Men who leave their wife for younger women

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Anonymous wrote:Another thread where everyone spews vitriol at the OW while the cheating husband escapes unscathed. How original.

I mean, they're both scummy. But it's much easier to be angry at a stranger than it is at your long-term spouse, no? Human nature.

(Disclaimer: I'm not an AP or a scorned wife, have not been divorced, and do not come from a divorced home).

True. But it still reflects poorly on ex-wife if you can’t move on and come on anonymous boards and call strangers a ho and whore for ??? Unhinged

I don't believe in slut-shaming in general and would never use those words towards anyone (I'm not the PP who used them, obvi). But to me the long-lasting anger towards the OW seems understandable.

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Anonymous wrote:Ron Perlman left his wife his wife of 38 years for a woman near his children's age. I'm wondering how common this is (probably not this large an age gap)? In examples, what was the aftermath like for the man, woman, and children?

They were in an open relationship for ages, which IMO is not the best.

True, it only lasted for 38 years. What a failure.

Yes. A 38-year marriage and he sprung this on her. He’s 70 now. She’s having mental health issues after finding out which those who have had this happen will tell you are very real and no f-in joke: anxiety, loss of sleep, startling, racing heart/angina, depression, loss of appetite, flashbacks.

People are pieces of shit that do this.

Why?? She had a ton of money and can live her life however she wants. Sounds a whole lot better than being with a husband that feel out of love with you but is sticking around because he feels obligated to. He has a right to live his life as he wants and so does she. And she has the funds to actually do it

Well, gee, I don’t know. There is thus crazy thing called unconditional trust and love in a marriage of 38 years. Being blindsided when your husband turns 70 and picks up a Ho has got to do a complete mind f@ck on you. Many women don’t start marriage as a business/financial opportunity. Very hard for gold digging hos to understand.

There's a lot of elder abuse with this kind of thing. It's another type of scam that is hard to prove, but sounds like he was a victim. If his judgement was starting to get bad think about a lawsuit and getting him medically checked out. There was one guy that was near 80 who was being scammed, wife sued her in court and got a restraining order. She also got POA on him. All depends on your situation.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Another thread where everyone spews vitriol at the OW while the cheating husband escapes unscathed. How original.

I mean, they're both scummy. But it's much easier to be angry at a stranger than it is at your long-term spouse, no? Human nature.

(Disclaimer: I'm not an AP or a scorned wife, have not been divorced, and do not come from a divorced home).

True. But it still reflects poorly on ex-wife if you can’t move on and come on anonymous boards and call strangers a ho and whore for ??? Unhinged

I don't believe in slut-shaming in general and would never use those words towards anyone (I'm not the PP who used them, obvi). But to me the long-lasting anger towards the OW seems understandable.

Not me. OW didn't choose to marry you. She never deceived you. You have no idea how much time and effort your husband put into reeling her in. And yet, so many of you scorned old wives are willing and able to forgive your scummy DH and vilify the OW. You don't even know the full picture!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Another thread where everyone spews vitriol at the OW while the cheating husband escapes unscathed. How original.

I mean, they're both scummy. But it's much easier to be angry at a stranger than it is at your long-term spouse, no? Human nature.

(Disclaimer: I'm not an AP or a scorned wife, have not been divorced, and do not come from a divorced home).

True. But it still reflects poorly on ex-wife if you can’t move on and come on anonymous boards and call strangers a ho and whore for ??? Unhinged

I don't believe in slut-shaming in general and would never use those words towards anyone (I'm not the PP who used them, obvi). But to me the long-lasting anger towards the OW seems understandable.

Not me. OW didn't choose to marry you. She never deceived you. You have no idea how much time and effort your husband put into reeling her in. And yet, so many of you scorned old wives are willing and able to forgive your scummy DH and vilify the OW. You don't even know the full picture!

Anyone that interjects themselves in a marriage is 50% responsible for it's demise. My DH would never be forgiven, but that OW has automatically invited me into her life as well. Those consequences she won't like. I don't understand women that forgive their DH, or maybe they pretend to for the kids. Hard to say.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Another thread where everyone spews vitriol at the OW while the cheating husband escapes unscathed. How original.

I mean, they're both scummy. But it's much easier to be angry at a stranger than it is at your long-term spouse, no? Human nature.

(Disclaimer: I'm not an AP or a scorned wife, have not been divorced, and do not come from a divorced home).

True. But it still reflects poorly on ex-wife if you can’t move on and come on anonymous boards and call strangers a ho and whore for ??? Unhinged

I don't believe in slut-shaming in general and would never use those words towards anyone (I'm not the PP who used them, obvi). But to me the long-lasting anger towards the OW seems understandable.

Not me. OW didn't choose to marry you. She never deceived you. You have no idea how much time and effort your husband put into reeling her in. And yet, so many of you scorned old wives are willing and able to forgive your scummy DH and vilify the OW. You don't even know the full picture!

Anyone that interjects themselves in a marriage is 50% responsible for it's demise. My DH would never be forgiven, but that OW has automatically invited me into her life as well. Those consequences she won't like. I don't understand women that forgive their DH, or maybe they pretend to for the kids. Hard to say.

A majority of the time they are married themselves. POS. Pathetic. The whole lot of them.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Another thread where everyone spews vitriol at the OW while the cheating husband escapes unscathed. How original.

I mean, they're both scummy. But it's much easier to be angry at a stranger than it is at your long-term spouse, no? Human nature.

(Disclaimer: I'm not an AP or a scorned wife, have not been divorced, and do not come from a divorced home).

True. But it still reflects poorly on ex-wife if you can’t move on and come on anonymous boards and call strangers a ho and whore for ??? Unhinged

Why? When you date married people or cheat you put yourself into that category. And deserve the terms for that behavior. Not that pp, but you're wrong in attacking the person appropriately labeling one of the cheaters.

+100

The wife wasn't a cheater. Nothing reflects poorly on her. She wasn't out lying and screwing behind her spouse's back. She can hate whomever she chooses. And, as another pointed out, so much of the time the OW/OM was married too. So they are screwing up two sets of kids, two families with their nastiness.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Another thread where everyone spews vitriol at the OW while the cheating husband escapes unscathed. How original.

I mean, they're both scummy. But it's much easier to be angry at a stranger than it is at your long-term spouse, no? Human nature.

(Disclaimer: I'm not an AP or a scorned wife, have not been divorced, and do not come from a divorced home).

True. But it still reflects poorly on ex-wife if you can’t move on and come on anonymous boards and call strangers a ho and whore for ??? Unhinged

I don't believe in slut-shaming in general and would never use those words towards anyone (I'm not the PP who used them, obvi). But to me the long-lasting anger towards the OW seems understandable.

Not me. OW didn't choose to marry you. She never deceived you. You have no idea how much time and effort your husband put into reeling her in. And yet, so many of you scorned old wives are willing and able to forgive your scummy DH and vilify the OW. You don't even know the full picture!

Anyone that interjects themselves in a marriage is 50% responsible for it's demise. My DH would never be forgiven, but that OW has automatically invited me into her life as well. Those consequences she won't like. I don't understand women that forgive their DH, or maybe they pretend to for the kids. Hard to say.

Yes. There seems to be a real disconnect from posters that anyone that hates the OW has forgiven the husband or is still married to him. In this day and age, most people hate both POS. And, yeah, if you inject yourself into somebody's marriage, you will be hated. Are they supposed to pull out the china and invite you over for a cup of tea?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Another thread where everyone spews vitriol at the OW while the cheating husband escapes unscathed. How original.

I mean, they're both scummy. But it's much easier to be angry at a stranger than it is at your long-term spouse, no? Human nature.

(Disclaimer: I'm not an AP or a scorned wife, have not been divorced, and do not come from a divorced home).

True. But it still reflects poorly on ex-wife if you can’t move on and come on anonymous boards and call strangers a ho and whore for ??? Unhinged

I don't believe in slut-shaming in general and would never use those words towards anyone (I'm not the PP who used them, obvi). But to me the long-lasting anger towards the OW seems understandable.

Not me. OW didn't choose to marry you. She never deceived you. You have no idea how much time and effort your husband put into reeling her in. And yet, so many of you scorned old wives are willing and able to forgive your scummy DH and vilify the OW. You don't even know the full picture!

Anyone that interjects themselves in a marriage is 50% responsible for it's demise. My DH would never be forgiven, but that OW has automatically invited me into her life as well. Those consequences she won't like. I don't understand women that forgive their DH, or maybe they pretend to for the kids. Hard to say.

Yes. There seems to be a real disconnect from posters that anyone that hates the OW has forgiven the husband or is still married to him. In this day and age, most people hate both POS. And, yeah, if you inject yourself into somebody's marriage, you will be hated. Are they supposed to pull out the china and invite you over for a cup of tea?

And when the OW/former OW won't stop internet stalking you, viewing your profiles, and keeping tabs on you even after you dumped him, it is some crazy stuff.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Another thread where everyone spews vitriol at the OW while the cheating husband escapes unscathed. How original.

I mean, they're both scummy. But it's much easier to be angry at a stranger than it is at your long-term spouse, no? Human nature.

(Disclaimer: I'm not an AP or a scorned wife, have not been divorced, and do not come from a divorced home).

True. But it still reflects poorly on ex-wife if you can’t move on and come on anonymous boards and call strangers a ho and whore for ??? Unhinged

I don't believe in slut-shaming in general and would never use those words towards anyone (I'm not the PP who used them, obvi). But to me the long-lasting anger towards the OW seems understandable.

Not me. OW didn't choose to marry you. She never deceived you. You have no idea how much time and effort your husband put into reeling her in. And yet, so many of you scorned old wives are willing and able to forgive your scummy DH and vilify the OW. You don't even know the full picture!

Anyone that interjects themselves in a marriage is 50% responsible for it's demise. My DH would never be forgiven, but that OW has automatically invited me into her life as well. Those consequences she won't like. I don't understand women that forgive their DH, or maybe they pretend to for the kids. Hard to say.

Yes. There seems to be a real disconnect from posters that anyone that hates the OW has forgiven the husband or is still married to him. In this day and age, most people hate both POS. And, yeah, if you inject yourself into somebody's marriage, you will be hated. Are they supposed to pull out the china and invite you over for a cup of tea?

And when the OW/former OW won't stop internet stalking you, viewing your profiles, and keeping tabs on you even after you dumped him, it is some crazy stuff.

The OW always stalk the wives. The unsuspecting wife has some woman looking up everything about her. Mine knew my friends, our friends, my family, pets, kids, etc. They keep a file. They also try to use it to position themselves. I find it amusing when they post on here like they are 'sane'. STBX's got freaked out when she started accusing him of having affairs with neighbors and other people she saw on social media. He got spooked when he realized how much she was stalking him too.

[Anonymous]

^+1 As a very private person, I felt completely violated when I found out a psycho OW was keeping a dossier on me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^+1 As a very private person, I felt completely violated when I found out a psycho OW was keeping a dossier on me.

and it's not like you could have blocked them because you didn't even know they existed!!!!!!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Another thread where everyone spews vitriol at the OW while the cheating husband escapes unscathed. How original.

I mean, they're both scummy. But it's much easier to be angry at a stranger than it is at your long-term spouse, no? Human nature.

(Disclaimer: I'm not an AP or a scorned wife, have not been divorced, and do not come from a divorced home).

True. But it still reflects poorly on ex-wife if you can’t move on and come on anonymous boards and call strangers a ho and whore for ??? Unhinged

Why? When you date married people or cheat you put yourself into that category. And deserve the terms for that behavior. Not that pp, but you're wrong in attacking the person appropriately labeling one of the cheaters.

+100

The wife wasn't a cheater. Nothing reflects poorly on her. She wasn't out lying and screwing behind her spouse's back. She can hate whomever she chooses. And, as another pointed out, so much of the time the OW/OM was married too. So they are screwing up two sets of kids, two families with their nastiness.

OW doesn’t know you and doesn’t care about your happiness. Why would she? She didn’t make any promises to you, spend half a life with you, make children with you. Your anger is misdirected. Be mad at your husband. If not this other woman, it would have been a different. He would have found someone. Maybe she is married to someone too, maybe not, doesn’t make in a different in the outcome the affair has on your marriage. The vitriol toward the ow is misdirected.
- Im not anyone’s “other woman” and never have been

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Another thread where everyone spews vitriol at the OW while the cheating husband escapes unscathed. How original.

I mean, they're both scummy. But it's much easier to be angry at a stranger than it is at your long-term spouse, no? Human nature.

(Disclaimer: I'm not an AP or a scorned wife, have not been divorced, and do not come from a divorced home).

True. But it still reflects poorly on ex-wife if you can’t move on and come on anonymous boards and call strangers a ho and whore for ??? Unhinged

Why? When you date married people or cheat you put yourself into that category. And deserve the terms for that behavior. Not that pp, but you're wrong in attacking the person appropriately labeling one of the cheaters.

+100

The wife wasn't a cheater. Nothing reflects poorly on her. She wasn't out lying and screwing behind her spouse's back. She can hate whomever she chooses. And, as another pointed out, so much of the time the OW/OM was married too. So they are screwing up two sets of kids, two families with their nastiness.

OW doesn’t know you and doesn’t care about your happiness. Why would she? She didn’t make any promises to you, spend half a life with you, make children with you. Your anger is misdirected. Be mad at your husband. If not this other woman, it would have been a different. He would have found someone. Maybe she is married to someone too, maybe not, doesn’t make in a different in the outcome the affair has on your marriage. The vitriol toward the ow is misdirected.
- Im not anyone’s “other woman” and never have been

She sure knew a helluva lot about me because she spent the time her husband was at work trolling my social media, googling me. She also was looking up my friends/our friends and even my exercise/personal trainer. Some sick beatches.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Another thread where everyone spews vitriol at the OW while the cheating husband escapes unscathed. How original.

I mean, they're both scummy. But it's much easier to be angry at a stranger than it is at your long-term spouse, no? Human nature.

(Disclaimer: I'm not an AP or a scorned wife, have not been divorced, and do not come from a divorced home).

True. But it still reflects poorly on ex-wife if you can’t move on and come on anonymous boards and call strangers a ho and whore for ??? Unhinged

Why? When you date married people or cheat you put yourself into that category. And deserve the terms for that behavior. Not that pp, but you're wrong in attacking the person appropriately labeling one of the cheaters.

+100

The wife wasn't a cheater. Nothing reflects poorly on her. She wasn't out lying and screwing behind her spouse's back. She can hate whomever she chooses. And, as another pointed out, so much of the time the OW/OM was married too. So they are screwing up two sets of kids, two families with their nastiness.

This. They aren't innocent. They know what they are doing and are actively looking to harm another woman. If not, why are they spending so much time so concerned about the wife? Jealous and angry of the wife. Bless their little tramp hearts.

OW doesn’t know you and doesn’t care about your happiness. Why would she? She didn’t make any promises to you, spend half a life with you, make children with you. Your anger is misdirected. Be mad at your husband. If not this other woman, it would have been a different. He would have found someone. Maybe she is married to someone too, maybe not, doesn’t make in a different in the outcome the affair has on your marriage. The vitriol toward the ow is misdirected.
- Im not anyone’s “other woman” and never have been

She sure knew a helluva lot about me because she spent the time her husband was at work trolling my social media, googling me. She also was looking up my friends/our friends and even my exercise/personal trainer. Some sick beatches.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Another thread where everyone spews vitriol at the OW while the cheating husband escapes unscathed. How original.

I mean, they're both scummy. But it's much easier to be angry at a stranger than it is at your long-term spouse, no? Human nature.

(Disclaimer: I'm not an AP or a scorned wife, have not been divorced, and do not come from a divorced home).

True. But it still reflects poorly on ex-wife if you can’t move on and come on anonymous boards and call strangers a ho and whore for ??? Unhinged

Why? When you date married people or cheat you put yourself into that category. And deserve the terms for that behavior. Not that pp, but you're wrong in attacking the person appropriately labeling one of the cheaters.

+100

The wife wasn't a cheater. Nothing reflects poorly on her. She wasn't out lying and screwing behind her spouse's back. She can hate whomever she chooses. And, as another pointed out, so much of the time the OW/OM was married too. So they are screwing up two sets of kids, two families with their nastiness.

OW doesn’t know you and doesn’t care about your happiness. Why would she? She didn’t make any promises to you, spend half a life with you, make children with you. Your anger is misdirected. Be mad at your husband. If not this other woman, it would have been a different. He would have found someone. Maybe she is married to someone too, maybe not, doesn’t make in a different in the outcome the affair has on your marriage. The vitriol toward the ow is misdirected.
- Im not anyone’s “other woman” and never have been

She sure knew a helluva lot about me because she spent the time her husband was at work trolling my social media, googling me. She also was looking up my friends/our friends and even my exercise/personal trainer. Some sick beatches.

This. They aren't innocent. They know what they are doing and are actively looking to harm another woman. If not, why are they spending so much time so concerned about the wife? Jealous and angry of the wife. Bless their little tramp hearts.