She was a sugar baby

[Anonymous]

New girlfriend of 3 months told me she used to be a sugar baby. It was with one guy when she was 28. It was more like a fwb relationship but he helped pay off her loan debt for school. It last 6 months. It’s been tough to process. I really like her but knowing this information has taken me back. It’s shocking. It goes against every moral I have. She doesn’t seem like the type to do that. She is a good person and has so much going for her - good career, attractive, good in bed, kind-hearted, respectful, good sense of humor, and good with kids. I’m am unsure of what to do at this point. I like her and see potential, but don’t think is fair to stay with someone if I judge her based on her past.

[Anonymous]

You realize she's trickle-truthing you. If she says it was one guy, then it was LOTS of guys. If she says it was 6 months, then she spent years being an escort.

But mainly, even if it was exactly as she says, if you're not comfortable with her behavior, you have every right to break up with her and find someone who meets your standards.

[Anonymous]

At least she's not a man-baby, which it sounds like you are OP.

[Anonymous]

Life is messy. If you found someone who puts up with your shit, and you want her around, don't ask too many questions.

[Anonymous]

Don't hold it against her, if she is great in all the other ways you mentioned.

[Anonymous]

What's your story, OP? Single, never been married, no kids? Or do you have baggage that doesn't make you exactly a top prize?

[Anonymous]

Really people? You are good giving her a pass because she is a woman. If it was a woman posting that her boyfriend used to be a gigalo, there would be pages telling her to stay away from him. Op no self-respecting person sleeps with someone for money. Dump the sl*t.

[Anonymous]

She was a prostitute. Period.

[Anonymous]

If you want her to be a SAHM she is already trained to do what is expected to get the bills paid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What's your story, OP? Single, never been married, no kids? Or do you have baggage that doesn't make you exactly a top prize?

OP here. I’m 32, never married, no kids, and work in finance. I’m not perfect but I don’t have much baggage. I’m not exactly a model but been told I’m attractive.

[Anonymous]

She doesn’t have student loan debt? Sounds like a win.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She doesn’t have student loan debt? Sounds like a win.

Op here. Not that much now. She is the medical field and had about $50k of leans. She only has to pay off $10k.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:At least she's not a man-baby, which it sounds like you are OP.

Wow sexist asshole alert.

[Anonymous]

This kinda blows my mind. My experience is that literally all males have some kind of disgusting thing in their background, most keep it a secret if they can. What's yours?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What's your story, OP? Single, never been married, no kids? Or do you have baggage that doesn't make you exactly a top prize?

OP here. I’m 32, never married, no kids, and work in finance. I’m not perfect but I don’t have much baggage. I’m not exactly a model but been told I’m attractive.

Move on. There are so many women out there who do not have this type of baggage.