S/o: Men, is chivalry dead?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No, I will not stop on the side of the freeway to help. Good way to get #metooed.

I will open the door, or let a woman go ahead of me in line.

LOL! I respect the gravity of the me2 environment; I’ve got my own example. However, not all men are this way, and not all women think a man being friendly or courteous is a come on.

Male kindness is so alien to us, we assume it is seduction every time.

This is why if you are a man do not stop to help if you see a woman stopped on the freeway. There is a percentage of women think the man is going to rape, rob or harm them. My mom is like this. She will also give a good talking to to a man who opens a door for her.

I love how the male response to women saying “we deal with harassment on such a frequent basis that we now expect it” is “fine! We won’t help at all!” rather than “wow maybe we should stop harassing women”

Do better, guys.

One bad guy can harass 1,000 women. That doesn't mean the other 999 men are doing it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, I will not stop on the side of the freeway to help. Good way to get #metooed.

I will open the door, or let a woman go ahead of me in line.

LOL! I respect the gravity of the me2 environment; I’ve got my own example. However, not all men are this way, and not all women think a man being friendly or courteous is a come on.

Male kindness is so alien to us, we assume it is seduction every time.

This is why if you are a man do not stop to help if you see a woman stopped on the freeway. There is a percentage of women think the man is going to rape, rob or harm them. My mom is like this. She will also give a good talking to to a man who opens a door for her.

I love how the male response to women saying “we deal with harassment on such a frequent basis that we now expect it” is “fine! We won’t help at all!” rather than “wow maybe we should stop harassing women”

Do better, guys.

One bad guy can harass 1,000 women. That doesn't mean the other 999 men are doing it.

Over 80% of women are sexually harassed in their life. It’s not just one dude doing it all.

When a large percentage of the men you interact with harass you, yes, you’re going to be weary of men.

The correct response is still “guys we need to stop harassing women”. Not false statistics about how only 1 in 1000 men harass women.