How many of you have "gone home" with someone you just met in a bar?

[Anonymous]

20 years to be exact

[Anonymous]

Once. I was 28 and in a Miami South Beach nightclub. Girls trip. So unexpected. No regrets.

[Anonymous]

Why go home? Knock it out in bar bathroom stall.

[Anonymous]

My only true one night stand was with a waiter in Greece. Totally crazy fun night that ended w/ renting a room for an hour in a hotel. He dropped me off at my hotel afterwards and that was it.

Totally out of character behavior for me (and I was 37 or 38 at the time) but I don't regret it. It is totally in the vault of ultimate secrets that only a girlfriend who was with me that night knows!

[Anonymous]

Many, many years ago in Spain I met a Belgian at an outdoor bar/disco and at around 3am we slipped outside and had very quick sex standing up. It was crazy and we went back in and danced some more. It was totally unlike me but I guess once in your life its ok.

[Anonymous]

No. My friend in college did and she ended up getting raped The worst part is, it took her months to tell any of us. We are both married with kids now and I still think about that sometimes. Makes me really sad. It was her first "everything" that night. So terrible.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why go home? Knock it out in bar bathroom stall.

I barely want to use the toilet in there. Eww. That would kill my vibe.LOL

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Anonymous wrote:Thanks for reminding me of an awful memory. I was 22 and I had just been dumped by a guy I had been dating for three years. It came out of the blue and I was really devastated. I went to a bar near where I lived and within minutes a guy at the bar was buying me drinks. I invited him back to my place and had what's best described as angry revenge sex. Twenty+ years later I'm still disgusted by what I did. WTF was I thinking?

I've hear of revenge sex but what is angry revenge sex?

It's very aggressive revenge sex with no holds barred.

OMG - I once did this and I did things I'd never done with my ex as I was a bit of a prude. A few months later I met my now DH and he benefited long term from my revenge.

Hot

[Anonymous]

Women don't do this. They need an emotional connection. I've read that repeatedly on dcum.

[Anonymous]

A few times in undergrad, several times when I was single living in NYC in my late 20s/early 30s. Twice while out of town on business trips during the NYC single years. Settled down around 33, got married and moved to DC. Don’t know how I don’t have an STD, to be perfectly honest. I never really took to condoms. Male, 38.

[Anonymous]

Bump.

[Anonymous]

A few times. One memorable time involved losing control of my bowels. The stench was unbelievable!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Age and sex. This isn't and shouldn't be explicit, just want to know how common it is. I'm in my early 40s, male, and have been to bars hundreds if not thousands of times, and NEVER EVER have I gone home with someone I just met . I have with girlfriends I went in there with, but never ever have I been able to just go to a bar, and get someone to want to go home with me. I admit I have absolutely zero game.

58 and it only happens once when I was 25. Been divorced for 10 years and NEVER came close. My theory is that 90% of the women go home with 10% of the men. The rest of us men have to use a different approach

I'm a guy who has never been able to pull this off. I suppose I have no game either. I used to feel bad about this, like I was lacking somehow, but I've gotten over it recently. I have had plenty of women interested in me, but they tend to know me for a while before they start thinking of me that way. More of the nerdy funny guy who grows on you than the hot gym guy whom drunk girls want to jump. I have come to accept that the types of women interested in me are the ones who are somewhat shy themselves and not into quick hookups.

Swoon....

[Anonymous]

Several time, but never had sex with any of them. They were never strangers, always a friend of a friend. If I had to do it over again, I would have taken more risks when I was younger.

[Anonymous]

Guy here, one true ONS that I met that night. I was a bartender and she was a little older and married. A few others who were friends of friends on hook ups short of sex.