How Do I tell My BF he is Fat and I am not longer attracted to him?
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Anonymous
Women do care about this. |
Anonymous
| Um, can you at least get through the holidays and than maybe try New Years resultion to walk or hike together? You would definitely itely not make it as a Hallmark movie sweetheart. |
Anonymous
+1000 |
Anonymous
| If you are not attracted to large men, break up with him. How hard is that? My husband is a large man and I love him. Everyone has their own preferences. Don't be a coward. |
Anonymous
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I'm confused by the post. OP states right in the post that her boyfriend already acknowledges and is self-conscious about his weight gain. What is the point of saying "you're fat and unattractive" to someone like that?
Perhaps OP meant to ask, "How can I help my boyfriend lose the weight that he already wants to lose?" |
Anonymous
It's hard because she's hoping he'll get back to his regular size/the size he was when they met. |
Anonymous
You’re likely confused because it’s a poor trolling attempt to reverse the genders and see how it plays out. |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
Yup, +1. Keeeep deluding yourself, guys. It's not that I love my husband less when he gets soft / flabby....but I am CERTAINLY less attracted to him |
Anonymous
| Most women aren't that sexually attracted to their husbands anyway, that's why it's not that big a deal if he gains a few pounds. |
Anonymous
| You tell him he is fat and you are no longer attracted to him. Honesty is the best policy. Politically correct BS is BS. Sorry for my directness. |
Anonymous
And yet here are several women, saying that it is a big deal... |
Anonymous
| Know this… Over the course of your lives, you both will gain weight, and lose weight. You will most likely get pregnant and your body will change during the pregnancy and afterwards. You might get back into the same shape you were before, but you may also not. Both of you will grow older, and your body will change. Often times, not for the better. You might suffer from illness that will change the way you look, smell and even behave. He might also go through illness. If you intend on being together, and happy, over the course of a prolonged relationship (think decades… not years) than you should really take all of this into account. If you're not ready to accept that he (and you) will change physically – cut him loose. He'll never be able to remain as young and handsome as when you first met. Neither will you, but that's an issue you'll have to solve for yourself. |
Anonymous
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"How do I tell my GF she is fat and I am no longer attracted to her?"
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Anonymous
She'll never know because you'll f&$k her anyway. |