Women who quickly divorce with young kids and refuse marital therapy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you actually think the child is still crying over the divorce daily then you're an idiot. There is obviously something else going on that has nothing to do with the divorce

I already explained what in a few posts above. And the child tells everything to dad's side of the family. He has a super close relationship with dad's side of the family. Absolutely hates his mom's side of the family and the new guy's side of the family since they ignore him.

Then, the child isn't crying over divorce. The child is crying as the Mom isn't a great mom nor is her family.

[Anonymous]

OP, you are weird. No, she is not selfish. She did what she needed to. Why do you care? This is a weird post. The child crying has nothing to do with the divorce. Some kids cry a lot and are prone to sensitivity and tantrums.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a jealous ex-husband posting.

[Anonymous]

BRENDA is the dad's cousin and was one of the big reasons that the mom left. She HATED that her husband's family kept meddling and tried to be so involved in her life. BRENDA was a b1tch, but because the wife and husband came from traditional (middle eastern?) families, the wife had no choice but to take her in.

[Anonymous]

Oh, OR BRENDA is the one that the husband flirted with over text. She's just a family friend that was living with them for a summer.

Which one is it, BRENNIE?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you actually think the child is still crying over the divorce daily then you're an idiot. There is obviously something else going on that has nothing to do with the divorce

I already explained what in a few posts above. And the child tells everything to dad's side of the family. He has a super close relationship with dad's side of the family. Absolutely hates his mom's side of the family and the new guy's side of the family since they ignore him.

Then, the child isn't crying over divorce. The child is crying as the Mom isn't a great mom nor is her family.

How old is the child? 7 or 8? Then he/she is being manipulative.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:BRENDA is the dad's cousin and was one of the big reasons that the mom left. She HATED that her husband's family kept meddling and tried to be so involved in her life. BRENDA was a b1tch, but because the wife and husband came from traditional (middle eastern?) families, the wife had no choice but to take her in.

Now this makes sense. OP (i.e Brenda ) has way too much invested in this YEARS later. Like why are you so obsessed with this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you actually think the child is still crying over the divorce daily then you're an idiot. There is obviously something else going on that has nothing to do with the divorce

I already explained what in a few posts above. And the child tells everything to dad's side of the family. He has a super close relationship with dad's side of the family. Absolutely hates his mom's side of the family and the new guy's side of the family since they ignore him.

Then, the child isn't crying over divorce. The child is crying as the Mom isn't a great mom nor is her family.

How old is the child? 7 or 8? Then he/she is being manipulative.

This. Kid sounds like he's got some issues and that has nothing to do with the divorce. Also sounds like dad's family is heavily favored here by the poster who made this.

[Anonymous]

So you come on here to trash the mom over something that happened years ago? How weird.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would you brand them as selfish? Someone I knew flat out refused marital therapy after her 27 yr old husband flirted over text. They had a 2 yr old. Told the child would need therapy in the future but she said idc. She didn't care and quickly divorced. Her parents were never supportive of the marriage due to hating the Christian religion.Years later she remarried a richer older man and has her parents support. Child cries everyday and is unhappy since the divorce. Is she a selfish b?

How do you know what happens in other peoples marriages?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Would you brand them as selfish? Someone I knew flat out refused marital therapy after her 27 yr old husband flirted over text. They had a 2 yr old. Told the child would need therapy in the future but she said idc. She didn't care and quickly divorced. Her parents were never supportive of the marriage due to hating the Christian religion.Years later she remarried a richer older man and has her parents support. Child cries everyday and is unhappy since the divorce. Is she a selfish b?

How do you know what happens in other peoples marriages?

LoL because she lived with them and somehow thinks she knows every single detail involved.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You have no idea what was actually going on. MYOB. I never told anyone why I divorced my ex (constant visits to ‘massage’ parlors) because I didn’t want to humiliate my child. I’m sure people like you judged me. You literally have NO IDEA what is happening.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You have no idea what was actually going on. MYOB. I never told anyone why I divorced my ex (constant visits to ‘massage’ parlors) because I didn’t want to humiliate my child. I’m sure people like you judged me. You literally have NO IDEA what is happening.

+1

I wouldn't be too concerned if people like her judge you. She doesn't really sound like someone you would want in your life.

[Anonymous]

OP, no she's not selfish. She made a good decision for her. Her husband was flirting and so she decided to cut her losses while still young.

You on the other hand sound a bit nutty thinking that her child is still crying many years after the divorce and the divorce/not seeking therapy still bothers you even though it's not your child.