Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Trying not to be explicit? I thought we had a good sex life. I rarely turn him down. So it’s not like I’m unavailable. Why would he do that when he can have the real thing?

Although you rarely turn him down, how often do YOU initiate?

[Anonymous]

I often think of my DW when I spank it. But it's usually an idealized version of her where she actually enjoys sex and does things like jump me when I walk in the house.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Yes I’m American. I just don’t understand why when I’m in house he wouldn’t initiate with me instead of going off alone and thinking of me.

Have you ever initiated? Are you a high demand/ low participation partner like most women? Are you bad in bed? Many times it is just not worth the hassle.