Why are so many younger men trying to date women 30s and up?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think they've caught on that we are amazing in bed.

And I wouldn't want a 25 year old man for that reason. Why waste my skills on someone who wouldn't know what to do? 25 year old men are nit great in bed. I remember from when I was that age. Yuck!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think they've caught on that we are amazing in bed.

And I wouldn't want a 25 year old man for that reason. Why waste my skills on someone who wouldn't know what to do? 25 year old men are nit great in bed. I remember from when I was that age. Yuck!

OMG theyre amazing in bed. Bodies so firm and fit, and they can go literally all night. Given 5 minutes to rest and theyre ready to go again. Heaven!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think they've caught on that we are amazing in bed.

And I wouldn't want a 25 year old man for that reason. Why waste my skills on someone who wouldn't know what to do? 25 year old men are nit great in bed. I remember from when I was that age. Yuck!

OMG theyre amazing in bed. Bodies so firm and fit, and they can go literally all night. Given 5 minutes to rest and theyre ready to go again. Heaven!

Yes, exactly. Many are focused on pleasing their partners, they get off easily and can go again quickly. They appreciate generosity and are so eager to please. And yeah, their bodies are incredible...

[Anonymous]

This may be a numbers thing. Men are not very discriminating on online dating. They match/message almost everyone. But there's more 20 somethings online than 30 somethings and 40 somethings. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/02/key-findings-about-online-dating-in-the-u-s/#:~:text=Online%20dating%20is%20more%20common,of%20those%2065%20and%20older.
The higher up in age, the less likely someone is to be on a dating app.

So it makes sense that women would get a disproportionate share of matches from online dating from younger men. THey are the majority of men who use online dating.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Low hanging fruit.

+1. Especially if the woman is never married and has no children.

And older women generally have good jobs (AKA more money), a home of their own, food in the house, are more sexually confident etc etc etc compared to early 20s women. They are basically male sugar babies, providing the BF experience.

Definitely not the same as a sugar baby/sugar daddy. The number of women in their 30s who are willing to bankroll 20 something men is pretty low. That dynamic pretty much flows in one direction only...

You are nuts. Women flush with cash are very much willing to bankroll the hot men they are sleeping with, it just doesn’t look like “funding a lifestyle”. But they will buy gifts, pay for concerts and trips, and permit many other forms of mooching and top it off with the cherry of easy sex at the end of the night. How could a 22 year old man possibly afford to take a 35 year old woman on a date at the level she is accustom to?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Low hanging fruit.

+1. Especially if the woman is never married and has no children.

And older women generally have good jobs (AKA more money), a home of their own, food in the house, are more sexually confident etc etc etc compared to early 20s women. They are basically male sugar babies, providing the BF experience.

Definitely not the same as a sugar baby/sugar daddy. The number of women in their 30s who are willing to bankroll 20 something men is pretty low. That dynamic pretty much flows in one direction only...

You are nuts. Women flush with cash are very much willing to bankroll the hot men they are sleeping with, it just doesn’t look like “funding a lifestyle”. But they will buy gifts, pay for concerts and trips, and permit many other forms of mooching and top it off with the cherry of easy sex at the end of the night. How could a 22 year old man possibly afford to take a 35 year old woman on a date at the level she is accustom to?

Him not taking her on a fancy date ≠ her bankrolling him. Very few women are going to give allowances to men no what his age, and most women in America still expect men to pay for dates and other things. But there are broke/cheap men in every age group.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Low hanging fruit.

+1. Especially if the woman is never married and has no children.

And older women generally have good jobs (AKA more money), a home of their own, food in the house, are more sexually confident etc etc etc compared to early 20s women. They are basically male sugar babies, providing the BF experience.

Definitely not the same as a sugar baby/sugar daddy. The number of women in their 30s who are willing to bankroll 20 something men is pretty low. That dynamic pretty much flows in one direction only...

You are nuts. Women flush with cash are very much willing to bankroll the hot men they are sleeping with, it just doesn’t look like “funding a lifestyle”. But they will buy gifts, pay for concerts and trips, and permit many other forms of mooching and top it off with the cherry of easy sex at the end of the night. How could a 22 year old man possibly afford to take a 35 year old woman on a date at the level she is accustom to?

I have a friend who bankrolled a guy like this. She was 38 and he was 26. She got tired after a few months. 😆

[Anonymous]

Easy, low stakes sex.

Women in their mid to late 30s - especially a busy divorced mom - just want to have a nice date + have sex in their rare spare time. That woman has been sexually active for 15-20 years of her life and thus has seen & done it all.

Women in their mid to late 30s, even if they want to have a child, don’t want to get impregnated by a man in his 20s. So she’s keen to see the relationship as short term in nature and not putting any serious significance upon the relationship. That’s great for a guy in his 20s who wants to have fun and still get laid.

So yes, they are respectful gentlemen because their mama’s trained them well. But they are clued-in enough know that a woman in her late 30s likely wants something that is low stakes and casual and these men are happy to oblige. Their peer women expect serious relationships after sex and are very marriage and “next step” focused.

[Anonymous]

It could be men (and women as well) don’t plan to have children. And many of these men in their 20s believe that these 30+ women have kids and they are done and/or do not want kids since they are 30+. But once they get serious with those women and “baby hints” start popping up they slowly withdraw from the relationship and look for an exit.

I could be wrong. That’s the only reason I could think off…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think they've caught on that we are amazing in bed.

And I wouldn't want a 25 year old man for that reason. Why waste my skills on someone who wouldn't know what to do? 25 year old men are nit great in bed. I remember from when I was that age. Yuck!

OMG theyre amazing in bed. Bodies so firm and fit, and they can go literally all night. Given 5 minutes to rest and theyre ready to go again. Heaven!

Years ago I was a member at a fitness club where there was an incredibly fit 26 year old trainer. I was 35. He was seriously hot. I was about to move away so I boldly asked him if I could buy him a drink when he got off. We ended up back at my place and he was a true energizer bunny. He wasn’t the most skillful lover I’d ever had but his ability to recover and go again was amazing. I was sore for a few days!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why not ask

Aaron Taylor Johnson
Harry Styles
Jason Momoa
Chris Hemsworth
Hugh Jackman
Nick Jonas
Ryan Gosling
Nick Offerman
Blake Shelton
Patrick Dempsey
Tom Kaulitz
Ashton Kutcher
Kurt Russel
Adam Driver
Dwayne Wade

Need I go on?

Exactly. Don't know why people are acting like it's unusual... plenty of men get serious with, marry, prefer older women. Not a big deal.

[Anonymous]

Mommy issues.

[Anonymous]

I’m 48. Have been pursued by a 30 year old man for almost a year. Only recently decided to give the relationship a chance because he’s been so persistent for so long, without so much as a kiss. He always pays, owns his own place and makes more money than I do.

[Anonymous]

For practice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m 48. Have been pursued by a 30 year old man for almost a year. Only recently decided to give the relationship a chance because he’s been so persistent for so long, without so much as a kiss. He always pays, owns his own place and makes more money than I do.

Good for you. Enjoy it. Many of these younger men are way more mature and know what they want more than the older men. I think especially the ones that gravitate to older women- many times they are ready for that commitment.