Did you realize that this comment was not about you? |
And you blame teachers? This is the culture we have created and supported in the US. Until Covid happened no one cared how little we value working moms. |
I don't think anyone said anything about blaming teachers. But the issue here is working moms and some odd culture of martyrdom, whereby you can't suggest that school closures hurt women's employment to them. |
But you are reverting or resorting to an either/or and just participating in that culture here. You aren't allowing for any nuance. |
| funny how when a teachers union says kids belong in school, it feels like it must be a sneaky trick to make sure kids can't go to school |
It's kind of hard to take them at face value after this year. |
Read this article: https://www.nytimes.com/2021/05/09/us/covid-school-reopening-virtual-learning.html?referringSource=articleShare There’s a reason school is compulsory. Kids of all backgrounds need to be in school during the day, not act as breadwinners for their families while trying to complete online coursework at night instead of sleeping. |
Apparently prolonged isolation just now became bad for kids. Ditto the detrimental impact of prolonged online learning and the impact of closures on working mothers. Those things didn't matter before, but now are fodder for getting what the union wants. It's the same thing as arguing "my poor black and brown students are terrified of being in school because COVID has ravaged their communities" when they wanted school buildings shuttered. Next year it's going to be, "we need to be paid much more because it is heartbreaking seeing the loss of learning suffered by the most at risk students because of prolonged DL. We need millions to get them back on track." With that said, funding to allow smaller class sizes would be great. |
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Both of your sisters don’t have husbands/fathers for their kids? They are both widows? Seriously maybe ownership of childcare belongs w both parents not a teacher |
Oh. HUZZBINS is back. |
God you’re vile and bitter. And apparently clueless about single parent households (a quarter of household with kids), or the existence of absent parents, or or or..... Seriously, we get that your husband doesn’t help at home so you come and harass people on DCUM. Get a divorce and some therapy. |
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wish this working mothers point had been made a wee bit earlier by her but better late than never.[/quote]
Right like before shuttered schools forced 1 million plus women out of the workforce and damaged their earning prospects for some for the rest of their lives. But yeah. Way to go I guess?[/quote] Does anyone else have mother friends who seemed enraged that anyone pointed this out? Like it was this weird issue in my peer circle that if you were a mother you had to just suck it up and not say anything about your earnings prospects being altered for your lifetime.[/quote] +1 I had to leave a group of friends over it. For some reason, I was not allowed to acknowledge this as reality. Both of my sisters lost their jobs because their kids were home and they couldn't afford childcare.[/quote] And you blame teachers? This is the culture we have created and supported in the US. Until Covid happened no one cared how little we value working moms.[/quote] Both of your sisters don’t have husbands/fathers for their kids? They are both widows? Seriously maybe ownership of childcare belongs w both parents not a teacher [/quote] God you’re vile and bitter. And apparently clueless about single parent households (a quarter of household with kids), or the existence of absent parents, or or or..... Seriously, we get that your husband doesn’t help at home so you come and harass people on DCUM. Get a divorce and some therapy.[/quote] |
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Yeah my husband does his share - which means half of raising his children, cleaning his home and feeding his family.
I’m goofing off in DCUM because he does bedtime w the kids. If your husband m, baby daddy doesn’t do their share in a pandemic then complain about that. Don’t complain about the teachers. Two of the moms in my dc’s class are single moms by choice. Never once have they complained about the teachers, etc. I can’t believe how they do it. One has two kids to boot. So no I don’t have any grace for women who want to beat up on other women and when their partners could be doing anything You don’t like how they do something just deal w it. Stop controlling everything or let the standard go |
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wish this working mothers point had been made a wee bit earlier by her but better late than never.[/quote]
Right like before shuttered schools forced 1 million plus women out of the workforce and damaged their earning prospects for some for the rest of their lives. But yeah. Way to go I guess?[/quote] Does anyone else have mother friends who seemed enraged that anyone pointed this out? Like it was this weird issue in my peer circle that if you were a mother you had to just suck it up and not say anything about your earnings prospects being altered for your lifetime.[/quote] +1 I had to leave a group of friends over it. For some reason, I was not allowed to acknowledge this as reality. Both of my sisters lost their jobs because their kids were home and they couldn't afford childcare.[/quote] And you blame teachers? This is the culture we have created and supported in the US. Until Covid happened no one cared how little we value working moms.[/quote] Both of your sisters don’t have husbands/fathers for their kids? They are both widows? Seriously maybe ownership of childcare belongs w both parents not a teacher [/quote] God you’re vile and bitter. And apparently clueless about single parent households (a quarter of household with kids), or the existence of absent parents, or or or..... Seriously, we get that your husband doesn’t help at home so you come and harass people on DCUM. Get a divorce and some therapy.[/quote][/quote] You are funny. I say women should expect the men in their life to do their part and you think my husband does nothing. He does more than me if I’m honest. |