face mask, cleaning and organizing. I’ll probably have to pack up and head over there this afternoon as he wants to sleep over there tonight as well.

To be honest, this doesn’t make me feel good. I feel like my hand is being forced. If I want to be with my husband on NYE, I have to pack up and sleepover at his mother’s house.

Did you go to your sister’s on the 29th without him? If yes, don’t go to in laws per his even steven deal. If he apologized and joined you, maybe drop in to wish them a happy New Year, give DH his blankie, and go home.

I did, yes. He went over to his mother's in a huff yesterday afternoon. I am debating going over there today so I can spend NYE with him. Otherwise I would be by myself, which would be weird.

Just suck up and go. Be thankful they are still alive and in good health to celebrate. Support your Hubby. He will appreciate that you joined him.

Gross. Her “hubby” is a big baby that makes plans without consulting his spouse to spend an entire weekend with his parents who live 20 minutes. Why would anyone sign off on this.

I want to know what the husband said when he unlocked himself from his office.

They both sound ridiculous.

This is OP. Why am I ridiculous, exactly?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Update. Husband left for his parents yesterday afternoon. I have been hanging out at home, putting on a face mask, cleaning and organizing. I’ll probably have to pack up and head over there this afternoon as he wants to sleep over there tonight as well.

To be honest, this doesn’t make me feel good. I feel like my hand is being forced. If I want to be with my husband on NYE, I have to pack up and sleepover at his mother’s house.

Did you go to your sister’s on the 29th without him? If yes, don’t go to in laws per his even steven deal. If he apologized and joined you, maybe drop in to wish them a happy New Year, give DH his blankie, and go home.

I did, yes. He went over to his mother's in a huff yesterday afternoon. I am debating going over there today so I can spend NYE with him. Otherwise I would be by myself, which would be weird.

Just suck up and go. Be thankful they are still alive and in good health to celebrate. Support your Hubby. He will appreciate that you joined him.

Gross. Her “hubby” is a big baby that makes plans without consulting his spouse to spend an entire weekend with his parents who live 20 minutes. Why would anyone sign off on this.

I want to know what the husband said when he unlocked himself from his office.

This is OP. Nothing, he was giving me the cold shoulder and acting like the aggrieved party.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Update. Husband left for his parents yesterday afternoon. I have been hanging out at home, putting on a face mask, cleaning and organizing. I’ll probably have to pack up and head over there this afternoon as he wants to sleep over there tonight as well.

To be honest, this doesn’t make me feel good. I feel like my hand is being forced. If I want to be with my husband on NYE, I have to pack up and sleepover at his mother’s house.

Did you go to your sister’s on the 29th without him? If yes, don’t go to in laws per his even steven deal. If he apologized and joined you, maybe drop in to wish them a happy New Year, give DH his blankie, and go home.

I did, yes. He went over to his mother's in a huff yesterday afternoon. I am debating going over there today so I can spend NYE with him. Otherwise I would be by myself, which would be weird.

Just suck up and go. Be thankful they are still alive and in good health to celebrate. Support your Hubby. He will appreciate that you joined him.

Gross. Her “hubby” is a big baby that makes plans without consulting his spouse to spend an entire weekend with his parents who live 20 minutes. Why would anyone sign off on this.

I want to know what the husband said when he unlocked himself from his office.

They both sound ridiculous.

This is OP. Why am I ridiculous, exactly?

You both sound very immature in how you deal with conflict. You should have worked things out early last week but somehow it escalated to him slamming the door on you? Just seems like you both can't communicate and negotiate effectively and both ended up creating a much bigger problem than the original issue.

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Anonymous wrote:Update. Husband left for his parents yesterday afternoon. I have been hanging out at home, putting on a face mask, cleaning and organizing. I’ll probably have to pack up and head over there this afternoon as he wants to sleep over there tonight as well.

To be honest, this doesn’t make me feel good. I feel like my hand is being forced. If I want to be with my husband on NYE, I have to pack up and sleepover at his mother’s house.

Did you go to your sister’s on the 29th without him? If yes, don’t go to in laws per his even steven deal. If he apologized and joined you, maybe drop in to wish them a happy New Year, give DH his blankie, and go home.

I did, yes. He went over to his mother's in a huff yesterday afternoon. I am debating going over there today so I can spend NYE with him. Otherwise I would be by myself, which would be weird.

Just suck up and go. Be thankful they are still alive and in good health to celebrate. Support your Hubby. He will appreciate that you joined him.

Gross. Her “hubby” is a big baby that makes plans without consulting his spouse to spend an entire weekend with his parents who live 20 minutes. Why would anyone sign off on this.

I want to know what the husband said when he unlocked himself from his office.

They both sound ridiculous.

This is OP. Why am I ridiculous, exactly?

You both sound very immature in how you deal with conflict. You should have worked things out early last week but somehow it escalated to him slamming the door on you? Just seems like you both can't communicate and negotiate effectively and both ended up creating a much bigger problem than the original issue.

Ah, I see what you mean. I did not bring it up because I knew he would react badly and make it into a bigger deal. I kept hoping he would realize I did not want to spend 4 days over there...until I couldn't and said I have tennis practice so I can't really spend the night over there. He, as I expected, did not take it well and escalated it. Basically, when it comes to his family, he and his mom makes plans and if I say anything, I am the problem. I have historically always given in but become resentful overtime.

[Anonymous]

Op what did you end up doing?