RHNY Season 8

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So on the reunion, Bethenny calls her boyfriends daughter who confirms her parents were separated for years before Bethenny and him began to date.

If the family confirms this who cares what internet trolls/crazy Aviva/Lie-ann make up about them?

I've never been divorced but I feel for people who are separated, have moved on and are dating... especially when both parties have moved on... it's not like Bethenny's ex hasn't been actively dating for a few years, as well. Legally- pretty much you are either married OR single... so if you are separated you are in no-mans-land... some very narrow minded people will always see you as a cheater, even when they are not involved in your relation and don't even know you.

That level of judging is creepy- like, sorry you've been cheated on, but this isn't what that is.

Luann was just trying to deflect from the fact that Tom cheated and the world saw. I guess it worked because all people are talking about is Bethany and her possible affair. For the people on this forum who judge legally separated people for dating are probably bitter, cheated on spouses. Don't know about Bethany's boyfriend's wife, but Bethany's husband dated, so where's the Puritan outrage for that?

Nope! Just calling a spade a spade!

And nice fake sexism jab. Bethenny's husband isn't on this show. Why would he be relevant to the discussion?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Bethenny is a fucking monster. I feel enormous sympathy for her daughter who is being raised by this toxic monster.

You seem like you have a whole lot of rage against Bethenny. Seems over the top. Any reason why?

Different PP. Do you even watch the show? If you can't see that she's a monster, something is wrong with you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Bethenny is a fucking monster. I feel enormous sympathy for her daughter who is being raised by this toxic monster.

You seem like you have a whole lot of rage against Bethenny. Seems over the top. Any reason why?

Different PP. Do you even watch the show? If you can't see that she's a monster, something is wrong with you.

I watch. If she's a monster than so are you. You're judgmental and call people names with no remorse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So on the reunion, Bethenny calls her boyfriends daughter who confirms her parents were separated for years before Bethenny and him began to date.

If the family confirms this who cares what internet trolls/crazy Aviva/Lie-ann make up about them?

I've never been divorced but I feel for people who are separated, have moved on and are dating... especially when both parties have moved on... it's not like Bethenny's ex hasn't been actively dating for a few years, as well. Legally- pretty much you are either married OR single... so if you are separated you are in no-mans-land... some very narrow minded people will always see you as a cheater, even when they are not involved in your relation and don't even know you.

That level of judging is creepy- like, sorry you've been cheated on, but this isn't what that is.

Luann was just trying to deflect from the fact that Tom cheated and the world saw. I guess it worked because all people are talking about is Bethany and her possible affair. For the people on this forum who judge legally separated people for dating are probably bitter, cheated on spouses. Don't know about Bethany's boyfriend's wife, but Bethany's husband dated, so where's the Puritan outrage for that?

Nope! Just calling a spade a spade!

And nice fake sexism jab. Bethenny's husband isn't on this show. Why would he be relevant to the discussion?

I didn't point out Bethanny's husband dating to prove that your criticism is sexist (although, since that is your first conclusion, I'm rethinking where you're coming from), I just don't understand why anyone would criticize her but not the husband. I'm coming from a place where I feel that men and women are equal, whether they have penises or vaginas or are on a TV show or not.

[Anonymous]

Watching Bethenny transform from scrappy, funny underdog/victim to hypocritical, mercenary, showboating bully has been an interesting but disappointing ride. The saddest thing is--I've never seen or heard her mother, but I bet 100% she has turned into her mother.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Bethenny is a fucking monster. I feel enormous sympathy for her daughter who is being raised by this toxic monster.

You seem like you have a whole lot of rage against Bethenny. Seems over the top. Any reason why?

Different PP. Do you even watch the show? If you can't see that she's a monster, something is wrong with you.

I watch. If she's a monster than so are you. You're judgmental and call people names with no remorse.

than and then are 2 different words with different meanings.

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Bethenny is a fucking monster. I feel enormous sympathy for her daughter who is being raised by this toxic monster.

You seem like you have a whole lot of rage against Bethenny. Seems over the top. Any reason why?

Different PP. Do you even watch the show? If you can't see that she's a monster, something is wrong with you.

I watch. If she's a monster than so are you. You're judgmental and call people names with no remorse.

than and then are 2 different words with different meanings.

I know the difference, but thanks. Totally a typo. I'm human. Thanks for proving you're judgmental.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Bethenny is a fucking monster. I feel enormous sympathy for her daughter who is being raised by this toxic monster.

You seem like you have a whole lot of rage against Bethenny. Seems over the top. Any reason why?

I'm the PP you quoted. If she didn't have a child, I would just think of her as a typical reality-tv egomaniac who believes her own press a bit too much. But the fact that she just oozes toxicity and bitterness, and is raising a child, really triggers something in me. I was raised in a pretty toxic family (my mom isn't like B, but there were many other bad issues at play) and I've suffered for it without even realizing how much until I had kids. I feel like every day of my life as a parent is spent trying to act how a "normal" person would, when parenting her children. Trying to parent without bringing all the mountains of baggage from my childhood into every interaction is beyond draining but it's my privilege because I don't want the cycle to continue. So yes, there's a reason I feel so much hatred toward B. I am already projecting how her behavior will affect her child today and in the future. You can say I'm thinking way too much about all of this and you'd be completely correct. But that's where my hatred of her comes from.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Wow! Where is that from?!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Bethenny is a fucking monster. I feel enormous sympathy for her daughter who is being raised by this toxic monster.

You seem like you have a whole lot of rage against Bethenny. Seems over the top. Any reason why?

I'm the PP you quoted. If she didn't have a child, I would just think of her as a typical reality-tv egomaniac who believes her own press a bit too much. But the fact that she just oozes toxicity and bitterness, and is raising a child, really triggers something in me. I was raised in a pretty toxic family (my mom isn't like B, but there were many other bad issues at play) and I've suffered for it without even realizing how much until I had kids. I feel like every day of my life as a parent is spent trying to act how a "normal" person would, when parenting her children. Trying to parent without bringing all the mountains of baggage from my childhood into every interaction is beyond draining but it's my privilege because I don't want the cycle to continue. So yes, there's a reason I feel so much hatred toward B. I am already projecting how her behavior will affect her child today and in the future. You can say I'm thinking way too much about all of this and you'd be completely correct. But that's where my hatred of her comes from.

I respect the fact that you would share honestly about your experience and perspective. I don't have the same perspective but I now get where you're coming from. I don't support or agree with how Bethenny treats people when it comes to being brutally honest or airing out their dirty laundry. But I also think that people like Bethenny are so hurt that they hurt others, which is no excuse of course.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Wow! Where is that from?!

Right! Is there a housewife among us? I need more of this!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Wow! Where is that from?!

Right! Is there a housewife among us? I need more of this!

No, lol. Not a housewife. But this comment made my day! I found it on twitter. I don't know if this is legit, but many people have been tweeting Andy to explain, but no response so far. Its been posted for at least a couple hours and no response from Bravo or Andy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Wow. So I'm convinced by the reactions of the other housewives (and her own) that Dorinda is a coke head.

Me too. I'm stunned.

The drug talk was insane. Bethenny was not for it but then LuAnn and Dorinda had a lapse in judgement and wanted to get into it, and then LuAnn's dumbass finally realizes the implications she would be in if they had a real discussion about it. That was the quickest back and forth switch I've seen in a reunion.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Wow! Where is that from?!

Right! Is there a housewife among us? I need more of this!

No, lol. Not a housewife. But this comment made my day! I found it on twitter. I don't know if this is legit, but many people have been tweeting Andy to explain, but no response so far. Its been posted for at least a couple hours and no response from Bravo or Andy.

This is not from THE Jules Wanstein, it was posted on a private FB group for members that discuss the Bitch Sesh podcast. It is from a Jules associated with them.