Women who quickly divorce with young kids and refuse marital therapy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The child has other issues or this is a troll. The kid was 2 when the divorce happened and she cries every day years later? That has nothing to do with the divorce. There are other issues.

+1 The child would have no memory of her parents being together. She’s crying for other reasons.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, no she's not selfish. She made a good decision for her. Her husband was flirting and so she decided to cut her losses while still young.

You on the other hand sound a bit nutty thinking that her child is still crying many years after the divorce and the divorce/not seeking therapy still bothers you even though it's not your child.

Her name is BRENDA. How DARE you be so disrespectful to call her OP

[Anonymous]

I'm guessing OP is the husband's mother.

[Anonymous]

The selfish one is her xH who was chasing after other women.

She was smart to leave. Men like that rarely change and marriage counseling often doesn't work. Better than wasting years of her life, only to divorce when her child is older and will struggle more with it.

[Anonymous]

If the XH was such a good Christian, why was he committing adultery?

If was such a good dad, why doesn't he have at least 50/50 custody?

If the child's so very sad, why doesn't the dad get him therapy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would you brand them as selfish? Someone I knew flat out refused marital therapy after her 27 yr old husband flirted over text. They had a 2 yr old. Told the child would need therapy in the future but she said idc. She didn't care and quickly divorced. Her parents were never supportive of the marriage due to hating the Christian religion.Years later she remarried a richer older man and has her parents support. Child cries everyday and is unhappy since the divorce. Is she a selfish b?

Either you are a troll or anti semite.

MYOB Period. Stop judging.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If the XH was such a good Christian, why was he committing adultery?

If was such a good dad, why doesn't he have at least 50/50 custody?

If the child's so very sad, why doesn't the dad get him therapy?

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you actually think the child is still crying over the divorce daily then you're an idiot. There is obviously something else going on that has nothing to do with the divorce

+1
MYOB

[Anonymous]

If you’re divorcing why would you bother doing marital therapy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Would you brand them as selfish? Someone I knew flat out refused marital therapy after her 27 yr old husband flirted over text. They had a 2 yr old. Told the child would need therapy in the future but she said idc. She didn't care and quickly divorced. Her parents were never supportive of the marriage due to hating the Christian religion.Years later she remarried a richer older man and has her parents support. Child cries everyday and is unhappy since the divorce. Is she a selfish b?

I don’t know anything except that it’s unfortunate for her that you know her, because you’re a typing pile of vomit with no life whatsoever. F’ing loser.

You don't know shit so idk why you wasted your time posting LOL dumb fck

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you’re divorcing why would you bother doing marital therapy?

She plain didn't want to try to save her marriage. I know dcum women hated women over 40 and loved women in their 20s defending all their mistakes and waiving them as college mistakes. Now they say yes a 20 something made the right decision to divorce even because of a flirty text but so many posts on here about staying for the kids even thru physical cheating in their 40a and up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Would you brand them as selfish? Someone I knew flat out refused marital therapy after her 27 yr old husband flirted over text. They had a 2 yr old. Told the child would need therapy in the future but she said idc. She didn't care and quickly divorced. Her parents were never supportive of the marriage due to hating the Christian religion.Years later she remarried a richer older man and has her parents support. Child cries everyday and is unhappy since the divorce. Is she a selfish b?

Either you are a troll or anti semite.

MYOB Period. Stop judging.

So you insulted me 3 times. Called me a troll, an anti semite when my husband is Jewish! And then went back and told me to mind my own business. Who in the fck married you with that condescending attitude?!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If the XH was such a good Christian, why was he committing adultery?

If was such a good dad, why doesn't he have at least 50/50 custody?

If the child's so very sad, why doesn't the dad get him therapy?

Flirting thru text means no working things out? Seems like most dcum women in this sub were cheated on with full hard-core flesh on flesh cheating and stayed in their marriage for the kids.

Who said he didn't? Who? Nobody. You're making things up!

The child endlessly complains about the mother, her family, and the new man's family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The selfish one is her xH who was chasing after other women.

She was smart to leave. Men like that rarely change and marriage counseling often doesn't work. Better than wasting years of her life, only to divorce when her child is older and will struggle more with it.

There weren't other women. He wasn't chasing after anyone. The woman sent flirty texts and it was one woman. It was his bad for responding to them.

The child is struggling with it now and very distant from the mom because of it. The mom gives the child the cold shoulder when the child upsets her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Stop making things up, BranDUH.

I see your immature ass is back. You're reported again.