DH pushes me away from DC

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Drop the rope. Stop doing any of this. If he wants a special meal, or to celebrate a holiday in a certain way, say "great! I look forward to seeing what you come up with". He cannot make you lift a finger. Once he sees how much work this is, perhaps he'll back off a bit.

Kid will suffer

He will love that everyone sunk to his low denominator: everybody does nothing.

The kids are already suffering because you saddled them with this unsuitable father.

NP. And continue to. OP, nothing about this is normal. You need to be working toward something larger than changing your reactions/ how you handle things. This continues because of you. You know he won't change.