I think he’s cheating

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Can't tell if OP is stupid or gullible

Op here
I think I’m gullible, naive and overly trusting.
But feel really stupid.

This is just pathetic. Fast forward, youre going to stay with him and just pretend he doesn't cheat. Your husband clearly thinks you're a moron with no backbone to make his cheating so obvious

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:PS my DH always changes the sheets when I come back from being out of town - just so we can have clean sheets. So it could be legit. Does your cat puke a lot?

He very rarely changes the sheets, only when the cat messes them up and perhaps when he’s bopping someone else. I think that the last time the cat puked was when I was gone for a long weekend a month ago. If he’s puked since then, it since then it was one other time. The cat is 18 and has issues.

yeah, the cat might have issues but if the only time she pukes on your bed is when you are gone - I feel like I'd be pretty guilible, too, because who would want to imagine that? So I'm sorry. But it is lovely that you are a rare and trusting soul, but your DH is bopping somebody else.

[Anonymous]

OP is a troll and this story is stupid. Try harder next time, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Really tough situation, OP. What are you going to do about it? No need for you to feel stupid. He’s a liar and you’re not wrong for wanting to believe him.

I don't think you should feel stupid, OP. No one wants to be cheated on, it's painful as hell and can be difficult to come to terms with. As PP said, there are some people who have to see it with their own eyes in order to accept it. A hidden camera would provide you with that and give you evidence to use in a divorce should it come to that. I'm so sorry for what you are going through.

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Anonymous wrote:OP Here.
This came to a head yesterday. I was told c ring was for self fulfillment. Is that a thing? Also is v iagra used for self fulfillment?

Guy here. Seems unbelievable, but not entirely impossible. I mean, where the heck is he self-fulfilling himself? In a parking lot somewhere? If I were using one or both of those things, I would actually be kind of excited to let my wife know all about it. The fact he didn't tell you is definitely odd. Yeah I would call BS on this.

Op here

The whole story is I came home from a night away. The sheets are changed, there’s a v wrapper in the trash, the condoms are in the house (box open but all accounted for) and so is the wandering c ring. He claims condoms and v are for us and the ring for self fulfillment. Cat puked on the bed so he had to change the sheets just like the last time I was out of town.
I know it sounds ridiculous I’m even questioning his explanations

Okay, now the whole story is definitely unbelievable. No man self-fulfills wearing a condom. Just doesn't happen.

True. Men complain about condoms during reg sex, why would they sheath up for this?

[Anonymous]

OP worst part of this story is that the condoms are all accounted for.

[Anonymous]

Our cat used to puke on the bed in the guest bedroom every Friday around noon, according to my wife who was always washing the sheets then. Sometimes in the guest shower too. The cat never did it when I was off from work on a Friday.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Our cat used to puke on the bed in the guest bedroom every Friday around noon, according to my wife who was always washing the sheets then. Sometimes in the guest shower too. The cat never did it when I was off from work on a Friday.

Why not just do it in your own bed? You change the sheets there regularly.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Our cat used to puke on the bed in the guest bedroom every Friday around noon, according to my wife who was always washing the sheets then. Sometimes in the guest shower too. The cat never did it when I was off from work on a Friday.

Why not just do it in your own bed? You change the sheets there regularly.

She entertained her lover in the guest room. I guess our master made her feel too guilty or she was worried they’d leave evidence there. Or, she got too lazy to wash the sheets after and we never had guests. Only the male visitors I didn’t know about.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Our cat used to puke on the bed in the guest bedroom every Friday around noon, according to my wife who was always washing the sheets then. Sometimes in the guest shower too. The cat never did it when I was off from work on a Friday.

Why not just do it in your own bed? You change the sheets there regularly.

She entertained her lover in the guest room. I guess our master made her feel too guilty or she was worried they’d leave evidence there. Or, she got too lazy to wash the sheets after and we never had guests. Only the male visitors I didn’t know about.

How did you find out?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP worst part of this story is that the condoms are all accounted for.

Ooof. Yes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How often do you two have sex?

6 pages later, OP makes no mention about their sex life. How strange she would fail to address the #1 predictor of a cheating husband.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Our cat used to puke on the bed in the guest bedroom every Friday around noon, according to my wife who was always washing the sheets then. Sometimes in the guest shower too. The cat never did it when I was off from work on a Friday.

Why not just do it in your own bed? You change the sheets there regularly.

She entertained her lover in the guest room. I guess our master made her feel too guilty or she was worried they’d leave evidence there. Or, she got too lazy to wash the sheets after and we never had guests. Only the male visitors I didn’t know about.

How did you find out?

The guy’s wife found out.

[Anonymous]

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How often do you two have sex?



6 pages later, OP makes no mention about their sex life. How strange she would fail to address the #1 predictor of a cheating husband.

Even if she refuses to ever touch him, his cheating is not her fault. He can divorce. Grow up and realize that blaming the victim is BS. I’m sure you are the same guy that thinks a woman who dresses provocatively is asking to be raped.