Friend cried over me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She still says she isn't ruling it out so there is still hope.
She admitted to kissing a man before and said it could have gone further but didn't. This is her first affair and she has been seeing him for 8 months now. Yet she herself says it isn't serious with him.
We went to a mutual friends party the other week with the kids and it was upsetting. We were laughing and joking with each other and the others at the party but it felt like it wasn't her.
We have a lot of reconnecting to do but I still believe this situation could turn around for the better.

OK, I'll play along if you are willing to explain some things (even though your writing is that of a woman). So how does this work? You are still living together as H & W, sleeping in the same bed? You watch the kids while she goes out to have sex with her AP, then comes home to you like nothing happened? Give us a bit more detail on how you know she is with the AP? How does she explain that to you? Do you still have a (now shared) sex life with her?