How Do I tell My BF he is Fat and I am not longer attracted to him?

[Anonymous]

My Boyfriend is great. However, he has really let himself go the past few months. I can't get him to work out. Do I offer to work out with him? It is really affecting our sex life. He even expresses how he's gained weight and now he's not very adventurous in bed. I don't remember the last time he let me see him naked. If he refuses to work out then what?

[Anonymous]

He is your boyfriend. You don't like how he looks. You should probably break up with him and definitely don't marry him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My Boyfriend is great. However, he has really let himself go the past few months. I can't get him to work out. Do I offer to work out with him? It is really affecting our sex life. He even expresses how he's gained weight and now he's not very adventurous in bed. I don't remember the last time he let me see him naked. If he refuses to work out then what?

It sounds like he already knows.

[Anonymous]

I'm not judging, OP - we want what we want. That said, even if he get's in shape again, there's no promise he won't gain it again.

My longtime BF has gained a good 25 pounds or more. Is he still cut with the perfect six pack? No. Will he be again? Perhaps? But I'm still very attracted to him and it doesn't change my love for him one bit.

It's not because I'm "nice" - it's because I love this man through and through.

Don't short change either one of you - there's no point in holding one another back.

[Anonymous]

Break
Up with him

[Anonymous]

What's going on with him that he has gained so much wait, is he depressed? Is this a particularly stressful period? Figuring out the root cause may help, and it also may help you decide if it's something you want to stay and deal with. Depending on how big he got and how little he refused to address it, I might not stay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm not judging, OP - we want what we want. That said, even if he get's in shape again, there's no promise he won't gain it again.

My longtime BF has gained a good 25 pounds or more. Is he still cut with the perfect six pack? No. Will he be again? Perhaps? But I'm still very attracted to him and it doesn't change my love for him one bit.

It's not because I'm "nice" - it's because I love this man through and through.

Don't short change either one of you - there's no point in holding one another back.

This. Your connection seems superficial, don't waste any more of his or your time.

[Anonymous]

Go ahead and say to him what you wrote in your title. Report back.

[Anonymous]

Fat shamer.

[Anonymous]

Use your words

[Anonymous]

Total troll post. Women either don't care about this or they just find a way to dump the guy but they don't whine about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Total troll post. Women either don't care about this or they just find a way to dump the guy but they don't whine about it.

Good call.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Total troll post. Women either don't care about this or they just find a way to dump the guy but they don't whine about it.

Oh women totally stress about how to be an egocentric bitch but not offend anybody.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he is the best you ever do. Marry him and have babies.

[Anonymous]

I bet his wallet is getting thin.