In laws won't help with DD, am I wrong to be mad at her?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What the heck was your plan for the baby? She raised her children. She doesn’t have to raise yours. You took massive advantage of your mother, now you are mad because you can’t do the same with your MIL. If you “can not afford daycare” then one of you needs to quit your job and go even more into debt.

Sheesh.

[Anonymous]

Good for your mother in law. She raised her kids, you need to raise yours. Your sound like a pain. I doubt your kid has severe separation anxiety, I think you are crazy. I drop my kid odd at daycare a d for a few weeks they cried at every drop off. You establish that they are safe and that you will come back. Grow up OP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So let me get this straight - MIL agreed and then changed her mind the very next day and now you’re ‘scrambling for child care??’
You sure are a piece of work!!

Since your mother came here to be your live-in help here for months I’d say that your parents must have raised you wrong.
You are an entitled, pushy nit wit!

Get off your rear and either hire a nanny or find a day care center for your child.

And then invite your MIL and FIL for Sunday supper - every week. And yes - you make it!

PS I love how your title says that you are mad at your in-laws and then you light into your MIL only..

OK, that part is ridiculous. OP should do that if MIL was watching DD. But here? Nope.

What? She needs to start thinking of what she can do for other people. It’s way past time for her to have friends up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So let me get this straight - MIL agreed and then changed her mind the very next day and now you’re ‘scrambling for child care??’
You sure are a piece of work!!

Since your mother came here to be your live-in help here for months I’d say that your parents must have raised you wrong.
You are an entitled, pushy nit wit!

Get off your rear and either hire a nanny or find a day care center for your child.

And then invite your MIL and FIL for Sunday supper - every week. And yes - you make it![/b]

PS I love how your title says that you are mad at your in-laws and then you light into your MIL only..

OK, that part is ridiculous. OP should do that if MIL was watching DD. But here? Nope.

What? She needs to start thinking of what she can do for other people. It’s way past time for her to grow up. And if she makes weekly family dinners her MIL will definitely have a relationship with her DD.

[Anonymous]

When Jesus was born, Mary did not start looking for childcare. OP, you do the same. Become like Mary and don't leave your baby Jesus in the manger. Be the parent.

And please get your tubes tied. One child is hard but two are exponentially harder.

[Anonymous]

Break that separation anxiety now and ASAP. I used to teach K and the kids who were the worst were the ones who were home with a parent or relative solo all day befor school started.

[Anonymous]

Your MIL has the right to be a nanny to your child.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When Jesus was born, Mary did not start looking for childcare. OP, you do the same. Become like Mary and don't leave your baby Jesus in the manger. Be the parent.

And please get your tubes tied. One child is hard but two are exponentially harder.

Op is this your only plan?

Time to grow up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

We tried daycare before but DD did not do well at all. She has really bad separation anxiety and just cried the whole time there. We had to pull her out and asked my mom to stay a little longer. We also cannot afford a nanny.

Your child's separation anxiety was so bad that you pulled her out of daycare and admit that she has not warmed up to MIL, but you expect your MIL to care for a crying-ass baby three days a week, I'm assuming for free?

Stop being cheap and put the baby in daycare. She's going to cry either way, at least place her in an environment where people are equipped to handle her.