It is actually possible for kids to be great and successful students without parent involvement. Sometimes even without parent support. What happens to the kids that don't meet the standards is the same thing that happens to the kids who don't meet the standards now. But I would bet my life these schools would help more kids and more kids would excel even more. Meanwhile, you continue to do what you do for those who need more help. Just like you do now. ATS is able to do that for most of the 'needy' students they have because they don't have nearly the intensity of needs as the schools everyone else is trying to avoid. If they aren't getting what they need, families leave. I agree with another poster who noted that there are better supports at neighborhood schools for some kids. |
I'm not sure it's possible for kids to be successful without parent involvement. Or at least it's nearly impossible. It's no coincidence there are 2 parents at Back To School night for the honors kids and no parents in some other classrooms. I saw that all the time when I was teaching. That said, APS dropping standards across the board like they're doing now is a huge mistale. People will look back at this educational trend someday and wonder what they were thinking. |
It’s not impossible for kids to succeed without parental support, but it’s really, really, really hard.
And let’s be real. There’s lack of parental support, and then there’s parental influence in the wrong direction (bad attitude toward school). If the general attitude toward school is one of contempt, kids feel that. No child is going to succeed if they show up thinking it’s okay to ignore/be combative to the teacher. Want to turn things around? YES, raise standards and expectations. But look around at your communities and create a cultural shift. School is important. Decorum is important. Does your child like to back-talk adults just for the fun of it? No school can fix that problem. |
Will they though? I feel like the more standards drop, the more problems we see in the school system, the more people think that there is nothing we can do about it. I feel like it’s just gonna keep getting worse and we are digging ourselves in a hole that we will never be able to get out of. |
I call BS as a parent with kids with special needs who went to neighborhood schools and ATS. ATS does what it needs to do to get kids to learn. There have been a couple of parents at ATS who expect magic who I know left but the parents themselves were...outliers. |
Here's a dirty little secret. Lazy parents have kids at ATS and we are so glad because we know the teachers and admin will fill in the gaps we have. It's fantastic. I"m not alone. I know who my people are. I'm so lucky too that my kid hands out with some kids with much better parents than I am. I'm just lazy, not a bad parent in other ways. |
LOL that you want to bring tucked in shirts to other schools. I would revolt if you tried to force that on my kids. Where do you get off? |
OP, this is why you need to go private. Parents like this are in your school. You didn’t get into ATS. You would be so happy at private (like I am), where dress code and manners are a big deal |
Lazy how? As in you never read to your kids? I mean, you weren’t lazy enough to not do the lottery lol. |
That’s not how I read those claims. |
I'm the parent who doesn't want tucked in shirts in my kids' public elementary school. For the record, I'm a very involved parent both with my kids and in their school. My kids are well behaved, successful students and we have high expectations. They have excellent manner. I think it's ridiculous to force kids to tuck in their shirts as if that does something. What does that have to do with manners or behavior? Nothing. I don't think I'm in the minority here, I think you types that want this are. And yes, go private or try again for ATS. Don't push this nonsense on the rest of us. I bet the principal silently laughs at you if you ask them to enforce shirts tucked in. I know I would. |
Are you reading the same thread? ATS parents are saying other schools could do more of what ATS is doing. Parental involvement matters but parents are choosing ATS because what they are doing works. ATS deserves the credit and I don't blame parents for lining up to go to ATS. PP is right that parents put in what the school expects of them. It harder than ever in APS to know how your kid is doing. Schoolwork rarely sent home, homework packets depend on the school, grading is usually a cut and paste affair and you're not sure if the comments about "johnny" apply to your "Jenny". At least APS is finally figuring out how to teach kids to read but ATS was doing that for decades. |
It's hilarious that everyone keeps acting like only ATS is the only school in APS that has involved parents. Immersion parent here who wished we had done ATS. We have plenty of involved parents of all income levels. Look at any of the assessments on the student dashboard, why do we have a worse achievement gap including for our EL kids? https://analytics.apsva.us/public/progress/aps_mi.html https://analytics.apsva.us/public/progress/aps_dibels.html Immersion is supposed to be better for EL kids, so why isn't it? |
There are a TON of SN kids at ATS, it was in this thread, too, around 12%. Do you think ATS has less issues than other lottery schools? Less behavioral struggles than neighborhood schools like, say, Jamestown, Tuckahoe, or Nottingham? I don't think so. Probably has more. There are a lot of ELL students who are new to the US or the parents are brand new to the US, there is a large SN population, and there is a very large poor population. Jamestown, Tuckahoe, Nottingham, etc. so not deal with these challenges, especially not in large numbers. |
Yes, it isn't. Not sure why, whether it's the program or its execution. But APS needs to seriously look at what is successful as far as achievement gaps, and what isn't. And channel money into resources and methods that work, not the ones they only wished to work. |