Are you obligated to inform your spouse about plans to change your appearance?

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Anonymous wrote:Cutting nice long hair into a short style that declares you no longer have an interest in sex probably warrants some prior discussion.

So when my husband cut his pandemic man bun hair, it meant he didn't want to have sex anymore? He didn't get that message.

There's no real correlation between a man's hair length and his desire to have sex. There's at least some correlation between a woman's hair length and her desire to have sex. (It's also correlated with age, length of relationship, and willingness to expend effort on looking attractive.)

I've heard something similar, but only in America. A bunch of squares!

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Anonymous wrote:Cutting nice long hair into a short style that declares you no longer have an interest in sex probably warrants some prior discussion.

There's so much dumb in this post I don't know where to start.

You must have short hair and think you look good. Sorry to tell you, but there are very few women that can pull off having short hair and still look attractive. You will look like a man. And if you are overweight, you will look even worse. The more you take away the things that make you look feminine, the more masculine you will look.

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These posts about hair length and haircuts and sex are so funny. I am sure the men who are blaming the haircuts are seriously misunderstanding the signal their SOs are sending. It’s not that they don’t want to have sex. They don’t want to have sex with you. A haircut is a small price to pay to shut that down.

But you go right ahead and say she doesn’t realize that you don’t think she’s unattractive with her short hair. She does. She’s glad.

So funny.

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Anonymous wrote:Cutting nice long hair into a short style that declares you no longer have an interest in sex probably warrants some prior discussion.

There's so much dumb in this post I don't know where to start.

You must have short hair and think you look good. Sorry to tell you, but there are very few women that can pull off having short hair and still look attractive. You will look like a man. And if you are overweight, you will look even worse. The more you take away the things that make you look feminine, the more masculine you will look.

You sound like you have a micropenis.

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Anonymous wrote:Obligated no? Of course, they aren't obligated to stay married to you if you started as a shoulder length brunette with no tattoos and morph into a multi-colored spike job and enough tats to belong to a biker gang. I love my wife but if she decided to go off the deep end like that, I'm pretty sure I'd be out as soon as the kids graduated from high school and probably try to avoid going anywhere in public with her.

Flip side, I keep a short beard...if I decided I wanted to look like ZZ Top, I'm pretty sure I'd get told in no uncertain terms that my idea wouldn't fly.

No issues with small changes, but there has to be a limit before a serious discussion needs to happen.

This is why I'm not married. Not into any of that, but the thought of someone else having a say or feeling like they have a say in what I do with my body makes me cringe.

Same! I mean, I am married, but I cannot stand the idea of somebody else being entitled to have a say on what I do with my body (unless, obviously, it’s an affair or something dangerous that might leave DH a single parent or something). Never ever ever. My body my choice.

So, your spouse wouldn't have a say in your choice of masking or vaccination?

Np here, but yes your spouse can't actually dictate if you get a vaccine or wear a mask

PP wasn't talking about her spouse "dictating." She said that her spouse would never ever ever even have a say in the matter.

Technically the don't have a say in whether you where a mask, get vaccinate, get a tattoo, cut your hair dye you hair

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Cutting nice long hair into a short style that declares you no longer have an interest in sex probably warrants some prior discussion.

So when my husband cut his pandemic man bun hair, it meant he didn't want to have sex anymore? He didn't get that message.

There's no real correlation between a man's hair length and his desire to have sex. There's at least some correlation between a woman's hair length and her desire to have sex. (It's also correlated with age, length of relationship, and willingness to expend effort on looking attractive.)

Please post the stats on this.

Nah.

Because they don't exist outside of Incel and micropenis messageboards full of imaginary facts that don't correspond with reality much like Faux news.

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Anonymous wrote:These posts about hair length and haircuts and sex are so funny. I am sure the men who are blaming the haircuts are seriously misunderstanding the signal their SOs are sending. It’s not that they don’t want to have sex. They don’t want to have sex with you. A haircut is a small price to pay to shut that down.

But you go right ahead and say she doesn’t realize that you don’t think she’s unattractive with her short hair. She does. She’s glad.

So funny.

Right. They want sex, but cut their hair short and blimp up so their husbands won’t touch them. All so they can dump him and move onto having sex with a new guy. Except no guy will touch them because they look like a manatee.

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Anonymous wrote:Cutting nice long hair into a short style that declares you no longer have an interest in sex probably warrants some prior discussion.

There's so much dumb in this post I don't know where to start.

You must have short hair and think you look good. Sorry to tell you, but there are very few women that can pull off having short hair and still look attractive. You will look like a man. And if you are overweight, you will look even worse. The more you take away the things that make you look feminine, the more masculine you will look.

You sound like you have a micropenis.

Haha is that the best you got? I’d post a picture to disprove your silly theory, but I’d get booted along with the post. Nice try though.

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Anonymous wrote:Cutting nice long hair into a short style that declares you no longer have an interest in sex probably warrants some prior discussion.

There's so much dumb in this post I don't know where to start.

You must have short hair and think you look good. Sorry to tell you, but there are very few women that can pull off having short hair and still look attractive. You will look like a man. And if you are overweight, you will look even worse. The more you take away the things that make you look feminine, the more masculine you will look.

You sound like you have a micropenis.

Haha is that the best you got? I’d post a picture to disprove your silly theory, but I’d get booted along with the post. Nice try though.

As I thought you do. Small and even worse you don't know what to do with it and you are confused as to why your wife doesn't want to sleep with you.

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Anonymous wrote:These posts about hair length and haircuts and sex are so funny. I am sure the men who are blaming the haircuts are seriously misunderstanding the signal their SOs are sending. It’s not that they don’t want to have sex. They don’t want to have sex with you. A haircut is a small price to pay to shut that down.

But you go right ahead and say she doesn’t realize that you don’t think she’s unattractive with her short hair. She does. She’s glad.

So funny.

Ignoring the absolute fallacy that women with short hair are unattractive. It is pretty funny that the haircut crew can't seem to grasp the obvious.

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Anonymous wrote:These posts about hair length and haircuts and sex are so funny. I am sure the men who are blaming the haircuts are seriously misunderstanding the signal their SOs are sending. It’s not that they don’t want to have sex. They don’t want to have sex with you. A haircut is a small price to pay to shut that down.

But you go right ahead and say she doesn’t realize that you don’t think she’s unattractive with her short hair. She does. She’s glad.

So funny.

Ignoring the absolute fallacy that women with short hair are unattractive. It is pretty funny that the haircut crew can't seem to grasp the obvious.

Aww Forrest Gump has a sister.

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Anonymous wrote:These posts about hair length and haircuts and sex are so funny. I am sure the men who are blaming the haircuts are seriously misunderstanding the signal their SOs are sending. It’s not that they don’t want to have sex. They don’t want to have sex with you. A haircut is a small price to pay to shut that down.

But you go right ahead and say she doesn’t realize that you don’t think she’s unattractive with her short hair. She does. She’s glad.

So funny.

Right. They want sex, but cut their hair short and blimp up so their husbands won’t touch them. All so they can dump him and move onto having sex with a new guy. Except no guy will touch them because they look like a manatee.

She does, just not with you. So until she can be rid of you, she makes herself unattractive to you. Because you are no longer attractive to her. And with your attitude toward women, who could blame her? I’m surprised she hasn’t gone out and gotten a big old (temporary) face tattoo just to get more distance.

Too funny.