He won't spend the night

[Anonymous]

I have been dating this man for 5 weeks. We are getting along really well and communicating daily between dates. We have gone on 7 dates together and have slept together. I can tell he genuinely likes me. Just won't go into details but before parting ways, he always asks me when we are going to see each other next. He is very busy at work (so am I) and I am pleased with the amount of time he devotes to me. I can see he is making efforts.
The only thing is that he will not spend the night with me. I really don't make a big deal of it but it is starting to bother me. We've had week night dates and weekends but after we've had sex, talked for a while and cuddled he goes home. We have made plans to do a day trip next weekend and i asked if he would spend the night away too and he responded that he has to see what else is going on that weekend.
Does anybody have any advice, input or experience to share?

[Anonymous]

Have you been to his house? He's probably married.

[Anonymous]

Agree married.

[Anonymous]

Probably married

[Anonymous]

So obviously married or living with a partner.

[Anonymous]

This man is not single. Sorry. Better luck next time.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he snores or wets the bed when he sleeps

[Anonymous]

Yes, I have been to his place and we hung out in his neighborhood all afternoon. He lives in a tiny place (definitely by himself) and my place his much nicer than his.

[Anonymous]

My place * is nicer

[Anonymous]

The place where he lives. Does it match his income/career level? Because it might not be his place or might be where he brings his side chicks. Either way, he sounds like he's not that serious about you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I have been to his place and we hung out in his neighborhood all afternoon. He lives in a tiny place (definitely by himself) and my place his much nicer than his.

That's not his real home, maybe where he crashes for the work week or his affair pad.. He's married and lives in the suburbs with wife and kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I have been to his place and we hung out in his neighborhood all afternoon. He lives in a tiny place (definitely by himself) and my place his much nicer than his.

So tiny that that's all he can afford as a second home payment (in addition to the mortgage with his wife)?

[Anonymous]

He's either not into you, married or weird. I wouldn't stay around to find out. Ghost him.

[Anonymous]

That's definitely his home. He is highly educated but prob doesn't make more than 80k a year. Working for non- profit. He lives in a studio in a nice D.C. Neighborhood, which can cost up to $2000/ month. We're even friends on FB. So I doubt he's married or has a gf. Seems genuine and pretty transparent.

[Anonymous]

If you are having sex with him, surely you can ask him why he won't spend the night.