Women dating in their late 40s and 50s:Standards for a NSA.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I fit your standards, OP, but date 20s.

LOL, sure you do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The hot guys you are describing are dating a 20 or 30 something young women . You are gonna have to deal with dad bod, balding and short on cash because of child support payments

Here we ago with the balding insult. Yes, it's me, the balding guy who always criticizes these comments. I don't have a dad bod and I'm not short on cash. Obectively, I'm funny and a good conversationalist. So why is balding always used as a personal slur? It's hereditary. If anything, shows I have plenty of testosterone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am pretty clear online that I am looking for a long-term relationship but many men online aren't. I get that and don't have a problem with it as long as a guy is upfront about it. I move on.

I have had a FWB relationship in the past but my standards are very different than those for a long-term relationship. It's funny reading some of the responses on the other thread from the over 50 men that want it every night. I have only ran across one guy that could keep up that kind of pace a at 50 and he was a crossfit champion.

So, for the other women who are dating in their late 40s and 50s, are you looking for something different in a NSA? For me, the guy has be in great shape, tall, sensual, and successful.

Then it is okay if he is a jerk?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The hot guys you are describing are dating a 20 or 30 something young women . You are gonna have to deal with dad bod, balding and short on cash because of child support payments

Here we ago with the balding insult. Yes, it's me, the balding guy who always criticizes these comments. I don't have a dad bod and I'm not short on cash. Obectively, I'm funny and a good conversationalist. So why is balding always used as a personal slur? It's hereditary. If anything, shows I have plenty of testosterone.

We love your bald sexy head, especially if you are in shape.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am pretty clear online that I am looking for a long-term relationship but many men online aren't. I get that and don't have a problem with it as long as a guy is upfront about it. I move on.

I have had a FWB relationship in the past but my standards are very different than those for a long-term relationship. It's funny reading some of the responses on the other thread from the over 50 men that want it every night. I have only ran across one guy that could keep up that kind of pace a at 50 and he was a crossfit champion.

So, for the other women who are dating in their late 40s and 50s, are you looking for something different in a NSA? For me, the guy has be in great shape, tall, sensual, and successful.

an NSA

I have only run

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The hot guys you are describing are dating a 20 or 30 something young women . You are gonna have to deal with dad bod, balding and short on cash because of child support payments

Here we ago with the balding insult. Yes, it's me, the balding guy who always criticizes these comments. I don't have a dad bod and I'm not short on cash. Obectively, I'm funny and a good conversationalist. So why is balding always used as a personal slur? It's hereditary. If anything, shows I have plenty of testosterone.

Who knows. As long as you are in good shape and dress well, good hygiene, balding isn’t as issue for most women.

[Anonymous]

I don't understand OP's question. Why on earth would someone have the same standards for an LTR and an NSA? If someone has the same standards for both, they're definitely failing at at least one of them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The hot guys you are describing are dating a 20 or 30 something young women . You are gonna have to deal with dad bod, balding and short on cash because of child support payments

Here we ago with the balding insult. Yes, it's me, the balding guy who always criticizes these comments. I don't have a dad bod and I'm not short on cash. Obectively, I'm funny and a good conversationalist. So why is balding always used as a personal slur? It's hereditary. If anything, shows I have plenty of testosterone.

I think your constant interruptions of threads whenever someone utters the word bald signals an insecurity over your lack of hair. That said lots of women don’t mind, so relax!

[Anonymous]

I dated online for over 15 years and one thing I learned was to lie and say that I was looking for a long-term relationship. My chances with women increased greatly when I lied. When I list myself is looking for something casual I didn't do nearly as well. Just beware of what people say.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I dated online for over 15 years and one thing I learned was to lie and say that I was looking for a long-term relationship. My chances with women increased greatly when I lied. When I list myself is looking for something casual I didn't do nearly as well. Just beware of what people say.

It doesn't take long to figure out that you are lying.

[Anonymous]

What is a NSA?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is a NSA?

“No strings attached” aka no obligations or commitment to each other, just fun

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I dated online for over 15 years and one thing I learned was to lie and say that I was looking for a long-term relationship. My chances with women increased greatly when I lied. When I list myself is looking for something casual I didn't do nearly as well. Just beware of what people say.

45 year old man, and I definitely did better when I changed by profile to make it look like I was looking for a LTR. But then again, I was open for a LTR even though I was definitely fine with casual NSA. I suppose the only difference was some women would only have sex in a LTR and that's fine too.

Many relationships start as casual and grow over time, especially in the divorced dating world.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I fit your standards, OP, but date 20s.

LOL, sure you do.

In DC it's very easy if you have a career and stay in shape.

[Anonymous]

I’m 52 and I may be giving myself away here but in my profile I say I’m not looking for a LTR but that with the right person I know that lightning can strike. What I have found is that many women feel the same way and are open to seeing what happens. I have had one LTR over the last 7 years but the others were great NSA Relationships that lasted 3-6 months or until the DTR came up. A couple of them continue to be good friends which has been great.