Women who quickly divorce with young kids and refuse marital therapy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you actually think the child is still crying over the divorce daily then you're an idiot. There is obviously something else going on that has nothing to do with the divorce

This. You are projecting and being judgmental over things you *think* you know about but likely don’t. Your comment about the kid still crying is absurd and you are looking for ways to blame the mom. Yes, there are some terrible moms out there, but life and relate are complex and you can’t really know what’s going on.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If you actually think the child is still crying over the divorce daily then you're an idiot. There is obviously something else going on that has nothing to do with the divorce

This. You are projecting and being judgmental over things you *think* you know about but likely don’t. Your comment about the kid still crying is absurd and you are looking for ways to blame the mom. Yes, there are some terrible moms out there, but life and relate are complex and you can’t really know what’s going on.

I see and talk to the child daily so I think I know what is going on. The mom is a piece of work. The child strongly prefers the dad. I don't like either of them.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If you actually think the child is still crying over the divorce daily then you're an idiot. There is obviously something else going on that has nothing to do with the divorce

This. You are projecting and being judgmental over things you *think* you know about but likely don’t. Your comment about the kid still crying is absurd and you are looking for ways to blame the mom. Yes, there are some terrible moms out there, but life and relate are complex and you can’t really know what’s going on.

I see and talk to the child daily so I think I know what is going on. The mom is a piece of work. The child strongly prefers the dad. I don't like either of them.

They aren't crying over the divorce. They are crying over a bad situation at home with Mom and are unhappy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The selfish one is her xH who was chasing after other women.

She was smart to leave. Men like that rarely change and marriage counseling often doesn't work. Better than wasting years of her life, only to divorce when her child is older and will struggle more with it.

There weren't other women. He wasn't chasing after anyone. The woman sent flirty texts and it was one woman. It was his bad for responding to them.

The child is struggling with it now and very distant from the mom because of it. The mom gives the child the cold shoulder when the child upsets her.

This has nothing to do with divorce and has to do with parenting and home life.

[Anonymous]

I cant tell what the nanny OP is saying. The step dad is bad? The mom is bad? The kids are something?

Has the birth dad asked for your help with something here Op?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If you actually think the child is still crying over the divorce daily then you're an idiot. There is obviously something else going on that has nothing to do with the divorce

This. You are projecting and being judgmental over things you *think* you know about but likely don’t. Your comment about the kid still crying is absurd and you are looking for ways to blame the mom. Yes, there are some terrible moms out there, but life and relate are complex and you can’t really know what’s going on.

I see and talk to the child daily so I think I know what is going on. The mom is a piece of work. The child strongly prefers the dad. I don't like either of them.

They aren't crying over the divorce. They are crying over a bad situation at home with Mom and are unhappy.

The child has been stressed out since the divorce. Anyway ill stop wasting my breath. Feels like the dcum gang of ms13 is ganging up and making up nonsense i never said.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I cant tell what the nanny OP is saying. The step dad is bad? The mom is bad? The kids are something?

Has the birth dad asked for your help with something here Op?

Never said I was a nanny and you keep posting nonsense ill keep reporting you.

Op, there are multiple posters who think you're a nutjob.

A nut job is someone who makes things up ( like yourself). If they weren't troll like and disrespectful they wouldn't keep getting reported and taken down. Just reported you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I cant tell what the nanny OP is saying. The step dad is bad? The mom is bad? The kids are something?

Has the birth dad asked for your help with something here Op?

Never said I was a nanny and you keep posting nonsense ill keep reporting you.

Op, there are multiple posters who think you're a nutjob.

A nut job is someone who makes things up ( like yourself). If they weren't troll like and disrespectful they wouldn't keep getting reported and taken down. Just reported you.

You think it's just one person who thinks you're insane? Too funny

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I cant tell what the nanny OP is saying. The step dad is bad? The mom is bad? The kids are something?

Has the birth dad asked for your help with something here Op?

Never said I was a nanny and you keep posting nonsense ill keep reporting you.

Op, there are multiple posters who think you're a nutjob.

A nut job is someone who makes things up ( like yourself). If they weren't troll like and disrespectful they wouldn't keep getting reported and taken down. Just reported you.

You think it's just one person who thinks you're insane? Too funny

Hey, I'm not the poster or posters making up things I didn't say! To me that is crazy and unhinged.

[Anonymous]

I'm enjoying you OP. I hope you make more threads about other stuff.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm enjoying you OP. I hope you make more threads about other stuff.

Thanks enjoying reporting trolls like you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op sounds crazy and unhinged. Although I do enjoy watching people spiral like her. Too bad that kid has yet another unstable person in his life.

Who is spiraling? I delete report and block asinine people like you. No time for your bs. Why do you even waste your time insulting others to get a little high as your own marital life crumbles ? Happy people don't enjoy to see anyone spiral. You are sick!

Oh no I'm happily married. Currently bored and can't sleep. And it's literally no effort for me to laugh at you getting all riled up. I think it's hilarious you think anyone can take your point of view seriously given your reactions here.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm enjoying you OP. I hope you make more threads about other stuff.

Thanks enjoying reporting trolls like you.

Whatever shall I do? At this rate you're going to get your whole post deleted because you just can't help yourself with responding.

[Anonymous]

Btw you're acting pretty high and mighty for someone who created a post to literally talk down on someone else for something that happened years ago. You're not exactly a prime example of a nice person OP.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm enjoying you OP. I hope you make more threads about other stuff.

Thanks enjoying reporting trolls like you.

Whatever shall I do? At this rate you're going to get your whole post deleted because you just can't help yourself with responding.

That is great! I am getting real help and support at another popular forum with sane users unlike here. Happy as a clam