Men who leave their wife for younger women

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Anonymous wrote:My husband left me for a woman 10 years younger. She is very close to a younger version of myself. Bizarre. Anyway, my kids were/are devastated. I'm fine.

How is that bizarre? It sounds like he treats women like possessions and wanted a newer version of his toy. It's pretty common when you look at younger 2nd wives.

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Anonymous wrote:My sister married her law school professor - when they first met he was married with three kids. Ages of those kids - basically they were 5-10 yrs younger. She was early 30s he was early 50s. Ex wife was “crazy” - of course. Nobody really likes to talk about timeline when they started dating. I have no real relationship with either of them. Ironically they are big time Catholic and I found it hilarious when they couldn’t have a church wedding.

What is it with law school?

One law school classmate of mine became involved with a senior partner at her firm. He left his family for her and apparently the kids showed up at the firm and a screaming match ensued. The kicker is that she had spent our last year of law school planning this huge wedding to a guy that was a year ahead of us in law school. I barely knew her but she talked about the wedding so much that even I heard the story about how she got too skinny for her wedding dress ( ) and told the alterations person that she "didn't go to Ab Lab three times a week to have padding in her wedding dress."

Another classmate that I was friends with got together with her married boss. Similar to your sister, the wife was "crazy" and the "marriage had been over for years." This was, of course, news to the wife and kids. The thing that blew me away was my friend seemed wholly clueless that she was essentially a homewrecker.

I find this last part funny - and I hope your sister isn't married to my cousin's first husband! (I don't think he was a lawyer though). He was a college professor and was having an affair. They moved across the country for a fresh start, but guess who showed up? So my cousin divorced him. He came to her looking for help in annulling their marriage and she told him to take a hike.

Law is the biggest slimeball profession. This surprises you?

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Anonymous wrote:My sister married her law school professor - when they first met he was married with three kids. Ages of those kids - basically they were 5-10 yrs younger. She was early 30s he was early 50s. Ex wife was “crazy” - of course. Nobody really likes to talk about timeline when they started dating. I have no real relationship with either of them. Ironically they are big time Catholic and I found it hilarious when they couldn’t have a church wedding.

LOL my dad and his second wife regularly lie about how long they've been married because my 1/2 sibling was conceived before my dad and my mom divorced.

President Biden was sleeping with Dr. Jill before she was divorced, so it must be okay.

At least Jill was not a mother and Joe was a widow. But, yes, we can never be held accountable for own actions. If everyone else is doing it, then it's okay...is that what you tell your children about drugs, driving drunk, cheating on their boyfriends/girlfriends?

I think Trump was pretty much a study of what not to do, including his mistresses and multiple marriages.

So it's okay for the Bidens to be cheaters, then? Because they're democrats? Got it.

Except the Bidens both deny this and it's coming from her ex-husband whose been convicted of federal fraud charges and passing bad checks. He claimed to be writing a book that somehow has never come out...

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Anonymous wrote:My dad left my mom 3 years ago for a much younger woman after 35 years of marriage. I honestly felt that mom was better off without him. I don't think mom would have ever left. Mom was devastated but accepted the divorce when dad would not stop seeing his OW.

Mom wanted to keep everything civil and dad tried to take advantage of this by offering her a settlement that was a joke. Long story short my brother got mom a new lawyer and got mom a huge settlement and she is set for life.

We have never met the OW and she is banned from all family functions. That has caused huge problems in their relationship but that is not our problem.

Set for life off of someone else's labor. No wonder he divorced her.

Dad is that you?

Right? What an ass. After 35 yrs. of marriage, this woman has definitely earned that money (and likely more for putting up with shit for many years).

Yes, because men never have to put up with shit from their wives for 35 years.

Was anyone suggesting men walk away penniless?

Funny, how you expect women to do that but men should keep all the money earned in the marriage... mysoginist much?

Try this out: men keep the money they earned, women keep the money they earned. Men keep the houses and cars and yards they bought, repaired, renovated, and maintained. Women keep the houses and cars and yards they bought, repaired, renovated, and maintained.

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Anonymous wrote:My sister married her law school professor - when they first met he was married with three kids. Ages of those kids - basically they were 5-10 yrs younger. She was early 30s he was early 50s. Ex wife was “crazy” - of course. Nobody really likes to talk about timeline when they started dating. I have no real relationship with either of them. Ironically they are big time Catholic and I found it hilarious when they couldn’t have a church wedding.

LOL my dad and his second wife regularly lie about how long they've been married because my 1/2 sibling was conceived before my dad and my mom divorced.

President Biden was sleeping with Dr. Jill before she was divorced, so it must be okay.

At least Jill was not a mother and Joe was a widow. But, yes, we can never be held accountable for own actions. If everyone else is doing it, then it's okay...is that what you tell your children about drugs, driving drunk, cheating on their boyfriends/girlfriends?

I think Trump was pretty much a study of what not to do, including his mistresses and multiple marriages.

So it's okay for the Bidens to be cheaters, then? Because they're democrats? Got it.

Except the Bidens both deny this and it's coming from her ex-husband whose been convicted of federal fraud charges and passing bad checks. He claimed to be writing a book that somehow has never come out...

I'm supposed to take the word of a guy who plagiarized his way through law school?

[Anonymous]

So we are trying to justify f-ing people outside our marriages because the last few Presidents did? Really?

Try to be a better person. Don’t lie and deceive. Have some morals and some balls and leave before it gets to that, or perhaps have dialog that you are that tempted to do it before causing irreparable damage to an innocent person’s mental health and well being.

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I plan to soon. DW of 10 years will not be intimate with me anymore and really has no reason. I work, I help cook, clean and take care of our child. I try and talk to her but seem to never do anything right. My next significant other world be younger for sure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So we are trying to justify f-ing people outside our marriages because the last few Presidents did? Really?

Try to be a better person. Don’t lie and deceive. Have some morals and some balls and leave before it gets to that, or perhaps have dialog that you are that tempted to do it before causing irreparable damage to an innocent person’s mental health and well being.

Actually, I think it’s every President except Jimmy Carter. And maybe Nixon—Nixon clearly had no game and was really lucky to get Pat. But your point is well taken.

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I’ve been trying to get my husband to leave me for a younger woman for years. He’d be so much happier! But then if he has any interest in being happy, our marriage wouldn’t be where it is.

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Anonymous wrote:Another thread where everyone spews vitriol at the OW while the cheating husband escapes unscathed. How original.

I mean, they're both scummy. But it's much easier to be angry at a stranger than it is at your long-term spouse, no? Human nature.

(Disclaimer: I'm not an AP or a scorned wife, have not been divorced, and do not come from a divorced home).

True. But it still reflects poorly on ex-wife if you can’t move on and come on anonymous boards and call strangers a ho and whore for ??? Unhinged

I don't believe in slut-shaming in general and would never use those words towards anyone (I'm not the PP who used them, obvi). But to me the long-lasting anger towards the OW seems understandable.

Not me. OW didn't choose to marry you. She never deceived you. You have no idea how much time and effort your husband put into reeling her in. And yet, so many of you scorned old wives are willing and able to forgive your scummy DH and vilify the OW. You don't even know the full picture!

Anyone that interjects themselves in a marriage is 50% responsible for it's demise. My DH would never be forgiven, but that OW has automatically invited me into her life as well. Those consequences she won't like. I don't understand women that forgive their DH, or maybe they pretend to for the kids. Hard to say.

Yes. There seems to be a real disconnect from posters that anyone that hates the OW has forgiven the husband or is still married to him. In this day and age, most people hate both POS. And, yeah, if you inject yourself into somebody's marriage, you will be hated. Are they supposed to pull out the china and invite you over for a cup of tea?

And when the OW/former OW won't stop internet stalking you, viewing your profiles, and keeping tabs on you even after you dumped him, it is some crazy stuff.

The OW always stalk the wives. The unsuspecting wife has some woman looking up everything about her. Mine knew my friends, our friends, my family, pets, kids, etc. They keep a file. They also try to use it to position themselves. I find it amusing when they post on here like they are 'sane'. STBX's got freaked out when she started accusing him of having affairs with neighbors and other people she saw on social media. He got spooked when he realized how much she was stalking him too.

A file? How do you know someone is still keeping tabs on you after your stbx dumped her? This makes no sense

[Anonymous]

Some men are terrible cheaters they get so caught up in their Aps they don't realize their own wife has been cheating for years. Until they see her name pop up in the Ashley Madison leak LOL!

My mother walked up to a cashier in burger king who looked like my step fathers type. I wouldn't believe it if I hadn't of been there. She said " you look very familiar are you dating an older guy named Larlo?" The girl started blushing, giggling and said yes. My mother villified him to anyone who would listen. Meanwhile she had several affairs that he has no clue about 30 years later. He has spent years apologizing and trying to make it up to her. They live in the deep south. After his affair was discovered he stood up in church and apologized. Meanwhile she was dating an alcoholic who had to blow in a tube in his car every few miles or a horn would go off.

Trash all around.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve been trying to get my husband to leave me for a younger woman for years. He’d be so much happier! But then if he has any interest in being happy, our marriage wouldn’t be where it is.

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[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So we are trying to justify f-ing people outside our marriages because the last few Presidents did? Really?

Try to be a better person. Don’t lie and deceive. Have some morals and some balls and leave before it gets to that, or perhaps have dialog that you are that tempted to do it before causing irreparable damage to an innocent person’s mental health and well being.

Actually, I think it’s every President except Jimmy Carter. And maybe Nixon—Nixon clearly had no game and was really lucky to get Pat. But your point is well taken.

The personality trait of CEOs and Presidents is narcissism. It’s why there is so much cheating in those populations—throw in actors too—nothing more narcissistic than that.

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Anonymous wrote:So we are trying to justify f-ing people outside our marriages because the last few Presidents did? Really?

Try to be a better person. Don’t lie and deceive. Have some morals and some balls and leave before it gets to that, or perhaps have dialog that you are that tempted to do it before causing irreparable damage to an innocent person’s mental health and well being.

Actually, I think it’s every President except Jimmy Carter. And maybe Nixon—Nixon clearly had no game and was really lucky to get Pat. But your point is well taken.

The personality trait of CEOs and Presidents is narcissism. It’s why there is so much cheating in those populations—throw in actors too—nothing more narcissistic than that.

Add surgeons to that list. God complexes.

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Anonymous wrote:My sister married her law school professor - when they first met he was married with three kids. Ages of those kids - basically they were 5-10 yrs younger. She was early 30s he was early 50s. Ex wife was “crazy” - of course. Nobody really likes to talk about timeline when they started dating. I have no real relationship with either of them. Ironically they are big time Catholic and I found it hilarious when they couldn’t have a church wedding.

LOL my dad and his second wife regularly lie about how long they've been married because my 1/2 sibling was conceived before my dad and my mom divorced.

President Biden was sleeping with Dr. Jill before she was divorced, so it must be okay.

At least Jill was not a mother and Joe was a widow. But, yes, we can never be held accountable for own actions. If everyone else is doing it, then it's okay...is that what you tell your children about drugs, driving drunk, cheating on their boyfriends/girlfriends?

I think Trump was pretty much a study of what not to do, including his mistresses and multiple marriages.

So it's okay for the Bidens to be cheaters, then? Because they're democrats? Got it.

Except the Bidens both deny this and it's coming from her ex-husband whose been convicted of federal fraud charges and passing bad checks. He claimed to be writing a book that somehow has never come out...

I'm supposed to take the word of a guy who plagiarized his way through law school?

NP. I went to a T14 law school...how exactly do you plagiarize your way through? A lot of my exams were open book and timed. You are scored on your ability to correctly apply the law to a novel fact pattern.