Agree. Getting into Harvard, Yale or Stanford is like winning the lottery. Remember, the majority of Asian students or orgs did not support this. One of the reasons is that there are a lot of Asians who fight about this idea of being the "model minority". Remember, you can have the greatest SAT scores and have that Harvard degree, but it is not necessarily going to help you get the opportunities that you want b/c whether you like to believe it or not, ALL people of color face barriers in the job market. You may say that that's not true in the STEM fields, but that is a small percentage of all jobs. You won the battle, but will lose the war. |
If you don't want to attend a school where half the students are hard working, then don't. It's a free country. But don't kid yourself that just because Asian parents push their kids hard that means the kids don't have their own thoughts and decisions. The younger the kid, the more guidance parents should have, with the goal to raise them to independent thinkers (because if kids are not influenced by parents, they will be influenced by something else, be it peers, social media, video games, etc and believe it or not, out of those possibilities, parents generally know best and have the best intentions). Do you honestly believe white liberal gen z'ers are independent thinkers? Because no one else does. |
You know Harvard is the subject of this case right? |
Pew Research disagrees: https://www.pewresearch.org/politics/2023/06/08/more-americans-disapprove-than-approve-of-colleges-considering-race-ethnicity-in-admissions-decisions/ About 52% of English speaking Asians disapprove of Affirmative Action compared to 37% that approve. Asian Americans are also very aware of the bamboo ceiling. |
First generation Asian Americans--or their parents--come from countries where university admission is based solely on performance on a university entrance exam. So it's easy to understand why AA doesn't make sense to them. (Many also come from countries that have blatant internal and external racism, but that's a whole 'nuther story.) They are not alone in thinking that. My Southern European relatives also have a university admission system based exclusively on performance on a university entrance exam. Other admissions criteria favored in this country like essays, extracurriculars, community service, participation in athletics, etc. are almost exclusively an American phenomenon. It's just a very different model of college admissions than pretty much anywhere else in the world. |
A little weird tho that a private business CAN choose to DENY a customer because he/she is a member of a protected class, but a private university CANNOT choose to ACCEPT a customer because he/she is a member of a protected class. |
What? no one's doing that. Working hard, staying out of trouble, not cheating/being unethical are all very positive attributes. Lots of loud mouth teens go on to accomplish very little in life - why? because they don't work hard at things, they're just loud and pushy, no substance. And thank goodness we all hide the Jewish white people from non-Jewish white people. 20% of admits vs 3% of total population. same for lucrative career paths too. |
I told you how they took over the tech in the US. Once one Indian has a foot in the door, they will bring onboard their friends and cousins and then they only hire Indians, then they promote each other to top positions. This is how it happened in Silicon Valley. Ask anyone who works there. They know. |
The dark side to the Asian cultural model of prioritizing academic and professional achievement ahead of everything else is the high rates of suicide in Asian young people here and abroad. I have a high performing white child, but I have always straight that they are not their grades/SAT score/salary. There has to be some balance. Life is stressful enough. Asian American young adults are the only racial group with suicide as their leading cause of death, so why is no one talking about this? https://theconversation.com/asian-american-young-adults-are-the-only-racial-group-with-suicide-as-their-leading-cause-of-death-so-why-is-no-one-talking-about-this-158030 Youth suicide: Asian teens crack down under growing family pressure https://asia.nikkei.com/Spotlight/Asia-Insight/Youth-suicide-Asian-teens-crack-under-growing-family-pressure |
Nobody wants to be around kids who consider a B on a test a major failure and obsess about their grades and don’t have a life outside studying for next test, who have zero control over their lives and are under strict control by their parents who choose every activity and every friend for them. Nobody. You want to turn Harvard into little India the way you turned TJ into tiger mom central? Well, they are not going to let you ruin the school. |
Oh for crying out loud. Don't act like white people don't do this. Have you ever heard of the good old boys club? Look at most government contracting companies in the DMV and tell me the white male holding a C-level position didn't bring in their friends for other C-level or leadership positions. I.see.it.all.the.time. |
Asians have the lowest suicide rates of any race. https://www.usnews.com/news/health-news/articles/2023-02-09/suicide-rates-have-risen-among-people-of-color Asians don’t have things like opioids and gun violence outpacing suicides. |
Nice straw man argument. Not what I said or meant. I know young Asian Americans who are successful but do not believe they are because their parents are disappointed that they aren’t more outstandingly brag-worthy. It’s brutal. |