I am the PP. DD took care of the all the college apps. No help or guidance from the counselor. We, parents, didn't help her either except arriving at a list of schools as a family. I don't want to give specific details but she has won a handful of national level awards related to CS, couple of officer positions in clubs, volunteering and continuing her hobbies. She is an effective writer, so her essays are good. I don't know whether they are "stand out" essays or not. She did all she could do, but I feel like I failed as a parent. I should have been more involved, done my research and guided her properly. I know she will do great where-ever she goes. But, it hurts. |
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| Check that the college housing at which your DC matriculates doesn't provide bathroom exhaust fans in the dorm lavatories, as your DC doesn't need one. |
Absolutely. SAT re-scaling has bumped scores up _a_lot_ in the last 30 years: back in the 1980s a kid with a 1600 would be featured on the evening news. Even in the last 10 years there have been more recalculations. If you want to benchmark your student's scores against the median at a given school, make sure you are using very current data. And don't compare with other scores, whether from siblings or from public figures, that are more than a few years old. Apples and oranges, even if it might sting to admit it. |
Highest TJ-gpa is generally between 4.6 - 4.7 (likely below 4.7). Even though most Ivy's and T10s say Gpa is just a data point, it is not true for TJ kids. The Naviance scattergram is clear on Ivy's and T10s only admitting TJ kids in the 4.5-4.6+ range. 4.3 -4.4 are right below where the Ivy's admit and they are either denied or waitlisted to be ultimately denied. The difference between a 4.4 and a 4.5 is couple of B+s and A-s in some of the hardest classes at TJ and for that matter for any high schooler at any school. The holistic admission is a total myth at least when it comes to TJ kids because data never lies. The admission of TJ kids are purely GPA driven. |
I am not sure if it purely GPA driven. If that was the case, 4.52 kid should've gotten into Ivies/T10s. |
Agree. Like my DC says, it hurts to realize that you are second echelon at TJ even though no one at base school can come close in comparison to the academic and EC accolades, but they will be going to T20, and your are not. |
You should have ED-ied. |
4.5+ does not guarantee a spot at Ivies/T10's but not having 4.5+ guarantees denial from those schools. Another way to look at it, Ivies/T10s only look at applications from TJ that are 4.5+ and above. Data is vary clear on this. |
Aren’t you clever. |
Caught them! Everything on the College and University forum is a joke and simple farce. I bet the follow up with "typo". |
Right..."no one" sounds like a real sweetheart
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Ok. May be you are right. |
I hope you don't do stand-up comedy for a living.
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Are we still believe white men are at the low end of the totem pole? Sorry, no. That would be women. College numbers have them in larger numbers applying for and attending colleges (you can google the stats or read the books same as I did). As a result, they are are the low ones. Men get a bump so that colleges can "shape" their class and have a balance of men and women. Women have to work harder, get better stats . . . for admission to top schools. |