How to spice up sex life in newer marriage...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote: DH and I have been married 3 years. Great guy, cooks, cleans, does laundry, driven, good job, but our sex life is severely lacking. No he isn't cheating, I don't look like shit, and I have told him many times but claims he is just tired and stressed from work... any advice?

A hundred bucks says he secretly watches a ton of porn. Get that fixed ASAP...

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If you find it take note and try and mimic what you see. He'll probably be delighted. My DH was looking at stuff during our dry spell late in my third trimester. I took a mental note and now we video chat during his business trips and I use it as inspiration haha.

Scree that. I was pissed when I found all his porn. I was right there, not fat, and he preferred that. It killed my attraction to him

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: DH and I have been married 3 years. Great guy, cooks, cleans, does laundry, driven, good job, but our sex life is severely lacking. No he isn't cheating, I don't look like shit, and I have told him many times but claims he is just tired and stressed from work... any advice?

A hundred bucks says he secretly watches a ton of porn. Get that fixed ASAP...

+1

If you find it take note and try and mimic what you see. He'll probably be delighted. My DH was looking at stuff during our dry spell late in my third trimester. I took a mental note and now we video chat during his business trips and I use it as inspiration haha.

Scree that. I was pissed when I found all his porn. I was right there, not fat, and he preferred that. It killed my attraction to him

He was turning you down when you initiated?

[Anonymous]

I'm so sorry to hear this. Just know you aren't alone. Many marriages go through this! Has the sex life always been this way or did it just start?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In today’s climate, it’s risky for even a married man to initiate.

Ok Dotard.

She slaps your hand away!

[Anonymous]

OP, I am you 10 years down the road. I hate to tell you but this is the rest of your life. If I had known that before kids I would have bailed.