How to spice up sex life in newer marriage...

[Anonymous]

DH and I have been married 3 years. Great guy, cooks, cleans, does laundry, driven, good job, but our sex life is severely lacking. No he isn't cheating, I don't look like shit, and I have told him many times but claims he is just tired and stressed from work... any advice?

[Anonymous]

Kids or no kids?

[Anonymous]

Watch this. It's the total truth.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/video/femail/video-1142309/Sexpert-Tracey-Cox-talks-sex-relationships.html

[Anonymous]

OP here, no kids, when we do he's into it but I always feel like I'm initiating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, no kids, when we do he's into it but I always feel like I'm initiating.

What if you told him you're happy to initiate but it really gets you going and makes you feel good when he does it. And clearly tell him what initiation methods you like.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Watch this. It's the total truth.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/video/femail/video-1142309/Sexpert-Tracey-Cox-talks-sex-relationships.html

This is good. Now watching her next video on fantasies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Watch this. It's the total truth.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/video/femail/video-1142309/Sexpert-Tracey-Cox-talks-sex-relationships.html

This is good. Now watching her next video on fantasies.

While I agree her discussion about how a women's sex drive operates is excellent, none of that really applies to a man.

[Anonymous]

I disagree. Men like newness too.

[Anonymous]

Relax! Stop nagging him for sex, it's not a turn on. You can suggest it once in a while. Be affectionate with hugs and kisses and be supportive. Unfortunately due to biology the man has to be the aggressor in the bedroom- you simply can't screw a man who's not interested.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Relax! Stop nagging him for sex, it's not a turn on. You can suggest it once in a while. Be affectionate with hugs and kisses and be supportive. Unfortunately due to biology the man has to be the aggressor in the bedroom- you simply can't screw a man who's not interested.

But you can screw a woman who's not interested?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Relax! Stop nagging him for sex, it's not a turn on. You can suggest it once in a while. Be affectionate with hugs and kisses and be supportive. Unfortunately due to biology the man has to be the aggressor in the bedroom- you simply can't screw a man who's not interested.

But you can screw a woman who's not interested?

You should find a partner who is interested in you. You shouldn't screw a person who is uninterested in you. That said, both men & women have mouths and fingers, so the difference in genitalia shouldn't be the determining factor in how to behave here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:cooks, cleans, does laundry

You married a beta male. He won't change. If you want things spiced up dump him for a more-masculine alpha male.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:cooks, cleans, does laundry

You married a beta male. He won't change. If you want things spiced up dump him for a more-masculine alpha male.

This is bull. Plenty of men out there who contribute to domestic tasks and would be thrilled to put out every day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: DH and I have been married 3 years. Great guy, cooks, cleans, does laundry, driven, good job, but our sex life is severely lacking. No he isn't cheating, I don't look like shit, and I have told him many times but claims he is just tired and stressed from work... any advice?

A hundred bucks says he secretly watches a ton of porn. Get that fixed ASAP...

[Anonymous]

Few men prefer porn to the real thing with a woman who 'dont look like shit'.