God grant me patience and peace today -- we're separating in a week or so

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I mean how many DH’s with cheating wives who hired PI’s to “help with custody” could there be?

OP here. My reasons for hiring a PI have nothing to do with custody. I expect 50/50. It has to do with alimony. I do not wish to pay her alimony for the rest of her life since she cheated. My lawyer said I was at risk for that. She is capable of earning and will need to do so. Also, I can file for at-fault and be done in a year instead of having it drag out for two.

Fingers crossed.

Amen brother

And cheaters flock together. Look closely at her friends and tell their husbands

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you’re really worrying me. You post every day. Pour that time and energy into doing something healthy. This is not good for you or your kids.

Op has posted a few times over the past few days. His posts have been reasonable and the number of his posts has been reasonable. If he needs to continue posting a few times, or if he decided to increase his posts by a lot, why can’t you let him do that?

Seriously! Isn't that the purpose of this forum? Don't listen to the sole hater, OP.

[Anonymous]

sorry OP. Stay within the rising spirit. You and your kids are presumably healthy. Wishing you a peaceful 2019!

[Anonymous]

It will be difficult for a while based on the affair. From experience, you have to let it go. It will only make you bitter and unhappy. Priority has to be on you and your kids. They will love you for it and you will the results for healthy kids. Your XW should not be impacting you for actions that she did. It will get better.