Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?
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Anonymous
| Trying not to be explicit? I thought we had a good sex life. I rarely turn him down. So it’s not like I’m unavailable. Why would he do that when he can have the real thing? |
Anonymous
| Damn you are so insecure. |
Anonymous
| You'd rather he thinks about someone else??? |
Anonymous
| OP, if he is alone, then you are not there. See how that works? |
Anonymous
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Are you American? Everyone masturbates. I mean everyone.
I know some cultures/religions forbid it. But it's natural. |
Anonymous
| Masturbation is not explicit unless it’s on video. Seriously though, grow up. If my husband was actually thinking of me when he spanked it I’d be super flattered. It’s nearly romantic. Most adult humans use that time to think of anyone new (or from the past). |
Anonymous
| Because he doesn't have to constantly reassure his hand that it's a good lover and the best he's ever had. Nothing kills desire more than an insecure partner. |
Anonymous
| No, it’s a compliment. |
Anonymous
| Op here. Yes I’m American. I just don’t understand why when I’m in house he wouldn’t initiate with me instead of going off alone and thinking of me. |
Anonymous
| I think OP is asking why her husband has to masturbate when he can have the real thing. OP doesn't understand human nature. |
Anonymous
This is not going to end well. |
Anonymous
He probably just wants a quick release...not all of the extra drama and stuff that you bring to the bedroom. And yes, by reading your post, you definitely bring drama. |
Anonymous
To last longer later with you. He’s so horny for you it’s an immediate need. You are lucky. Stop pondering and go jump him. |
Anonymous
Nothing to understand. Stop trying. |
Anonymous
Maybe he's thinking of the "ideal" you. |