I think he’s cheating

[Anonymous]

I found condoms in my husbands work truck while looking for a house key, I was surprised. They were Trojan her pleasure. Hes only had the truck for 4 months, it was brand new when he got it. We haven’t used condoms in 10 years, we’ve never had sex in a vehicle. I didn’t say anything about it to him so I’d have time to gather more info. No one else uses this truck. In the house I’ve also found mail order viagra I didn’t know about. And a large aluminum ring. It seems to be too big to be a penis ring. What else could it be? The diameter is almost the width of two quarters. It’s very smooth. I want to figure out what the ring is before I talk to him so I won’t be gaslighted.

[Anonymous]

What is the point of this post???????

[Anonymous]

Umm

[Anonymous]

One of the signs that my husband was cheating was condoms in the glove box. (We also never used condoms - also, the glove box.)

So yes. Cosign.

[Anonymous]

This is not a "think," you know. Why else would he have condoms?? You know what this is.

[Anonymous]

I, too, think he’s cheating.

[Anonymous]

I dunno, maybe you have to find literally panties in the glove compartment and her earring on the floor to be sure.

[Anonymous]

That's a cock ring. Bigger because it goes around all the equipment. Sounds like your husband is gay.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That's a cock ring. Bigger because it goes around all the equipment. Sounds like your husband is gay.

Straight men use cock rings if they have election issues. With viagra, sounds like he does.

[Anonymous]

How often do you two have sex?

[Anonymous]

Track his phone or car. Or hire someone to follow him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One of the signs that my husband was cheating was condoms in the glove box. (We also never used condoms - also, the glove box.)

So yes. Cosign.

One of the signs my DH was cheating was that he packed our partially used box of condoms in the nightstand for a 1 month work trip to Africa. I was so tempted to put a note in the condom box in his suitcase that said the locks would be changed by the time he returned, but I didn’t. I decided I could be more mature than that. Plus I wanted to tell him to his face that it was over.

My advice - wait and watch. If you confront him, he is going to lie. So, check all - computer history, email, phone bills, credit cards, if the car is also titled in your name leave some kind of tile tracker so you can see where it goes, etc. Visit a lawyer, gather copies of all financial docs and get good advice about likely financial and custody split.

When I finally confronted my now exDH he lied and lied and lied. He had no idea what I knew. I think he really thought he could construct a elaborate lie that I would believe. It really made me realize he is a psychopath.

[Anonymous]

Luckily no kids.
The truck is his family business property. Same with his phone, I don’t have access. No home computer. But I’m observing what I can and taking pictures of what I find.

Working on getting an attorney. And other documents.
I expect denial.
Not much sex for awhile. I guessing I know why now.
OP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One of the signs that my husband was cheating was condoms in the glove box. (We also never used condoms - also, the glove box.)

So yes. Cosign.

What does "cosign" mean in this context?