Women dating in their late 40s and 50s:Standards for a NSA.

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Anonymous wrote:I am a divorced mid-50s man, 6'4", athletic, PhD, GS-15, with a family trust. I much prefer dating women who are in their 20s. My current girlfriend is in her mid-20s. I doubt I would ever have an NSA with a woman in her 50s. They aren't attractive enough, and they also don't have a sex drive.

What a catch you are.

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Anonymous wrote:I am a divorced mid-50s man, 6'4", athletic, PhD, GS-15, with a family trust. I much prefer dating women who are in their 20s. My current girlfriend is in her mid-20s. I doubt I would ever have an NSA with a woman in her 50s. They aren't attractive enough, and they also don't have a sex drive.

Her parents must be so proud. And I bet your kids love her! If you're not already, you should definitely make very clear to her how deeply unappealing she will be as she ages. That'll keep her on her toes.

I would find it very sad if my daughter dated such an old man. I would actually feel like I had failed as a parent

I have a mid-60s friend who has three daughters. They are all in their 30s, and successful. As they complained about "no good men" he told them, why not look for older men? One of them did get married to a guy who is in his 50s.

That is a cautionary tale, if anything. No parents want their 20-something sweetheart coming home with a 50+ man. He's a half-step away from erectile dysfunction and pulling along a wagon-load of baggage.

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Anonymous wrote:I am a divorced mid-50s man, 6'4", athletic, PhD, GS-15, with a family trust. I much prefer dating women who are in their 20s. My current girlfriend is in her mid-20s. I doubt I would ever have an NSA with a woman in her 50s. They aren't attractive enough, and they also don't have a sex drive.

Her parents must be so proud. And I bet your kids love her! If you're not already, you should definitely make very clear to her how deeply unappealing she will be as she ages. That'll keep her on her toes.

I would find it very sad if my daughter dated such an old man. I would actually feel like I had failed as a parent

I have a mid-60s friend who has three daughters. They are all in their 30s, and successful. As they complained about "no good men" he told them, why not look for older men? One of them did get married to a guy who is in his 50s.

That is a cautionary tale, if anything. No parents want their 20-something sweetheart coming home with a 50+ man. He's a half-step away from erectile dysfunction and pulling along a wagon-load of baggage.

Right? Like a parent would agree there’s no good men so choose an older man with MORE baggage? Nah.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a divorced mid-50s man, 6'4", athletic, PhD, GS-15, with a family trust. I much prefer dating women who are in their 20s. My current girlfriend is in her mid-20s. I doubt I would ever have an NSA with a woman in her 50s. They aren't attractive enough, and they also don't have a sex drive.

You are an idiot. There are lots of 40 and 50
something women who are considerably more attractive than many 20 somethings. The millenial generation is overall pretty meh in the looks department.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The hot guys you are describing are dating a 20 or 30 something young women . You are gonna have to deal with dad bod, balding and short on cash because of child support payments

Here we ago with the balding insult. Yes, it's me, the balding guy who always criticizes these comments. I don't have a dad bod and I'm not short on cash. Obectively, I'm funny and a good conversationalist. So why is balding always used as a personal slur? It's hereditary. If anything, shows I have plenty of testosterone.

I’m 40 & dating- in shape, educated etc... I gravitate towards bald men! As long as you embrace it. Either a shaved head or the remaining hair is short and well groomed, no combovers or constantly wearing a baseball cap whenever possible. I’m surprised it’s an issue for some women.

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Anonymous wrote:I am a divorced mid-50s man, 6'4", athletic, PhD, GS-15, with a family trust. I much prefer dating women who are in their 20s. My current girlfriend is in her mid-20s. I doubt I would ever have an NSA with a woman in her 50s. They aren't attractive enough, and they also don't have a sex drive.

You are an idiot. There are lots of 40 and 50
something women who are considerably more attractive than many 20 somethings. The millenial generation is overall pretty meh in the looks department.

I mean, let’s be honest here. Even the hottest 50 year old in the world will never be chosen over a 20 something based on looks unless the young woman is morbidly obese or something. We lose that freshness and tight skin/body that comes only with youth and that no money can buy. Some of us fight it and some embrace it.

Luckily, being female, we can always get laid. Even my 75 year old aunt had no trouble finding a boyfriend once widowed. Nursing homes are rampant with hookups!

So why date an aging woman? Some guys don’t want a woman they have to buy. And let’s be honest here, if this mid 50s dude were making 40k, the 20-something hottie would never even look in his direction no matter how good he thinks he looks. And no matter how much money he has, once he’s in his 60s, a 20 something will never look his way again.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am a divorced mid-50s man, 6'4", athletic, PhD, GS-15, with a family trust. I much prefer dating women who are in their 20s. My current girlfriend is in her mid-20s. I doubt I would ever have an NSA with a woman in her 50s. They aren't attractive enough, and they also don't have a sex drive.

You are an idiot. There are lots of 40 and 50
something women who are considerably more attractive than many 20 somethings. The millenial generation is overall pretty meh in the looks department.

Hey, if you consider millennial women meh in looks, you shouldn’t try to date millennial women. They look pretty fine to me and to lots of other men.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am a divorced mid-50s man, 6'4", athletic, PhD, GS-15, with a family trust. I much prefer dating women who are in their 20s. My current girlfriend is in her mid-20s. I doubt I would ever have an NSA with a woman in her 50s. They aren't attractive enough, and they also don't have a sex drive.

You are an idiot. There are lots of 40 and 50
something women who are considerably more attractive than many 20 somethings. The millenial generation is overall pretty meh in the looks department.

Hey, if you consider millennial women meh in looks, you shouldn’t try to date millennial women. They look pretty fine to me and to lots of other men.

Millennials are too basic. Everyone tries to copy celebrities on Instagram.

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Anonymous wrote:I am a divorced mid-50s man, 6'4", athletic, PhD, GS-15, with a family trust. I much prefer dating women who are in their 20s. My current girlfriend is in her mid-20s. I doubt I would ever have an NSA with a woman in her 50s. They aren't attractive enough, and they also don't have a sex drive.

You are an idiot. There are lots of 40 and 50
something women who are considerably more attractive than many 20 somethings. The millenial generation is overall pretty meh in the looks department.

Hey, if you consider millennial women meh in looks, you shouldn’t try to date millennial women. They look pretty fine to me and to lots of other men.

Millennials are too basic. Everyone tries to copy celebrities on Instagram.

Late 40’s guy here. I work for a company with a massive college hire program. I interact with millennials on a daily basis (less so since the world ended in March) and I can tell you that the ones I’ve met are highly driven, outstanding people and they give me hope for the future. If your only exposure to young people is the stuff you see from the internet then you may be misinformed.

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Anonymous wrote:I am a divorced mid-50s man, 6'4", athletic, PhD, GS-15, with a family trust. I much prefer dating women who are in their 20s. My current girlfriend is in her mid-20s. I doubt I would ever have an NSA with a woman in her 50s. They aren't attractive enough, and they also don't have a sex drive.

You are an idiot. There are lots of 40 and 50
something women who are considerably more attractive than many 20 somethings. The millenial generation is overall pretty meh in the looks department.

Hey, if you consider millennial women meh in looks, you shouldn’t try to date millennial women. They look pretty fine to me and to lots of other men.

Millennials are too basic. Everyone tries to copy celebrities on Instagram.

Late 40’s guy here. I work for a company with a massive college hire program. I interact with millennials on a daily basis (less so since the world ended in March) and I can tell you that the ones I’ve met are highly driven, outstanding people and they give me hope for the future. If your only exposure to young people is the stuff you see from the internet then you may be misinformed.

Sure. If your only exposure to young people is blowies in cars after a nice steak, or 8 hour sex fests with people you have met for all of 20 min, ever, you may likewise be ill informed. That's all most are saying, I believe.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am a divorced mid-50s man, 6'4", athletic, PhD, GS-15, with a family trust. I much prefer dating women who are in their 20s. My current girlfriend is in her mid-20s. I doubt I would ever have an NSA with a woman in her 50s. They aren't attractive enough, and they also don't have a sex drive.

You are an idiot. There are lots of 40 and 50
something women who are considerably more attractive than many 20 somethings. The millenial generation is overall pretty meh in the looks department.

Hey, if you consider millennial women meh in looks, you shouldn’t try to date millennial women. They look pretty fine to me and to lots of other men.

Millennials are too basic. Everyone tries to copy celebrities on Instagram.

Late 40’s guy here. I work for a company with a massive college hire program. I interact with millennials on a daily basis (less so since the world ended in March) and I can tell you that the ones I’ve met are highly driven, outstanding people and they give me hope for the future. If your only exposure to young people is the stuff you see from the internet then you may be misinformed.

Sure. If your only exposure to young people is blowies in cars after a nice steak, or 8 hour sex fests with people you have met for all of 20 min, ever, you may likewise be ill informed. That's all most are saying, I believe.

I don’t see how this is negative.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am a divorced mid-50s man, 6'4", athletic, PhD, GS-15, with a family trust. I much prefer dating women who are in their 20s. My current girlfriend is in her mid-20s. I doubt I would ever have an NSA with a woman in her 50s. They aren't attractive enough, and they also don't have a sex drive.

You are an idiot. There are lots of 40 and 50
something women who are considerably more attractive than many 20 somethings. The millenial generation is overall pretty meh in the looks department.

Hey, if you consider millennial women meh in looks, you shouldn’t try to date millennial women. They look pretty fine to me and to lots of other men.

Millennials are too basic. Everyone tries to copy celebrities on Instagram.

Late 40’s guy here. I work for a company with a massive college hire program. I interact with millennials on a daily basis (less so since the world ended in March) and I can tell you that the ones I’ve met are highly driven, outstanding people and they give me hope for the future. If your only exposure to young people is the stuff you see from the internet then you may be misinformed.

Sure. If your only exposure to young people is blowies in cars after a nice steak, or 8 hour sex fests with people you have met for all of 20 min, ever, you may likewise be ill informed. That's all most are saying, I believe.

I don’t see how this is negative.

No? Then you likely are predatory, too.