How many of you have "gone home" with someone you just met in a bar?

[Anonymous]

Age and sex. This isn't and shouldn't be explicit, just want to know how common it is. I'm in my early 40s, male, and have been to bars hundreds if not thousands of times, and NEVER EVER have I gone home with someone I just met . I have with girlfriends I went in there with, but never ever have I been able to just go to a bar, and get someone to want to go home with me. I admit I have absolutely zero game.

[Anonymous]

I never did that.

[Anonymous]

A bar? Never. Went home with a guy I met at a bookstore once. I think I was 20.

I'm 39 now.

[Anonymous]

Never.

[Anonymous]

Probably 3-4 times in early 20s. 40 now, been with my husband since I was 25.

[Anonymous]

Apparently I'm a ho. I did it a bunch of times in my 20's and 30's. I'm now a nearly 50yo female.

[Anonymous]

I went home with a guy at a party. I needed a ride, and we had a connection. I was 21. He's now my husband. He calls me the one nightstand gone wrong (I didn't give it up the first night, it was just a car ride and number exchange).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Apparently I'm a ho. I did it a bunch of times in my 20's and 30's. I'm now a nearly 50yo female.

+1

We could be friends.

[Anonymous]

I went to a small college. One night, a guy in one of my classes started talking to me at the bar. He invited me back to his dorm to watch a movie. I liked him, so I went, and I actually watched the movie until I fell asleep. I did kiss him when I left his room at 6 am the next morning.

It wasn’t until years later that I realized that “watch a movie” was supposed to be code for hooking up. But he didn’t pressure me or anything that night. We dated for several years after that, but ultimately broke up because there was no way for us to be in the same city without sacrificing our career ambitions.

[Anonymous]

+2 same age. Maybe a generational thing?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Age and sex. This isn't and shouldn't be explicit, just want to know how common it is. I'm in my early 40s, male, and have been to bars hundreds if not thousands of times, and NEVER EVER have I gone home with someone I just met . I have with girlfriends I went in there with, but never ever have I been able to just go to a bar, and get someone to want to go home with me. I admit I have absolutely zero game.

Yes, in my 20s. I’m 54 now. F

[Anonymous]

40, woman, never.
I strongly considered it and came close once, but my friends stopped me.

[Anonymous]

I went home with a guy I met in a bar when I was 24.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Apparently I'm a ho. I did it a bunch of times in my 20's and 30's. I'm now a nearly 50yo female.

+1

We could be friends.

PP here. I never thought of it as something that unusual. Granted, I married late, so I had a good number of years as a single person. And I'm now a church-going middle aged mom with kids in Catholic school. I don't think I'm that much of an outlier.

[Anonymous]

Once when I was a 24 yo virgin and didn’t want to be one anymore. He actually was a really nice guy and I don’t regret it at all - probably should have done it earlier. I ended up marrying the next guy I slept with.