Why are so many younger men trying to date women 30s and up?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Most young men who are dating older women are neither interesting nor captivating. Most of them are not also high value men.


Actually the ones I know date older women because they find women their age vapid and trashy. Do you know many women in their early twenties? They’re a mess, inside and out.

Anonymous
When I was 24 I dated a couple of divorced women in their late 30s. Why? They were hot and the sex was fun and there was no relationship pressure.

I also dated women my age.

Basically, men will sleep with any hot woman that is available. Why overthink this?
Anonymous
In my mid 20’s I was a bartender in Georgetown. Mid 30’s/early 40’s girls night out was always a real scene and there was often one there who would linger after the others left. If I wasn’t dating someone I was happy to spend time with them and they were pretty wild women. Many years later I’m very happy that my wife doesn’t do girls night out!
Anonymous
It’s not money. It’s sex the youngins are after. Duh.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It’s not money. It’s sex the youngins are after. Duh.


Yeah, and these women look good. It's not the 70s version of what 30s/40s looked like
Anonymous
The women often make the move. When I was in grad school I gave tennis lessons to make some money and many of my students were women 35-45. Many of them were overly friendly but we had a no fraternization policy. When it was announced I was leaving three of them texted me about getting together and one of them was married. I did take one of them up on the offer and she was quite a dynamo.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It’s not money. It’s sex the youngins are after. Duh.


And it’s the sex the women are after.

Mutual needs met.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It’s not money. It’s sex the youngins are after. Duh.


Yeah, and these women look good. It's not the 70s version of what 30s/40s looked like


To be fair women have always looked amazing in their 30s and 40s in the 70s too.

Doris Day was nearly 40 when she starred in Please Dont Eat the Daisies for example

Anonymous
^and that was in the 50s! Women at that age have always been gorgeous
Anonymous
Women in their 20s date for what’s in it for them. They only want someone with a big job and lots of money. An older woman has experienced life. They are more mellow, more realistic. They are better companions and not freeloaders full of unrealistic expectations for the guy to produce.


Uh, no. Older women are not more mellow. Older women do care more about the guy’s money.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:26 year old UFC star with his 40 year old wife
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/mma/article-12799331/Ian-Garrys-wife-hits-criticism-writing-WAG-book-marrying-UFC-star-debunks-rumours-ex-husband-lives-married-couple.html


That guy looks like he has 27 chromosomes
Anonymous
When you are in your 20s, most same age women are assessing you as potential marriage material and that becomes a complicated dynamic. Not true with women 35+. If they show an interest in you their interest in pretty simple - some companionship, fun and sex.
Anonymous
I'm 51 and younger guys love talking to me- like late 20's and up. I think it's because I have no agenda and no interest in dating them and just talk to them like their friends do. Women their age are usually trying to find their future husband/ father of their kids, which adds pressure. Plus younger guys think older women "know stuff" in terms of sex. So I get propositioned fairly often. My hard age limit is 40 because going lower than that seems predatory and gross, so when I meet someone who seems cool, I'll introduce them to a younger friend. Or give them career advice or relationship advice if they want it. In return I get to hear what pop culture things are in, which is fun.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:26 year old UFC star with his 40 year old wife
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/mma/article-12799331/Ian-Garrys-wife-hits-criticism-writing-WAG-book-marrying-UFC-star-debunks-rumours-ex-husband-lives-married-couple.html


That guy looks like he has 27 chromosomes


He's so hot

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