| The fact that this is so SCANDALOUS to you kind of gives me pause and makes me think about your own immaturity in addition to these circumstances. And, possibly, his own immaturity if dating undergrads is his MO. Yuck. I've been with my 10 year older guy for 8 years, so that doesn't bother me. Your young age does though, and if you were my daughter I wouldst be thrilled. |
Op here and I don’t live in DC or anywhere near by ? sooooo calm down you won’t wvee find out who he is |
He has never dated a student before. And I don’t find this “scandalous” I just wanted to know if this is a common occurrence amongst professors/undergrads |
| I do not see a problem with this relationship, as you are a former student. |
| People will think it's funny. My now husband was my ta. It's not a big deal. You know what is a big deal though? Living with a professor in the middle of nowhere. It happens a lot. |
| Cringe inducing age difference. |
| as long as you're not his student it's fine and dating/sleeping with older men is one of the best parts of being early 20's. Enjoy! Safely! |
| I dated a professional at my college for 3 years it was great he was too old for me but a great friend and lover |
| professor |