Being oldest is not an automatic proven advantage in soccer or academics. Many younger players and students outperform older peers. Stop saying silly stuff to score points |
Not arguing for or against holding back because its a personal decision, but I'll point out that schools place kids in the class that will challenge them the most. Just because they would be a 9th grader, doesn't mean they don't take 10-12th grade level classes. And that's even more so in private school. If you're taking advanced classes earlier in your HS career, that will lead to more college level courses before you actually get to college. |
Who said "automatic" you silly goose? |
"Being the oldest in a cohort is a proven advantage" |
Oh Poppycock! Nice attempt at recovery Congressman So, hold back my kid then have them take advance courses if they can to do what kids their age a grade ahead is doing. Makes sense |
It is not automatic. Sorry for the confusion. It is not a true statement to say that if you're the oldest in a cohort, you will be the smarts, strongest, silliest, in the cohort. But when compared against their peers, the ones that are the smarts, strongest, and silliest usually (not always, its not automatic) tend to be the oldest. There are younger kids in that cohort that will be some of the ones that have all the S's, of course, but the SCieNce shows there is an advantage to being the oldest. |
Good finally admitting your nonsense beliefs about rae arent soccer exclusive. So this means if you're going to play your Aug birthday down a grade because of rae you're also going to hold your kid back in school because of rae. Problem solved because they're playing on the correct grade in school team thats aligned with their school grade. |
Why thank you, good sir. *tip of the hat* (btw -poppycock is way underused. let's bring it back) Just think about it for a second - it's the advantage of time. And there is no right or wrong answer (unless you're holding back a kid who is say a Jan - May birthday, that might get dicey. But for summer kids, it can make sense in certain situations). Kind of like this whole debate about playing on age or down a grade. There are pros and cons to each. |
To be fair - I just jumped in this convo and it only took me one comment to course-correct. I wasn't the one who first started talking about RAE. And I agree that is one way to solve the problem. Just hold the Aug. kid back. Might be a hard sell for someone already in HS, but if younger, it makes sense. It won't be for everyone, but it's a viable option. |
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Just enroll your kid in private school (like I've suggested before) and you can play your kid down as much as you want pretending to be a grade or two younger.
This is ultimately what you want. Nobody wants your nonsense in club soccer |
Huh? |
| Don't be jelly you can't get your kid into a good school. Hit the books maybe next year. |
Admitting you cant parent your kid to success so you gotta mess up their head by having all the kids in their neighborhood their age one grade ahead |
Its not you although I do believe rae is garbage. Age guy just wants kids to play down and is trying to encourage parents that being misaligned is no big deal for college recruiting when it's a HUGE issue for college recruiting. |
I agree its a huge issue for college recruiting. Makes it much more difficult. I'd put that front and center in the "con" category, with a lot of weight. |